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Lesbian Dating, Relationships, and Sexy Encounters

DrCristoff 44 M
3  Articles
RE: are all the people here just recruiters   4/12/2004

Not all profiles on here are "recruiters" as you call them. They do make up a very significant portion however, What I do is I send out messages with my email attached to them and they just send their phony replies right to there. I've found that for about 10 messages I send out I get 5-7 phony replies. So I estimate at least 50 percent of the extremely small number of women on here are ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 20 Votes ,5.29 Score
People on AdultFriendFinder   4/11/2004

Hi, I just wanted to say this is such a great way to meet people. I have met so many and so many good people. It is so much better than going out to bars and meeting people. Everyone is drinking and alot of the time it is so loud you can't hear what the other person is talking about. Well actually you can't even hardly hear yourself think. They say be careful of these sites and who ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 52 Votes ,8.28 Score
rm_lilnortylola 39 F
3  Articles
trust, love, friendship and the little things   4/10/2004

Guy's, as a woman, i know what women want; The key to a long lasting loving and happy relationship with a woman (read: you get sex, a woman, beer, boobs and bj's if your lucky)is giving her what SHE wants, because if you keep your femme happy; She'll keep YOU happy (nudge nudge wink wink). <br> Basically what every female wants is to not be made a fool when making the first ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 91 Votes ,9.50 Score
big or fat woman need some love to   4/9/2004

I AM BIG FEEL NO WOMAN WHO IS MY SIDE SHOULD NOT BE JUDGE BECAUSE WE HAVE EXTRA POUND OR EXTRA WEIGHT. IF THERE IS A LIMIT OF WEIGHT A WOMAN SHOULD BE BUT IF YOU FEEL THAT A SKINNING WOMAN GOT THE BEST PUSSY THEN YOU IS WRONG, YOU MEN SHOULD NEVER JUDGE A WOMAN THE WAY SHE LOOK, OR BUILT, BECAUSE IF YOU ARE LOOK FOR GOOD LOOK AND SEX BUILT YOU WILL NEVER FINE THAT SPECIAL WOMAN TO BE YOUR ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 53 Votes ,5.65 Score
fighting with Girl Friend   4/7/2004

My girl Friend is control me too seriously, can anybody help me, she always me not having enough time with her, always looking at other ladies, and don't want to have sex with me....


0 Comments, 22 Views, 26 Votes ,2.70 Score
how can i build a relationship with older women   4/7/2004

anyone who has any advice or information on how i can start a relationship with a older woman please message me and leave your e mail address so if i need any more help i can message you.


0 Comments, 42 Views, 27 Votes ,5.56 Score
how can i build a relationship with my mother   4/7/2004

anyone who has advice or information on how i can start a relationship with my mother please message me and leave your e mail address with your advice / information so if i need more information i can contact you for further details


0 Comments, 55 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
IS IT ME   4/6/2004

I HAVE TALKED TO SOME WOMAN ONLINE BY IM OR IN CHAT ROOMS AND NONE OF THEM SEEM TO WANT TO CHAT. I TRY TO COME UP WITH TOPICS TO TALK ABOUT, AND EVERYTIME TIME I MAKE A COMMENT OR ASK A QUESTION TO GET THE BALL ROLLING, ALL I GET IN RETURN IS A "YEAP" OR A "kOOOOOL", AND THATS IT. I KEEP TRYING UNTIL IVE SPENT ALL THE TOPICS I COULD THINK ABOUT AND THEN I JUST SIT THERE LOOKING AT A BLANK ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 40 Votes ,6.91 Score
The ration of women to men is as high as 10-1   4/2/2004

What are the best approaches to women in AdultFriendFinder as a married man seeking a LTR? Many women are distant and hard to approach


0 Comments, 5 Views, 19 Votes ,4.71 Score
sensualtemptress 46 F
1  Article
Sometimes, they don't get it   3/29/2004

Why is it that sometimes I tell my husband things and I know he hears me but he just blows me off? I don't get it. I know he's listening to me but he forgets it like the next 5 seconds. It's really irritating me and I have to tell him but I don't want to hurt his feelings. Any advice?


2 Comments, 21 Views, 16 Votes ,5.48 Score
I just don't get it   3/25/2004

I'm still relatively new to AdultFriendFinder, still a standard, and from what I've learned on the other FF sites, unless you get viewed a lot, you can't really view others, and unless you get e-mail from someone, you can't send mail - of course, correct me if I'm wrong (as I said, I'm still new here). <br> So what I don't get is why if someone who's a gold or silver, sends a wink, thus ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 19 Votes ,6.82 Score
Tinkawantsdaddy 49 F
12  Articles
Who said he or she doesn't respect a ?   3/22/2004

I know they do not need me to take part at this "discussion".Some of my customers are prostitudes and naturally I had no idea what to expect but made an apointment anyways .The girls turned out to be real nice (i was no threat there anyways but that being nice was meant to be in general), funny -wow did I hear a bunch of stories and had laughing attacks...unbelievable.Their job isn't always ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 37 Votes ,6.45 Score
Sex is important in a relationship. - but, not everything..   3/21/2004

Interesting that as I brouse through the faces and bodies that everone seems to be looking for the sex part of a relationship. Gang, aren't we missing something here??? Don't get me wrong, I love sex, it is the greatest but, sex just for sex, isn't very fulfilling, look for a personality too, then you have a chance of making a real connection, after the sex is finished and learn to really ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 55 Votes ,7.80 Score
rm_AkaPete 74 M
1  Article
Aka_Pete's Rules for subs   3/18/2004

Aka_Pete's Rules for subs ======================================================== Conditions: <br> Preliminary discussion on minor amendments to this document is acceptable, but if you cannot agree to it's general principles, the relationship ceases. Once you have accepted these rules and laws, they are not negotiable. The only subsequent changes will be made by me and ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 23 Votes ,3.60 Score
sex   3/16/2004

