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'' AN OFFICER'S LIFE
Posted:Jun 27, 2011 5:35 pm
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2011 8:43 am
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Hello, I want to take the time out to Honor Law Inforcement Officers. I found this piece and I want to share it with you all.

You wonder why he pulled over and gave you a ticket for speeding?
He just worked an accident where people died because they were going to fast.

You wonder why the cop was so mean
He just got done working a case where a drunk driver killed a

You work for 8 hours
He works for up to 18 hours

You drink hot coffee to stay awake.
The cold rain in the middle of the nite keeps him awake.

You complain of a "headache" and call in sick.
He goes into work still hurt and sore from the guy he had to fight the night before.

You drink your coffee on your way to the mall.
He spills his as he runs code to a traffic crash with trapped inside.

You make sure you're cell phone is in your pocket before you leave the house.
He makes sure his guns is clean and fully loaded and his vest is tight.

You talk trash about your "buddies" that aren't with you.
He watches his buddy get shot at and wounded in front of him.

You walk down the beach staring at all the pretty girls.
He walks down the highway looking for body parts from a traffic crash

You complain about how hot it is
He wears fifty pounds of gear and a bullet proof vest in the middle of July and still runs around chasing crack heads

You go out ot lunch and complain because the restaurant got your order wrong.
He runs out before he gets his food to respond to an armed robbery.

You get out of bed in the morning and take your time getting ready.
He gets called out of bed at 2 a.m. after working 12 hours and has to be into work asap for a traffic homicide.

You go to the mall and get your hair redone.
He holds the hair of some college girl while she'as puking in the back of his patrol car

You're angry because your class ran 5 minutes over.
His shift ended 4 hours ago and theres no end is sight

You call your girlfriend and set a date for tonight.
He can't make any plans because of his off days he still gets called back into work

You yell and scream at the squad car that just past you because they slowed you down.
He's in the driver seat of the squad car, going to cut somebody out their car only to find out their dead when he gets there.

You roll your eyes when a baby cries in public
He picks up a dead in his arms and prays that it was crying

You criticize your police department and say they're never there quick enough.
He blasts the siren while the person in front of him refuses to move while talking on their cell phone and doing their makeup.

You hear the jokes about fallen officers and say they should have known better.
He is a hero and runs into situations when everyone else is running away in order to make sure no one else gets hurt and loses his life doing it.

You are asked to go to the store by your parents. You don't
He would take abullet for his buddy without question

You sit there and judge him, saying that its a waste of money to have them around
Yet as soon as you need help he is there.

If you support your local police officers, repost this with a "An Officer's Life.

If you don't support your police officers, well then don't repost, it's not like you care any way...

Also a shout out to the men and women of the Fire Departments, EMS and Dispatchers as well, without all these division, public safety wouldn't be.
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DOWN LOW MEN
Posted:Jun 22, 2011 12:23 am
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2018 9:35 pm
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Today, I received a text from a friend; when I asked him, when could we have a drink and talk. He informed me, that him and his wife was going though some things. He stated he was going thru hell right now. When I asked what was wrong and if I could help. He informed me, that someone on face book has a page about guys on the Down Low in Cleveland and his picture is on the page now. He did not know who would do something like that because he has always been discreet. A couple of times he wanted to have a threesome with me and another gurl. I informed him there would be a problem, because some gurls can not keep their business to themselves and we need to just keep just the two of us. He understood. He stated to me, that he did not know would do this and the Shit is crazy, he was on the verge of loosing his family. The facebook page will not let a man view the page, but the man whos page it is will let a woman to view it.

Now, for someone to expose gentlemen that are on the Down Low, like this person has, how do he know if the men are on the Down Low or not be.. Has he been with them and don't want his business told, so he is telling theirs or he just want to just start trouble, sit back and sees what happens. I believe what two consenting adults does behind closed doors, four walls and the bed (if there is a bed) is between them and no one should say a damn thing about it... Today, was the third time this week that I heard about men speaking about this facebook page, saying that their wife/woman/girlfriend saw there pic on this site or about the page on the down low men in Cleveland. If the person is brave enough to let women view the page then why doesn't he let men veiw the page; especially the ones that he has posted there pictures.

