The World is a Great Place
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Posted:Nov 17, 2011 10:25 am
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2011 7:21 pm
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If you pay attention to the news you would think the world is going to blow up shortly or the 2012 prophecy is going to become real.
One of the great things about an adult site is the members who are looking for something positive. They have decided to look for what others only dream or fantasize about while they are doing it the same way...again.
I have had the great fortune of creating connections, in and out of a bedroom. Of course, the ideal final destination is a bed or a place to connect sexually. There are those of us who appreciate a kitchen table, shower, roof of a car and the options get crazier the more profiles you read. The underlying theme is fun, pleasure and making memorable moments and people connections.
You want to counter the negative news you hear on television? Spend your time perusing the profiles, watching the homemade videos and looking at the pictures people are sharing. Regardless of the "non-match" profiles I read, I still like looking and knowing that in a world there are others focused on living and enjoying the pleasures that are bountifully available!
If the world is not bad- it is full of good people, great adventures, moments that take your breath away and experiences that no television show can capture.
This is the best reality show and I enjoy skipping the news and the doomsayers.
Even the worse reply I get from this site puts a smile on my face.
"If it is not a good time, it is a goo story!"
Enjoy the search.
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Why Such Standards?
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Posted:May 30, 2011 9:31 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2011 10:09 am
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Is it me or has anyone else noticed the increase in "standard" members? Is it a ploy for us to add on the extra fee to give these non-members the opportunity to be in contact with us?
I took a break and was wondering what took place in the interim.
Has the value of membership dropped? I did leave for a few months so maybe I am answering my own question.
The site has provided plenty of connections and great memories facilitated by my membership on the site.
You can't expand your circle and get into the party if the gate is locked and access is not granted.
I hope they are real and are testing the water before they dive in- the water is fine, as well as most of the people on here!
Be well
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Autobot Flirts
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Posted:Sep 21, 2010 8:04 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 2:20 am
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Am I the only one who seems to be flirtalicious to these women who I have not interest in meeting? Seriously? You are a 27 year old hottie, most likely with plenty of boytoy's chasing you and for some reason you feel the need to send me a flirt. Yeah, right. Flattered I should be more pissed by the fact that you are an automated, standard member who is spamming me for ???? AdultFriendFinder, come on- my self esteem is high enough I do not need you throwing me chicks that I am not interested or will never find stimulating enough to connect. At least make them real and a week later their profile is still up and not inactive. Nothing more like a list of canceled profiles who flirted with you to encourage me to cancel my silly subscription.
Anyone else getting the extra attention or is it just lucky me? Where is Austin Powers to help me with the flirt bots when I need him!
So, to the girls who are sending flirts out like they are condoms passed out by planned parenthood- save your index finger some work and stop hitting send.
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Do not be crude or rude but who really has an interesting attitude?
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Posted:Jun 10, 2010 3:04 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2010 8:04 pm
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So I am preparing for a trip outside my usual haunts and happen to be reading profiles because I want to check out the local offerings. Like any location of the country, there are interesting, attractive and intelligent people who I would be interested in exploring a possible connection leading to some nice sexual memories. I hit a set of profiles where they list their criteria for connecting with men- a lot of the same pablum that has turned reading profiles into a blur that makes it hard to distinguish one from the next one. I start to notice that a bunch start harping on men about exposing their manhood and that is not what they do not want to see. They are in search of intelligent men who have some class. I hear their request but as I am looking at their profile pictures I start laughing. The pictures of their caslopuss ( thanks Chelsea Handler)in different poses and topless shots are appreciated but it seems a bit ironic. They do not want to see any cock, dick, penis shots because it is crude, rude and they are searching for something deeper- I get and support that but ladies- if you are showing your goods- (and most were good)do not chastise the men for showing their stuff when you have yours on your page.
I am a visual learner so show me all you want but do not blast the males when everyone else is showing their stuff. Realize that we have seen as many nasty clams as you have seen disgusting one eyed snakes but it is the nature of the site.
No, you will not see any rude, crude pictures of me unless you are in my network and even then they are pretty tame.
Do not rail against what you are exposing yourself.
Gotta go take a picture of the my that they will not allow on the site LOL
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Hey Neighbor
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Posted:Mar 30, 2010 4:29 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2010 5:05 pm
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Well it finally happened and it is about time! I was doing a search and came across a neighbor on the site. The profile was screaming at me to look at it and view what they have listed in their introduction. As I read their desire of "getting together" with another couple the meaning of the backyard bar-b-ques was totally enhanced. No longer was I going to turn down the invitation to come share some burgers and an adult beverage.
Each invitation was now a opportunity to let them know about the secret lifestyle handshake and that we were in the same club. I wondered about sending a message and letting them know they were not alone and I was close by if they ever needed a quick bar-b-que guest. I would be more then willing to drop everything I was doing and come right over. My buddies wife was not unattractive and she could cook a mean steak. I knew from this point on I would be watching the process of how any and everything went into her mouth. Every conversation we had in the "men's" group about women was now going to have a different connotation when it came out of his mouth. No longer was each little touch by her going to be something I would avoid noticing.
I read over the profile and and the extra questions to get more insight into the likes and dislikes they had. I wanted to see if there was a connection that would take us to another level of friendship. I found myself starting to wonder what she would be like in bed as I hopefully brought her to a climax. Would it be satisfying enough? Would I be "better" then her hubby, my friend? I created scenarios in which she could not keep her hands off me because she now knew I knew and it was o.k.
