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Swinger Etiquette for a Party
I've found these rules over the years and thought I'd share with the group. If you are in or interested in the lifestyle, it's all about enjoying yourself!! Only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.
1. The first rule of the lifestyle is you don't talk about what happens at a party!!
2. Cell phones and cameras aren't allowed unless approved by the host.
3. Don't ruin someones mojo entering a room looking for a place to get busy when someone is already using the space.
4. Ask permission before joining an existing group.
5. Practice Safe Sex!!!
6. Do not bad mouth the host or club to others. If you have a problem, speak with the host directly the next day. If it’s an issue that needs immediate attention don’t wait until the next day. Find the host immediately and tell them your concerns.
7. Call or email the hosts to say thank you if you had a good time and let them know what you enjoyed or disliked so they can make the next function an even better one!
8. A lot of time swingers want to be 100% anonymous with everyone that is not a swinger.
9. Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears.
10. Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite.
11. RSVP means please reply to the invitation. It does NOT mean reply only if you plan to attend.
12. When you go to someone’s home for a party, ask if there is something you can bring. (
13. Take whatever you personally are going to need with you.
14. Clean body and breath when you arrive to the party. This doesn't mean you showered that morning when you woke up!
15. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself.
16. If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way
17. Everyone has the right to say “NO” at all times, to anyone, without explanation.
18. Put clean sheets on the bed(s)!
19. Plenty of clean washcloths and towels!
20. Couples arrive and leave together!!
21. Single men, if the party is for couples or single women only, don't try and be a TICKET!
22. Just because you go to the party, doesn't mean you're expected to play. You'll know when it's time.
23. Wear what is comfortable you at party. If you have questions, ask the host. TGIF = Tongue Goes In First!!!! |
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Naughtyfun thankyou for this information, not everyone knows. It is best up front. JIM | |||
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Knowing these simple rules helps everyone and when followed all can have a great time. Looking forward to your first meet-n-greet.
C&D | |||
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Thanks for the info NaughtyFun | |||
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Good to know thank you. | |||
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Point well put! | |||
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I will be new to this,nice to know the rules and etiquette | |||
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thanks for the post | |||
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Swinger Etiquette for a Party Good Advice, I Would Just Like To Add One Small Reminder And That Is "If MAMA Ain't Happy No Bodies Happy
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Interested never been in this lifestyle before |
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