Whoever I am with that is our business and we keep it private.
So why expose someone because they are on the down low. When I was growning up, whatever happened between two consenting adultss stayed between those two or whoever was involved. To post something like this is wrong. The person that posted this page is hiding something. I was always told before you clean someone else's closet out you first should clean out yours by my Grandmother. Matthew 7:3-5 (from the Amplified Bible) "why do you stare from without at the very small particle that is in your brother's eye but do not become aware of and consider the beam of timber that is your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother Let me get the tiny particle out of your eye, when there is the beam of timber in your own eye? You hypocrite, first get the beam of timber out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the tiny particle out of your brother's eye." So since this person wants to expose men on the down low or who are bisexual and not letting their wives/women/girlfriend know, then what in the hell is he hiding... Is it because he can not have one of those men or all of them, he wants one but don't know how to go about it. Does he care that he is destroying families, people lives... I don't think so or he might know and don't care. But what goes around comes around.. I always heard especially by my mother and grandmother "when you dig one ditch, you better dig two" So this gentleman on FaceBook should have his ditch dug and ready for himself...

If you are a gentleman on the down low, that is up to you... I would not want to destroy you life or your family. No one has the right to destroy anyone's life or their family. All I want to do is brighten your day, make you happy in your life. Let people live their lives to the fullest and enjoy life. If being a down low person makes you happy then do it male or female. I love life and all people.

If this happens here in Cleveland, just think that it might be happening in your area... I just wanted male or female that are on the down low to be careful. Besides why down men that are on the down low and not women... I forget it is always a fantasy with me to see two women together. But there are women that likes to see two men together. People should mind their own business and stay out of others.

I just had to let people know how dirty some people can be. So don't get made when someone don't have a pic posted on their profile , they want to be safe.
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WHATEVER YOU GIVE A WOMAN
Posted:May 9, 2011 8:37 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2011 10:16 pm
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WHATEVER YOU GIVE A WOMAN, SHE WILL MAKE IT GREATER.....

GIVE HER SPERM, SHE WILL GIVE YOU A BABY.

GIVE HER A HOUSE, SHE WILL GIVE YOU A HOME.

GIVE HER GROCERIES, SHE WILL
GIVE YOU A MEAL.

GIVE HER A SMILE, AND SHE WILL GIVE YOU HER HEART.

SHE MULTIPLIES AND ENLARGES WHAT SHE IS GIVEN.

SO IF YOU GIVE HER CRAP, BE READY TO RECEIVE A TON OF SH**....
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WHY FIRST TIMERS WITH A T-GURL
Posted:May 4, 2011 9:12 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2012 4:07 pm
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WHY DOES FIRST TIMERS THAT WANT TO BE WITH A TS/TG/CD MAKE PLANS TO MEET AND THEN AT THE LAST MOMENT DON'T CALL WHEN THEY DON'T SHOW UP OR JUST DON'T SHOW.

WHY PLAY GAMES, IF YOU ARE NOT FOR SURE IF YOU ARE READY TO MEET OR WHATEVER THAN DON'T MAKE THE DATE.

AND FOR THOSE THAT STATE THEY ARE FIRST TIMERS BUT WHEN YOU MEET THEM YOU FIND OUT THAT YOU ARE NOT THEIR FIRST... THEN STOP SAYING THAT YOU ARE AND BE HONEST.
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THE TEN MOST IMPORTANT MEN IN A WOMAN'S LIFE
Posted:May 4, 2011 9:06 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2011 8:08 pm
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#10 THE BUTCHER - because he asks "How do you want it cut."