I started to think about the conversations her hubby and I would have if we were in the jacuzzi and things get hotter then the water temperature. Would he mind me looking at her as she left the water naked- because that is the way I imagined us in the sex spa. The new name for the old tired jacuzzi.
My mind started to fantasize about all the new things we would be doing and where we would be doing them.
I just knew that fun was going to be sitting one street over.
Then the sex bubble burst.
We only play with people from out of town. The bar-b-que was never going to be the same......for me ugh.
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Sabbatical Over
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Posted:Mar 11, 2010 11:37 am
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 2:20 am
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Abscence makes the heart grow fonder? On occasion that is true but also allows you to see some things a little clearer. If you are in the painting you tend to get a view that does not allow appreciation of the work being created. It also clouds your perspective and you are blinded and miss the areas that need a little work. After not being on the site for a few months I decided to check and see what the new paintings that have been created and appreciate the masterpieces that were on the site when I took a break.
I also had the opportunity to explore another component of the adventurous lovers of pleasure. All I can say is , WOW are we some freaky, pleasure loving people. After the last three months I feel like the surface is only be scratched by most on this site. Of course to each their own but it was nice to experience a different type of pleasure, fun and sexual moments to add to the memory banks.
Life is short and I will say that I still have little patience for the lookie loo's and voyeurs because that is not my modus operandi- but if it gets you off- more power to you.
As for the rest of us, thanks for adding more pieces of art,to the gallery of life. Each piece has an admirer, somewhere!
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Piece of Meat
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Posted:Dec 10, 2008 3:14 pm
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2010 11:25 am
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So I am looking over the "people who viewed you" section and I am impressed. There is a healthy number of people perusing my profile but I noticed that they are not sending notes or corresponding in any way. Just looking and going on their merry little way. I read my profile to insure that I did not actually post my " Jerry MaGuire" version of what I really want to say on the home page- it might scare some and attract others.
I guess it is like marketing- you have to figure out what the customer wants and what they are looking for out of the product, event, relationship.
So I am thinking about just putting up a picture of Gumby since he is so flexible and see what responses I get.
My suggestion- after looking at the pictures, offer a word of thanks, suggestion or a simple hello. It might give some of our fellow perverts an idea on how to get better responses or be moer compassion and offer one. Happy viewing.
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Adventurous? Really? Stop blowing smoke up your own .....
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Posted:Oct 15, 2008 10:03 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2008 8:49 pm
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This is getting hilarious! I am perusing the profiles looking at the descriptions and the "mood" selections attached. Seems there is a run on the mood "adventurous" or they must be awarding points if you select it as your descriptor. How ironic that the people selecting this word have the "Too-ism" disease when you read about what they are supposedly looking for on this site. What is the Too-ism disease? They read your profile and this is what they might be thinking as they pass you by,too big, too small, too light, too dark, too far, too old, too young, I think you get the picture LOL They find plenty of reasons to disqualify you without going past the electronic words used create a connection.
how adventurous is it to skip without exploring? How adventurous is it to keep connecting with the same type, situation you have already experienced? Comfortable, complacent or apathetic are better moods that should be chosen.
Adventurous took place when you first signed upon your first adult site- that was a big step for many. Sending a note to someone on the site was a step in that direction- how about responding to a note you received- remember that feeling?
I got kissed by a guy the other night- not by choice but by ethnic group. He is Italian and owns a restaurant. If you noticed most are struggling, his no exception, especially since it is fine dining. I walk in with a few friends= customers and he is happy. Kisses me on the cheek, no problem in my world, I am secure with my sexuality and it was on the cheek. A few of my male friends are stunned but they will get over it.
Adventurous? Really? When was the last time you responded to someone offering a different experience then what you have been choosing lately?
A kiss on the cheek, too weird for some and ho hum for others.
Adventurous? Try it again, you might find out what you really are missing....again
Sorry this TOO long!
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Paying attention to the little things
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Posted:Oct 11, 2008 3:41 pm
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2008 3:39 pm
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Well, amazing how little things become big things years later. Should not have had Bill Ayers on the same board to help others. Maybe I should not have gotten so mad at my sisters ex- husband. Perhaps I should have skipped the meeting with the bankers who were not telling me the truth. Next time I share a thought I will slow down so my mind is sure what is coming out it what I mean.
Those little things are coming back to haunt the people who want to help us.
What would happen if we paid attention to the things right in front of us, the people who we impact with our individual actions. The next time you are railing on the people running for office because they mispronounced a word, spoke like a person in your circle of friends or because they have a different point of view- think closer to home.
When you were going down between her legs did you pay as much attention when she whimpered as you made your way to her favorite spot? When you were on top of your partner extracting his juices were you looking at his eyes as he got closer to nirvana? When she was wearing the outfit that she has worn hundreds of times,that you have now taken for granted even though at one time it was your favorite- did you tell she stills gets your blood boiling?
How about the last time you were at the house party and he was appreciating the outfit on one of the other female partiers- did you notice the outfit or the woman?
Pay attention to the things that impact your immediately and you will see that the bigger things that happen on a larger stage are not as important as the person next to you.
Go vote and then go fuck.
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Open Minds
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Posted:Sep 23, 2008 11:07 pm
Last Updated:Oct 11, 2008 3:23 pm
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What was the last thing you did that was different and had nothing to do with Sex? Many of us seem to be open minded when it comes to getting our rocks off but seem to be a little bit more conservative when it comes to day to day situations. Hint, lighten up, go thru the day as if there was positive adventure waiting with the next responsibility they give you. It will make you a better partner when you get home and a happier colleague at work.
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