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MISSING MY FRIENDS
Posted:Sep 30, 2006 2:30 pm
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2006 9:57 pm
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I am just writing a quick post from a coffee shop computer to let everyone know that I'm doing well and also that I miss this wonderful world very much. I hope everyone is having a great time here and also in their every day life. Love from me to all of you !
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I'm Still Alive, But My Computer Is Dead
Posted:Jul 29, 2006 1:05 pm
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2006 9:55 pm
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If anyone has been wondering where I have been, my computer has come down with a wicked a wicked virus for the second time in less than one year. I won't spend the money to fix it this time.... there is little point in spending any more money on a nearly five year old, outdated machine. It makes more sense to buy a new one, but I cannot afford to do that for awhile. Right now, I'm at a coffee shop using their computer which is quite difficult to do when going onto this site with people around me ! Also, I can use it for a limited time. Therefore, I won't be able to write much or visit any of my favorite blogs for awhile. I cannot believe how much I miss doing that ! Please know that I will continue to think of all of my dear friends during my absence. I hope everyone is having a great, and safe Summer !
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A Perfect Fourth ( Almost )
Posted:Jul 4, 2006 11:39 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2021 7:14 pm
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Well, July Fourth is now over in my time zone. It was an absolutely BEAUTIFUL day ! I enjoyed some wonderfully delicious food, and later a spectacular fireworks display in town over Lake Bemidji. It would have been a completely perfect day if I only had a certain person to share it with. I hope everyone else who celebrates this day had a wonderful one as well. Btw, I hope this picture I took tonight will display properly.
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Inquiry Into Sexual Honesty ( Fictional Exchange )
Posted:Jul 2, 2006 10:34 pm
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2006 12:47 pm
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............. A hot Summer evening. He finishes mowing the grass and enters the house, heading for the shower in the master bedroom. Dusk has fallen outside and the interior of the house is dark, save for a flickering light being emitted from the open door of the bedroom at the end of the hallway. With the temperature much cooler in the house, the sweat he has produced while mowing the lawn begins to condense and form into rivulets which flow down his uncovered torso. His faded jeans become soaked around the waistband, and, down a little lower.

He walks into the room and beholds the most beautiful vision ever: his gorgeous woman propped up by several pillows on the bed, watching a favorite romantic film on the television screen. She is wearing an exquisite, two-toned purple plunging bra and matching panties. Her knees are drawn upward and the soles of her feet rest flatly upon the top sheet. His eyes are immediately directed towards her hands, which are laying across her stomach. He notices that she has each of her index fingers hooked around the narrow band of the thong. Quite slowly and deliberately, she pulls upward and the silky fabric parts her outer lips and begins to reveal the outline of her clit.

With a sly, innocent turn of her head, she looks over at him, now standing beside the bed.
" Oh, I didn't hear you come in Sweetie. Umm, you look soooo .... hottt ! "
" I don't think I'm that kind of hot at the moment; just hot and some kind of smelly !"
" Yeah, Babe, but that hard working look ..... and fragrance really excites me !!!!! "
" Really ? So that is why you were playing with your hot little pussy when I walked into the room ? You were doing it before you knew I was even in the room !"
" No, I was watching you while you were mowing and DAMN ! You looked so sexy pushing that machine up the hill ! I just came in here after you shut the mower off. I turned the movie on and began to think about you again ...... couldn't help myself !"
" Looks to me that you are doing a pretty good job of that ........ helping yourself "
" Yes Hun, but I prefer your touch over my own !"
" Well, Sexy, will you be able to survive a little anticipation while I shower ? I don't want to touch you with all of this grass, dirt, and sweat covering me."
" Ok, I will try to wait, but if you hear some loud moaning and ear-splitting cries of passion ...... "
" Then I need to haul my ass into the shower !"
" Wait just a second, Babe. Do you see that woman on the screen ? I think she looks so much like my friend, * V * What do think ?"
" I guess that she might."
" What do you mean by 'Guess' ? Don't you know what * V * looks like ? You have certainly seen her enough times ! "
" Sure I know what * V * looks like, but I don't stare at her or study her face or body."
" Really ? well if you did, you might notice that she looks very much like me ! In fact, when we are out together many people believe that we are sisters !"
" Uhhh, now that I'm picturing * V *, that does sound like an easy conclusion to make."
" Now that we agree that * V * and I look alike, Do you think that she is HOT ? Do want to fuck her ?"
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WHAT IS MY BLOGVILLE ROLE ?
Posted:Jul 2, 2006 1:38 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2006 7:48 pm
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Well, I have been thinking about that question ever since my friend, 1hotwahine, asked me what I would like for it to be, when I commented upon one of her posts that I really didn't know what my role was here. Her post examined various roles that each blogger fulfilled in this community and asked each person to leave a comment which described how they felt they fit into the scenario.

