Our view on the lifestyle
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Posted:Feb 26, 2012 1:09 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2024 9:42 pm
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How long do you stay in the lifestyle. First of all we like swinging but we are not hardcore, and it doesn't consume our everyday lives. For us it is a recreational part of our lives, and it adds to the quality of our sex lives, but it is not something that we have to do every weekend to enjoy. There are some people where the lifestyle is a huge part of their lives. Every weekend they are at a club, or event, or with a couple. It seems to us that, that would take away some of the fun of it, and it would get old and repetitive after a while, and they might not look forward to it as much as they did before.
We look at it as a vacation. We look around and see if there is something we would be interested in and go for it. Like a vacation, it is something you look forward to, and if you have to work to hard at it, then it isn't as much fun. That's one of our perspectives on the lifestyle. We don't always get to play as often as we would like to...but such is life. There is always next time. That's another thing that keeps us going in the lifestyle. The anticipation of the next time.
For us, we're swingers, we are in it for the sex, and it is not all that important to us. Don't get me wrong we love the sex, that is what swinging is all about, meeting other people and having sex with them. If it leads to a good friendship that is a bonus. It is a form of recreation for us. If we are able to be with a couple once or twice a month that is more than enough for us. We don't feel we have to do it every weekend. By not doing it so often, gets us more excited and looking forward to it more every time. There again it is more quality than quantity for us.
In summary, I think people who don't take swinging so seriously, and don't make it such an important part of there lives, will tend to stay in the lifestyle longer and not get burnt out with it.
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