# 9 THE CANDLE STICK MAKER - because he asks, "How longdo you want it"

# 8 THE DOCTOR - because he says, "Take off your Clothes"

# 7 THE DENTIST - because he says, "Open Wide."

# 6 THE MILKMAN - because he asks, "Do you want it in the front or in the back?"

# 5 THE HAIR DRESSER - because he asks, "Do you want it teased or blown?"

# 4 THE INTERIOR DECORATOR - because he says, "Once it's in you'll love it."

# 3 THE BANKER - because he says "If you take it out too soon, you'll lose interest."

# 2 THE FIREMAN - because he always... Finds them hot and leaves them wet.

# 1 THE HUNTER - because he always ... Goes Deep In The Bush, Shoots Twie, and Eats What He Shoots !!!
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WHY DOES LOVE HURT??
Posted:Mar 3, 2011 3:45 pm
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2011 1:56 pm
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I WANT TO KNOW WHY DOES LOVE HURT?

YOU MEET THE GUY AND THINKS HE IS MR RIGHT... HE SAYS THE RIGHT THINGS, LOOK THE LOOK AND DO THE RIGHT THINK... YOU THINK OF HIM CONSENTLY, WHEN YOU THINK OF HIM, IT PUTS A SMILE ON YOUR FACE. YOU ARE THERE WITH HIM THROUGH GOOD TIMES AND BAD TIMES, THEN YOU FIND OUT IT IS OVER AND HE DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH YOU ANYMORE; BUT THEN COMES AROUND STILL BECAUSE NO ONE ELSE HAS EVER TREATED HIM THE WAY YOU HAVE, BUT HE ONLY WANTS TO BE FRIENDS. HE NEEDS A PLACE TO LIVE, SO YOU LET HIM MOVE IN, WISHING THAT THINGS COULD BE THE SAME THEY ONCE WAS, BE HE SAYS NO. WHEN HE COMES HOME, THERE HE FINDS ANOTHER MAN IN YOUR BED, YOU SEE THE HURT IN HIS FACE AND THEN HE TELLS PEOPLE THAT HE CAUGHT YOU GETTING YOUR FREAK ON WITH SOMEONE ELSE.. THERE YOU FIND THAT HE HAS FEELINGS, BUT HE HURTS YOU SITS THERE AND ACTS AS IF YOU ARE FRIENDS BUT THERE... DEEP DOWN INSIDE, YOU TRY AND TRY TO GET RID OF HIM, GET THIS SPECIAL MAN OUT OF YOUR SYSTEM, BUT UNABLE CAN... YOU SEE HIM, IT SEEMS THAT YOU ARE GOING TO MELT, HE CALLS OUT YOUR NAME AND YOU ALMOST CUM LIKE THE POURING RAIN.. HE TOUCHES YOU AND YOU FEEL GOOD ALL OVER... SO PLEASE TELL ME WHEN HE MAKES YOU FEEL SO GOOD, THEN WHY LATER ON LOVE HURTS, YOU CRY, YOU DON'T WANT TO EAT, IT IS LIKE SOMEONE HAS SNATCHED YOUR HEART OUT AND STOMPED IT. WHY ISN'T THERE A WARNING LABLE CONNECT TO LOVE...

LABELLE SONG A SONG ENTITLED "ISN'T IT A SHAME"... THE SONG SAYS... HOW IS IT THAT TWO PEOPLE, WHO CLING TOGETHER WANT TO DIE TOGETHER, END UP FAR APART. TWO PEOPLE WHO DREAMS, DREAMS TOGETHER END UP ALL ALONE. HOW IS THAT TWO PEOPLE WHO WANT TO MAKE A LIFE TOGETHER END UP ALL ALONE. ISN'T IT A SHAME YOU HAVE TO LAUGH BEFORE YOU CRY...

SO TELL ME WHY DO YOU HAVE TO LAUGH BEFORE YOU CRY... WHY DOES LOVE HURT AND IT HURT SO HARD.... SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHY AND HOW DID YOU GET OVER THE HURT...
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THINGS USED TO BE, NOW THEY NOT
Posted:Feb 23, 2011 3:45 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2012 4:46 pm
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Things used to be, now they not
Anything but us is who we are
Disguising ourselves as secret lovers
We've become public enemies
We walk away like strangers in the street
Gone for eternity
We erased one another
So far from where we came
With so much of everything, how do we leave with nothing
Lack of visual empathy equates the meaning of L-O-V-E
Hatred and attitude tear us entirely
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THE WEDDING ANNIVERSARY
Posted:Nov 18, 2010 9:18 pm
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2011 1:56 pm
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A married couple in their early 60s was celebrating their 40th wedding
anniversary in a quiet, romantic little restaurant. Suddenly, a tiny yet
beautiful fairy appeared on their table. She said, 'For being such an
exemplary married couple and for being loving to each other for all this
time, I will grant you each a wish.'