After a couple of weeks of thought (Yes, I'm a little slow ! ) I do know the role I would most like to represent here. This may be somewhat difficult to picture, but I see my persona being a combination of several diverse, known characters. If all of the remarkable traits of these characters could be combined into one person ( ME ) that would best exemplify how I would wish to be perceived in Blogville. So, who are these characters ? Ok, this will sound a little weird, but for those whom actually know me, they may understand. My complilation would include: Rhett Butler; Superman; John Walton ( From the television series " THE WALTON'S ). Certainly this requires stretching the imagination to conceive of anyone possessing these disparate personality quirks and physical skills. Then again, I'm just a little different !

Now, has anyone else figured out what my Blogville role actually is ?
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New Idea To begin Second Year Of Blogging
Posted:Jun 29, 2006 12:09 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2006 12:08 am
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Today, I will begin my second year of posting upon this blog. Perhaps a fresh approach for this particular post might serve to revive my blog somewhat. Earlier this evening while e-mailing some photos to a friend, I thought of an idea for a different sort of entry here. I was so fortunate to view an incredible sunset over the lake tonight and capture the image which sparked this thought. Now that pictures attached to posts may be clicked on for enlargement, they may be seen with so much more clarity and detail than was possible previously.

I hope everyone is still with me here ! What I propose is for anyone with the desire, to click on this picture study it, immerse yourself in it. Then write a comment about how you would feel being out there, why you are there, what is happening, etc. And / or, for those whom may know me well enough, write what you believe I was thinking or doing when this picture was taken. As far as I know, there is no limit on the length of comments, so feel free to write as much as you wish, just like this is your own blog.
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First Blog Year Winding Up
Posted:Jun 26, 2006 9:57 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2006 11:22 pm
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On Wednesday, June 28, 2006, I will celebrate the first anniversary of the creation of my blog here. I actually began reading the blogs shortly after their inception, but was hesitant to start writing my own posts. I did not know if anyone would find interest in my writing and I was not sure if it would be worth my effort to post anything. Additionally, I don't know how to type, therefore, in comparison to most bloggers, it would take me probably ten times as long as to construct a post! After a few months of reading & sometimes commenting upon other blogs, I decided to emerge from the shadows and create my own blog.

My first post received comments from six ladies ! Wow ! I was relieved that someone noticed me and found the post worthy of leaving comments. Perhaps they found me while reviewing the newly created blogs list ? However they located me, it felt good to receive some positive responses. Four months later, I met two of those ladies at the Bloggers convention in Chicago. The decision to write that first post was one I will never regret !

During this past year, there have been periods where I spent considerable time here, fairly regular time, and some periods of lapsed time between visits. My number of posts is fairly low ----- this one will only make it 85. Still a fair distance to go to reach the 100 post milestone which many fairly new bloggers have already surpassed. I have often considered giving up this blog. So much has happened in my personal and family life this past year that has made writing quite difficult. But the kindness and support of a few friends that I have been blessed with here, gives me all the reason I need to keep this blog open. Thank all of you !
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Whatever Happened To ...........
Posted:Jun 26, 2006 12:35 am
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2006 1:42 am
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Writing or speaking directly about a subject, a situation, an idea, or an opinion ? It amazes me how people these days cannot utter the words " I made a mistake ". Instead, they phrase it, " I made a poor choice ". Another example is the how the word " Problem " has been deleted from usage. I don't have any problems; you don't have any problems; we don't have any problems; the world does not have any problems. No, but now, everyone and everything has " Issues " ! These issues cannot be left alone, and they are immediately considered to be " Opportunities " Is this all just a method of sugar-coating the truth ?

In my lifetime, I have made many terrible mistakes. I made mistakes because of problems I was having and that resulted in even greater future problems. I also made mistakes without even realizing it ....... not until the inevitable problems appeared.

