I am writing this today to explain to the single guys why they are having such a hard time meeting people in the lifestyle but are quick to complain and say that that others aren't real,(fakes). If you are really interested in a cpl tell them what sets you appart from all the other single guys. On average we recieve 8 emails from single guys each and everyday, most say somthing on the order of...Interested or want to fuck...or she is hot. What the F**** guys...really??? You want us to answer an email like that? You want us to waste our time emailing you back???? Not going to happen. When writing a cpl take the time to read their profile, figure out what they are looking for, tell them how you can enhace their experience, tell them that your interested in them as friends and how you care about becoming friends and have no intentions of just meeting to fuck the wife of the cpl. There may be some folks out there with that intention and that's fine but we are intersted in more....I can fuck her fine on my own, we enjoy the excitement that others can ad to our special times that we share.