STANDARD MEMBERS CAN CONTACT ME FREE OK, it's time for another re-write. First and I only hope to have to say this once, if you're from Nigeria or Ghana or Australia or ANY foreign country, please don't bother me. I am not interested in importing anyone into the USA. If you're not local to me so we can meet on a regular basis without includiing a travel agent in our plans, go have a seat with the scammers from Nigeria. No swingers, cheaters or druggies need apply. I'm drug & disease free (amazing as that sounds) You be too! Now, about me... I'll be 60 in November. Now, take a look at my profile photo. It's less than a year old. Do I LOOK 60? Nuff said. I have over 35 years experience in the BDSM/Fetish scene. I consider myself a loving dominant (Kudos to my friend John Warren for usurping the title to his book and if you haven't read it, you should!) I am an ardent extreme non-platform spike heel shoe fetishist. No, I don't want to kiss or worship or fuck your shoes. I want to see you IN them. I like the look, the effect, the walk and the submissive sensuality extreme spike heels instill in a person. I also appreciate the dressing accessories that go together with high heels. Corsets, stockings, garters, gloves and sensual, provocative bondage. The visual stimulates me to be a creative dominant that will strive to satisfy your quirks, needs and desires. Do NOT contact me or respond to me unless you wouldn't be caught DEAD in flip flops, wedgies, barefoot or in platforms. You appreciate sensual dressingh and matrials and enjoy the fine art of being feminine. With that all said, I want a relationship that's more than just sex and foreplay. I want someone to go out with to diners and 5 star restaurants, local movies or museums or the opera. Piano bars, jazz an comedy clubs. Life is there to be lived and I want some one or several to live it with. Someone I can carry on an intelligent conversation with about life, love and the happiness of pursuit. I'm looking for Mz Right but I'll settle for Mz Right Now. I can be your Daddy or your Master or we can be equals and swap responsibiities and roles. I'm flexible and most things with me are negotiable except the heels. I have 6 "P"'s of non negotiable no no's. No Pants No Pantyhose No Panties No Pubic hair No Platforms No Phishnets (I know that's not how it's spelled. I took poetic license to get my 6th P.) I own 3 online fetishwear shopping websites Elegant lavendar's Latex Lair and Leather For Lovers If you think you qualify, I expect photographic proof that includes full length photos of you in what I consider appropriate heels.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a lean, leggy petite playmate, preferably a genetic female but I will consider a TS (no TV's or CD's) already living full time as a female, for vanilla as well as BDSM/Fetish times together. You enjoy dressing provocatively and dress sexy because you enjoy it as much as I do, not just to please me. I do have some TV/CD friends but that is ALL that will ever come of a relationship with myself and a TV or CD.

I'm a face, legs and ass man. If you have small boobs that's OK, if they're large that's OK too, but I prefer the real thing to silicone or saline.

You are intelligent, outgoing, secure within yourself and not needy or clingy. Your submission to me is a gift that I will earn through developing trust and respect.

You are independent and secure in your own right. That means you have a job, preferably a career and you can support yourself. Your submission to me is mostly for playtime. In the real world you have a life and live it. If you can't stand on your own 2 feet in your daily life I don't want to know you. I am generous and giving to a fault, but no sugardaddy

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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