I guess it's time for me to admit (mostly to myself) that I have found someone worthy enough to occupy ALL of my time. Although, there's no "official" declaration of a monogamous relationship, it's quite clear neither of us feels the need to search for something else (unless the other is part of the deal!) [COLOR red][B]UPDATE: The "monogamous relationship" has been officially declared. We are now married and very happy![/B][/COLOR] I came here searching for amusement/entertainment.... I have found that. (Have I EVER!) [COLOR blue][B]Seems I managed to find a husband on this "sex site", too! RUN!!! (giggles) I thought I was avoiding that whole situation rather well by posting here. I was tricked! It's a conspiracy.....(ok, I'm done!)[/B][/COLOR] I have made some interesting friends. I have admired, from afar, quite a few talented bloggers on this site. I cannot just turn and walk away from that kind of fixation. So, my profile will remain...as such. I am still this same per and still have the same convictions....I would never discard the opportunity to allow someone to captivate me. I leave the mailbox open, however, I am no longer on the "prowl". I am here to read and write about EVERYTHING (since that includes some naughty details, I must remain.) Some answers: Ya Gotta Lick it ~ or Ya Gotta Like it??? Seems they go hand in hand....so, BOTH!...is my answer. However, the handle originated from a g by an obscure (and ODDLY humorous) band called 20 Fingers. The chorus ~ "Ya gotta lick it. So we can kick it. Ya gotta get it soft and wet, so we can kick it." That's, very simply, all it ever was to me...a handle and a g! What is so shocking about my occupation? My favorite "guess" remains ~ pri guard ~ THAT had me giggling for days!!! But, I am simply an electrician...so, really....if I shock ya, then, I'm not very good at what I do! Yes, I really squirt and, no, I have not measured the distance. (nor will I.) I have been, and will continue to be, curious about the folks that venture in here. We all have our reas. Sometimes, rea has no rhyme. Good luck and HAVE FUN! See ya in Blogville!!!! Fun-loving, free spirit! Extremely sensual (and sexual, for that matter). I'm looking to: (a) broaden my horizons and make new friends. (b) enjoy "no-expectation" encounters. I'm not averse to commitment...stranger things have happened! (haha) I'm just not expecting or searching for that. (c) a partner to enjoy the finer things in life. By "finer" things I mean getting out and about, enjoying each others company (outside of the bedroom, as well), seeing and doing! I'm not looking for a sex only relationship. There really needs to be a little more. I expect to be respected and will be respectful of you. I want to be wined and dined a little, if you will. Not materialistically speaking...... I want a friendship that contains kindness, tenderness, mutual pleasure, wild and fun times, honesty. If we only spend "15 minutes" together; I want to feel as if for that 15 minutes you would rather be nowhere else in the world....with no one else in the world. You don't have to love me just make me feel loved. If you don't "get" what I'm saying, keep searching. I refuse to be a throw-away sex toy. I deserve better than that! I'm very independent and extremely capable of taking care of myself (and others!) I'm open-minded and easy-going. Active, yet relaxed. Friendly, flirtatious and feisty! Above all, I put the FUN in dysFUNctional! hahaha If you have the good fortune to know me (wink) You'll understand what that means..it's not necessarily a bad thing. If you want to know more about who I am and why I'm here.... check out my Blog [blog yagottalikit] You will learn quite a bit. That is where I spend most of my time. (I tend to interact with most people through the various blogs, as well.)[B][/B][SIZE 10][/SIZE]

My Ideal Person I am no longer looking for a man who can read and understand what I wrote above. Attractive, thoughtful, cling-free, adventurous, open and giving. Of course physical attraction is necessary, but, I choose not to limit myself too much, for fear I might miss out on meeting some really great people. I want to meet fun and intelligent people with varied interests and hobbies. I am open to experiences with couples and swinging. However, I do not want it to be a "lifestyle" per se. More like a spontaneous and occassional delicacy.
Still open to friends and well, ya just never know! Afterall, he hasn't had his requisite threesome, yet....

Confidence is sexy...arrogance is not!

OK, I feel the need for an addendum.

Married/committed/attached/"prefer not to say" men,
Although I truly sympathize and understand there are circumstances in life that cause the need to "color outside of the lines", I do not wish to be the little mistress/other woman/slut sleeping with another woman's man...you get the idea....I'm realistic and know everyone needs attention...or just a little "sum-sum". There's plenty of it out there, it's just not for me. Been there. Done that. Enough said!

People....you will not see me naked unless we are face to face. (And THAT is NOT a given). I really have no need to see you in all of your glory either....I can browse through this site and see all the goodies I want. Please don't send these pic's to me in e-mail. I won't bother with a response. Yes, I realize this is a "sex site". Sex can be delicious when there's an element of surprise....I prefer to explore that territory in the flesh.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
hmmmm I wonder! MATCHBOX TWENTY!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Threesomes, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Rob Thomas!!!!!!! (and his wife, if I must....)
As long as he's singing to me, there's nothing
I wouldn't do with that man!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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