Does "discreet" always mean "married"?
|
Posted:Jun 8, 2019 7:40 am
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2019 8:16 pm
2527 Views
|
Many of the men's profiles here say that they need someone who is "discreet". I have always wondered if that means that the man is actually married, or in some other way attached to some other woman, and that he is cheating on her (even though most of those profile say that they are "divorced", or "single")
I am not interested in getting involved with a man who is attached to another woman, as I don't want to hurt anyone, or have any "drama".
What else could it mean when someone wants discretion?
How can I tell?
|
|
|
0
Comments
, 1 Pending
|
|
Why can't you men take "no" for an answer?!
|
Posted:Jun 5, 2019 12:42 pm
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2019 5:53 pm
2381 Views
|
OK, not all, but MANY MEN here -- and other dating sites also -- don't seem to be able to take "no" for an answer.
For example, recently, one guy from Texas wrote to me and I told him I am looking for a permanent partner who lives nearby (I live in San Francisco, CA) and who is close in age to me. Then, I wished him "good luck in your search" -- polite as can be! Then he comes back with "Let time say more about us" and he proceeds to tell me his first name, and ask for mine -- AS IF I HADN'T JUST SAID I WASN'T INTERESTED!!
No, asshole, "time" won't say "more about us", I WILL BE SAYING -- THERE IS NO US!
Somehow your religion, or your parents, or the society you grew up in has taught you men are more important than women and men can "decide" what is right for women. It is up to ME to decide if I want to continue a conversation with you. I didn't even have to answer you the first time, since I mention in my profile I am only interested in men who live close to me and who are close in age to me.
LEARN TO TAKE "NO" FOR AN ANSWER!!!
|
|
|
0
Comments
, 1 Pending
|
|
AdultFriendFinder lists people I have hot listed, who I didn't actually
|
Posted:Jun 5, 2019 9:40 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 9:41 pm
2396 Views
|
When I was looking under my stuff, in "people I have hot listed" and "people I have flirted with", and "people whose profiles I have viewed", I noticed something very surprising. I hadn't hot listed, flirted with, or viewed MANY of those profiles listed!! AdultFriendFinder was just making that up!! Which explains why I sometimes get messages which start out, "I noticed you looked at my profile", when I actually DIDN'T look at his profile, so then, when he messages me, I do look at it. Is this AdultFriendFinder's way of keeping people on the site, making them think that they have more "traffic" to their profiles than they actually have.
Anyone else experience this?
|
|
|
0
Comments
, 2 Pending
|
|
Misspellings in my profile keep coming back!
|
Posted:Jun 5, 2019 9:32 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 9:46 pm
2239 Views
|
Why do I keep having to correct misspellings in my profile (I don't know how they happened in the first place, since I never would spell "person" "per", or "personality" "puerility"). I correct them, and they look correct, and then days later, when I happen to look at my profile again, the words are back to being misspelled, exactly the same way again!!!
Has anyone else had this problem? Does AdultFriendFinder have a software glitch? Or does AdultFriendFinder do this on purpose to keep me coming back to check it?
|
|
|
1
comment
|
|
How do I find a permanent partner who loves sex
|
Posted:May 29, 2019 9:57 am
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2019 6:12 pm
3041 Views
|
Hi all,
I seem to be in a dilemma. I am looking for a man who is close in age to me and who lives nearby and who loves sex and touching, but who is also interested in a real and full relationship.
When I have been searching elsewhere, it seems I only find men who are interested in a relationship, but who aren't that much interested in a life with lots of sex (especially Tantric sex) and touch. Or, I find men who are interested in lots of sex and touch, but are interested in polyamory and have lots of other partners. I have tried polyamory and it hasn't worked for me, since when holidays come around, I don't have someone to be with, and I don't have someone to go on trips with, or go out to dinner with, etc.
Where/how do I find men who want both??
Ruth
|
|
|
2
Comments
|
|
To link to this blog (spiritruth411) use [blog spiritruth411] in your messages.
|
|
|
| Sun |
Mon |
Tue |
Wed |
Thu |
Fri |
Sat |
| |
|
|
|
|
|
11
|
2
|
3
|
4
|
53
|
6
|
7
|
81
|
9
|
10
|
11
|
12
|
13
|
14
|
15
|
16
|
17
|
18
|
19
|
20
|
21
|
22
|
23
|
24
|
25
|
26
|
27
|
28
|
29
|
30
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