It seems to me that it is better to be more direct and concise in communication. That way, there is less room for errors and it definitely comes off as being more forthright and honest.
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Which One Lies More : The Mirror Or The Camera ?
Posted:Jun 12, 2006 11:02 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2019 8:33 pm
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This is a weird post for me to write, but for whatever reason today, I thought about something that someone once said to me regarding how I look. This person commented that my image in a mirror did not resemble my actual appearance. Now, I'm uncertain if this person believed I looked better in actual view or in the mirror reflection. I don't think that I look too bad in a mirror as long as the lighting is not too harsh. As for photographs, well, I don't really like how I appear and hardly even recognize myself because the image ingrained in my mind, is what I see in the mirror each day and it simply does not match what is captured by the camera. I have often heard it said that cameras add ten pounds when the pictures are printed. Also, anyone who drives a car has noticed the little warning note affixed to the right side mirror which states " Objects in mirror may be closer than they appear " . So, even the car manufacturers know that mirrors distort images. It seems as though we are unable to accurately see what we look like. Only other people ( Provided that they have adequate vision ) truly know how we look. There is the old adage, " Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder ". Well, perhaps this should be changed to include truth or reality. From now on, if anyone compliments you upon your appearance, accept it graciously for they know better than you do ! Mirrors and cameras do lie. As for people, I hope that we may trust them a little more.
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How would one ever know ?
Posted:Jun 5, 2006 10:07 pm
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2006 9:29 pm
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I have been praying for a certain change to be enacted in someone's life for several months. Recently, I learned that my prayers for this person were at the threshold of fruition. I felt complete elation upon receiving this news ! My heart simply became overwhelmed with joy and I believe that I must have had the biggest smile ever cross my face !
In this particular instance, there was no way for me to know if other people prayed for this specific alteration to occur. Perhaps I was among a group of people united in hope and faith ? Maybe I was the only person to actively pray for this on a daily basis ? Nonetheless, there is simply no way of knowing if my prayers had any bearing or influence upon this incredible happening. It could certainly have taken place without any wishful thoughts or prayers from me. But, what amazed me so much, was that my prayers for another person were actually on the verge of being answered, regardless of any link to me. I truly cannot express how thrilled I am for this person. My prayers will forevermore continue.
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I'm Still Around, But ......
Posted:Jun 1, 2006 9:36 pm
Last Updated:Jul 3, 2006 12:55 am
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I will be rather occupied for the next few weeks with my family. I probably won't have much time to read and comment upon my favorite blogs, nor to write many of my own thoughts here, either. Whenever I do have some free, alone time, I will sign-in for awhile to check on my friends here, or to write if something begs to be released from my mind. Also, I may post on my other blog during this period because it does not display all of the graphic images and text that appears when logged onto this site ! For the remainder of this Summer, I most likely will not be on-line as often due to having so much work to complete before the long Minnesota Winter returns. I will continue to sign-in to my I/M at the usual place.
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LEGACY : What will it be ?
Posted:May 23, 2006 9:42 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2019 8:35 pm
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This is a question I have been pondering recently. When I was a younger man, I often felt as though I would be involved in something very important and on a large scale --- that I would be widely recognized for some accomplishment. Thus far, nothing like this has occurred in my lifetime. Aside from my family and a few friends, my life progresses nearly invisible to most of the world. Nonetheless, I do wish to leave something positive behind on this path that I have struggled to clear. Perhaps if I dedicate my efforts towards writing, I may just complete a work that someone would still be interested in reading many years after my passing. Also, I would like to leave behind more tangible evidence of my presence here, such as all of the building projects I have completed. But most of all, I wish to be remembered for my intense love, passion, and awe of the beauty abounding in the natural world.

Now, I have come to understand that my great role or purpose in life most likely will be brought to fruition by my . I strive for them to be free from feeling any limitations in their lifetime endeavors. It just may be that through them, I might facilitate something exceptional happening in this world in the future.
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How Tragic
Posted:May 15, 2006 10:24 pm
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2006 12:25 am
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This past weekend, the night before Mother's Day, a high school Prom was being held in a town about seventy miles from my home. A sixteen year old boy was driving his date, a sixteen year old girl, to the Prom in a black Chevy Corvette that he had borrowed from his godfather. They had only known each other for a few days, having been introduced by a friend. The girl was from the Minneapolis area which is about two hundred miles away. Apparently, they immediately liked each other and decided to attend his Prom.

At some point while driving on a rural, two lane road to the high school where the event was taking place, the boy crossed over the center line of the road and collided head-on with a Jeep Cherokee being driven by another . Three young lives came to an end on that highway. No one was wearing a seat belt. At the Prom, the boy's father had been waiting for their arrival to take pictures. When the couple did not show, he went out looking for them along the route they would have taken. What he found was police cars blocking the road. A police officer told him what had happened and mentioned that a black Corvette had been involved in the accident. Immediately, this man knew that his was dead.

This tragic story affected me greatly. One week earlier, I drove my to his Prom. I took many pictures of him together with his date. I don't know how I would survive if this accident had happened to my . My heart and my prayers go out to those three families who lost their on the eve of Mother's Day.
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