took a bit of a break from aff, but now im back again.! So little bit about myself. I'm currently a student studying in London. I'm kinda geeky, I love gaming, comics, anime, etc (if you have any good recommendations let me know) . I'm not a huge fan of reality tv so might not be the best per to talk about strictly x factor get me out of here bake off. I usually prefer quiet nights in rather than clubbing, but I like going out to good restaurants and bars or any place where I can sit down, have a good meal and get to have a fun time with friends or someone new. I can be the intelligent and sophisticated gentleman if the setting is right. It feels nice to wear a suit for occasions like that. When it comes to sex I'd like to know a per a bit before jumping in the bed. If you have kinks, let me know, maybe we can explore them together

My Ideal Person Don't really have a specific person in mind, though if i had to set a minimum id say be friendly

For the women, I suppose I'm more of the cuddler. I like to get a bit close to the person I'm with. I love women of any shapes or sizes and of any ages. That being said that doesn't mean I'm after everyone. A good friendly personality is a must. Vanity and a superiority complex and I just don't want to talk to you. If you have anything that you're particularly passionate or interested in that would be great. Its a good way to talk about something that gives me a little bit more knowledge or lets me see what makes you tick

For the guys, to say guys, but unlike women I'm a bit more pickier with you. I prefer in shape and well groomed guys. I'm not a particularly huge fan guys my age around here since it seems all they can think about is sex and NO OTHER TALKING POINTS. If you can show that you can be civil and interesting than you have my attention. If you message me first don't mention sex. Give me something to talk about then we can move on from there. Also unfortunately I'm going to have to say I'm not partial to really older gentleman. Flattering but I'm not often attracted to the older gentleman unless they look physically in shape and are interesting and sophisticated to talk with.

For Trans people. I enjoy any attention you give me. and the rules are generally the same as for women. If you are nice to talk with and enjoy cuddles as well as some of the more raunchier aspects of the bed, do say hello. Vanity is a big no.

For couples. I'm bi and I'd prefer if you'd be ok with that. There seems to be quite a few couples where the woman is bi, the guy is straight but the guy doesnt want another guy who might be attracted to him near him. Thats fine but if you don't want me to play with the guy I won't. Im ok being for lack of a better term "straight" for those kinds of couples. If both people are bi then that is fantastic and I'd love to hear from you. Though there still needs to be some attraction for both members. *UPDATE* I have been on occasion contacted by a couple where I was only attracted to one of the persons, but both were attracted to me. I'm sorry but I don't think its fair if I go along with it if I'm only attracted to one of the people.

NO MORE DICK PIC PROFILE PICS. Its flattering to get your attention but I HATE it when someone flirts/messages me and all they have is one dick pic on their entire profile. Thank you so much for that, as if there aren't a billion of those on the internet. It tells me nothing except that you think is your penis is your best asset.

I'd like to have a good conversation with the person I'm with if that hasn't been obvious already. If you send me a message I think Ive put in plenty of info here for you to write a message about. Though you can ask me something completely unrelated if you think you can put it in a good sentence.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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