STOP THE INSANITY!
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Posted:Oct 10, 2007 1:22 am
Last Updated:Feb 24, 2008 6:49 pm
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Holy shit! What the hell is going on around here? I think this all started before I took my little hiatus, but I didn't notice it. Since my return, it has gotten worse. I have been told about a lot of shit that has been said in the chat room, apparently from several different people. Just in case anyone missed it, here's a recap. I am a jackass! I met someone from here, several times, and although we hit it off pretty well, I was not (still am not) ready for any kind of commitment/relationship. Not that I am a commitophobe. Quite the opposite. I am recently out of a marriage, and I know one day I will be in another, hopefully longer lasting and more fulfilling, one. Anyway. This person was understandably upset with me for not returning the same feelings as I was being given. Against her wishes, I went to the M&G in Charlotte in August, and had a wonderful time. I also, surprise surprise, met someone there. We too hit it off, and one thing led to another. This is where it gets dicey. The one I met in Charlotte, however, lives farther away, and is married. This was not my plan! I had my heart ripped out by an unfaithful spouse, and I swore I would never do that to someone else. I am not sure why, or how, but it happened. My conscience ate away at me, and that was one of the(but not the only) reasons I left for a while. I have spoken to this person about it, and they understand why I can no longer see them in that way. This is where the drama started. The 1st person, and the 2nd one, apparently have been slamming each other in chat. Now their friends are invloved as well. All of this happened when I was not in the room, so I only have secondhand accounts of it, and most of those are biased one way or the other. So, now everyone is pissed at everyone else. People are calling each other out in the chat room, and in blogs! And generally acting like a bunch of . So here's the deal. EVERYONE STOP! Both of the people involved know how I feel about them, and about what has happened. IT IS OVER! I am sorry for causing all of this shit, and dragging the whole chat room into such a mess. But the simple fact is, it didn't have to be this way. And it won't be this way anymore. Now, if everyone can just have fun, and get along, we can actually enjoy our time on here. I still believe that there are a lot of great people on this site. I know most of us came looking for one thing(DUH), but many of us have found friends as well. If that trend is going to continue, all of this crap has to STOP. Now, anyone who wants to keep on bitching, slamming, or calling people out, do it to me. I started this whole thing, so blame me, but do it when I am in the room so I can see it, read it, laugh at it, whatever. I may even tell you to shut the hell up. But at least it will be out in the open. Ok, I'm done, now everyone kiss and make up!
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On the Comeback Trail
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Posted:Sep 27, 2007 9:06 pm
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2007 12:08 am
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Ok. I am still here and I am still having fun. I have deicided that I am going to make my grand re-entrance ( after missing 1 whole party, I know) at ncgirl's Nov, Bash. I have heard so much about her parties, and most of the friends I have met on here will be ther I think, so I am going. It seems that I have also said something about making Jello-Shots. So I will. i don't know what kind yet, or how many, but they will be strong! I look forward to seeing evryone there. Reconnecting with people I met in Charlotte, and making new friends as well.
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Still Changing
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Posted:Sep 15, 2007 6:01 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2007 8:38 pm
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OK. Some good news and some bad news. 1st of all, the good news, well I hope it's good for most of you! I am not going to leave the site. I still have some things to work out,, but I am not willing to give up the friends I have made in my short time here. There are some really great people on here that have been very helpful, and very understanding. A lot of you have gone through some or all of what I am going through now, and your insight has been invaluable! Now the bad news. I am still not going to be on here very much right now. I do check my mail a few times a week, and some of you have my oohay chat name. But for the time being, this is all I can do. I will however, return to the Carolina's Room, and attend more parties in due time. I can't wait to see all of my new friends again, and make a few more! Thank you all for being here for me!!
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Life Changes
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Posted:Sep 3, 2007 2:36 pm
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2007 4:47 pm
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This is hard for me to do. I have had so much fun online here, at the party in Charlotte, and meeting a few of you in person. A few of you know some of what is going on in my life. Unfortunately, I have discovered, or rather I have admitted what I knew all along, that I seem to keep making the same mistakes over and over again. I have a lot of things to sort thru, and a lot of flaws to address, before I can really start to live my life again. Those of you who know me well, know that I am a very laid back, easy going guy. I am perpetually happy, upbeat, and tend to look for/expect the same in others. Lately, I have been down on myself because I know there are things I need to do, but have been unwilling to do. Simply put, my conscience is driving me crazy, and I am tired of it. I want to be happy, I want to be the easy going guy I have always been. But, I just can't be that person anymore, until I address the reasons that caused my problems to start with. I will not be online here for a while, if at all. My membership expires in a few weeks, so I will leave it active until then. After that, it will be inactive, either until I return, or I decide that I will not return. I will miss all if you. I have made some great friends on here. I know that all of you will understand what I have to do, and why. When/if I return, I know that all of you will be here, and will welcome me back. Those of you who know what is going on, if you need to, feel free to share anything with the others. I don't have any secrets to hide. I just have a lot of things to address. Thank you to all of you.
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