Sex is probably the most important part of any new relationship. Find out early what your partner enjoys. Don't be afraid to ask your lover what they enjoy. You only get back as good as you give.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
Don't say it unless you mean it.   3/12/2004

I have one request . . . that's all . . . and it's not that big of a request. If you want a physical relationship with someone . . . i mean a no strings attached, you don't have to take me to dinner . . . just meet for sex relationship, don't throw in the "I love you" crap. I don't know about some people, but those three words mean a lot. And saying them and then backing them up can ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
Sex with my wife's best freind   3/10/2004

I stayed on the 14th floor and was on my way home. I was parking my car when I saw a sexy female walk towards our building lift. I hurriedly parked my car and rushed to the lift as I wanted , not only to clearly see this girl but also get the small pleasure of going up in the lift with her. I just managed to press the open button while she was inside and the lift opened again. There were ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 108 Votes ,6.73 Score
Know your partner...   3/8/2004

You should always get to know the pesron that you are trying to be with. If anything is taboo. That is not the person for you. If they are not open and honest they mean you harm... MAybe not directly but, indirectly. Either way you stand to lose.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 60 Votes ,5.45 Score
rm_mace107_2003 40 M
6  Articles
wrong place   2/28/2004

Hey if you want some kind of serious relationship this might be the wrong place for that sourt of thing. This is a sex site where people are mostly wanting some action and a good time so dont be under the impression that you will find your "soul mate" here...... its possible but not as likely as the serious relation ship sites. Just lay back look for the person thats right for you and have ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 30 Votes ,6.38 Score
Dating a ?   2/21/2004

Yes, it's hard to imagine your special someone having sex with other people and when you know the details and those details include one night stands and random head giving then it's a challenge. This is hard on the heart and it's hard to forget the detailed stories you got from her. If only she kept her mouth shut then maybe these thoughts wouldn't cross your mind everytime she doesn't ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 43 Votes ,7.47 Score
rm_supotme1 43 M
3  Articles
Are You Really Done With Nothing?   2/21/2004

When times of loneliness, either you alone or with your friends sharing of experiences about girls became part of you...you think something special to be! Nah...or maybe you keep on daydreaming while seated center in youre classes...wetdreaming during the night while you are sleeping...Hah! You take a water after you woke up, "ihhh..it's to be nearest about me" . On your way ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 38 Votes ,0.17 Score
Building a relationship takes time.   2/21/2004

I believe building a relationship takes time and patience. The number one thing you need to have I believe is trust. Without trust I feel you have nothing. I would not be with someone I didnt trust. You also have to have love and respect of one another. You have to learn how to give and take. If one just gives they will eventually grow tired of giving and never recieving. If one just ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 40 Votes ,7.95 Score
Discreet Relationship   2/17/2004

I joined a part time evening class for a part time course. That is the time I met her.Both of us were married but wanted to progress our careers further and that is why the course. Similar topics of interest, exchanging notes etc got us deep into a very strong freindship.One evening discussing some topic in a nearby canteen, she held my hand. That is the first time I looked at her as a ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 58 Votes ,7.41 Score
rm_Twonkie 74 M
5  Articles
"Just friends:"   2/16/2004

I've had entirely too much experience with women who wanted to have a "just friends" relationship. So far, it seems to me that "just friends" really means "You can have me around until I find a guy with more money or a bigger car or _________." In any case, it comes down to the woman not being sure what she wants beyond money. She certainly does not want a real relationship, with ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 17 Votes ,5.67 Score
zippy_mcfeely 42 M
9  Articles
trouble building a relationship   2/14/2004

since I recently broke up with my last girlfriend I dont think that I can get into a committed relationship ever again, any guys or females able to relate to that sentiment?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
When you want your BDSM relationship to be more...   2/12/2004

I’ve long been a fan of BDSM but, unfortunately, have only chanced upon one other person who shared my interests. As I begin dating anew, I have been asking myself if that kind of relationship is all I want? The answer is no, it is not all I want. Yet… I DO want the thrill and excitement of this kind of relationship. The intensity and intimacy one can share, when there are ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 9 Votes ,6.20 Score
mattnewstar 45 M
2  Articles
love without lust   1/30/2004

My wife and I have been married for a few years now. We both care deeploy for each other. But, I have a much stronger sex drive than she has. I would like to explore, but am afraid of what she would do if I told her my plans. I think she would not like it, yet I am so frustrated. Any help appreciated


1 Comments, 33 Views, 28 Votes ,4.99 Score
hotlady4funCO 55 F
4  Articles
Rebuilding Trust   1/26/2004

I meet a man off of here 3 years ago we were friends for two years then developed a sexual relationship. It was teh best I have ever had we even feel in love. However I did some things I regret and blew the trust but we still love each other a lot. How do I rebuild the trust?


0 Comments, 19 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
AngelEyesInMo 46 F
11  Articles
It Gets Better Every day!!   1/24/2004

How many of you would agree that there's an outstanding feeling that can come from monogamy? I must say that it takes the cake as far as I'm concerned. With monogamy comes familiarity and comfort. It seems to me that once you reach that deepest level of comfort, that there's virtually nothing that can't be ventured. There is the exception I suppose of prudish individuals with repressed ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 10 Votes ,6.37 Score
FriendWantedNow 58 C
10  Articles
Men & Insecurity   1/22/2004

From reading some of the articles on here I've come to the conclusion that some (not all) men can be a little bit insecure. If they don't bring a woman to orgasm with nothing but what dangles and only in the missionary position, then either there is something wrong with the woman or something wrong with them. Most often the woman because there couldn't be anything wrong with us, right ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 33 Votes ,8.38 Score