The wife answered, 'Oh, I want to travel around the world with my darling
husband The fairy waved her magic wand and - poof! - two tickets for the
Queen Mary II appeared in her hands. The husband thought for a moment:



'Well, this is all very romantic, but an opportunity like this will never
come again. I'm sorry my love, but my wish is to have a wife 30 years
younger than me. The wife, and the fairy, were deeply disappointed, but a
wish is a wish. So the fairy waved her magic wand and poof!...the husband
became 92 years old. The moral of this story: Men who are ungrateful
bastards should remember fairies are female.....
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THANKSGIVING MEANINGFUL TIME FOR FAMILY AND FRIENDS
Posted:Nov 18, 2010 6:32 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2012 4:36 pm
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PSALMS 95:2 Let us come into his presence with thanksgiving:
PSALMS 106:1 Praise the Lord! O give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; for his steadfast love endures for ever!
PSALMS 111: 1-4 Praise the Lord, I will give thanks to the Lord with my whole heart, in the company of the upright, in the congregation. Great are the works of the Lord, studied by all who have pleasure in them. Full of honor and majesty in his work, and his righteousness endures for ever. He has cause his wonderful works to be remembered; the Lord is gracious and merciful.

This Thursday we celebrate Thanksgiving. As we celebrate this day, sitting down with family and friends; we need to remember the real reason for this celebration.

Over 388 years ago was the first Thanksgiving. The Plymouth Colonist and the Wampanoag Indians shared an Autumn harvest feast and giving thanks for the harvest and for a bounty of crops. Captain John Woodlief knelt in prayer and pledged "Thanksgiving" to God for their healthy voyage across the Atlantic in December 1619. Edward Winslow from the Journal of the Pilgrims at Plymouth in 1621 wrote the feast went for three (3) days, which they entertained and feasted. Thanksgiving has been celebrated in the beginning at different times. Once on June 19, 1782, also in July, but mostly in November or December depending on the Governors of the settlements or Proclamations. The Massachusetts Congress celebrated Thanksgiving on December 15, 1774. President George Washington name Thanksgiving, November 26, in 1789. Which was a Thanksgiving Proclamation. President Abraham Lincoln's Proclamation of 1863, declared the last Thursday of November. Succeeding U.S. Presidents followed Lincoln's lead and this began the Annual Practice of U.S. PRESIDENTIAL PROCLAMATIONS, calling on People to celebrate the Thanksgiving holiday on the last Thursday of November. Then in 1941, the United States Congress declared that thereafter the National Legal Holiday of Thanksgiving Day would be on November's fourth Thursday. The Episcopal Church selected the first Thursday of November, but President Lincoln selected the last Thursday in November a date closer to the ones of the Presidents before him. A Proclamation specifically went out mentioning the reason for this celebration OFFERING UP PRAYER TO GOD FOR "GRANTING US A PLENTIFUL HARVEST," AMONG OTHER ENUMERATED BLESSINGS.

Today, after 388 years later we continue to celebrate this special day with family and friends. Please look back and take a moment to thank GOD for all HE has given you and no matter how big or small. Even with the economy the way it is today, we still should take the time out to thank GOD for what we have. Things could be worst. But no matter what day we celebrate Thanksgiving, be grateful and thankful for all your blessing, for what you have, for family and friends. Today, I am grateful and thankful for my family, friends, love, the many blessings, etc. I do believe when praises go up, blessings will come down. So, while we are celebrating with family and friends, give God the praise and be thankful.

If you are ever in Cleveland I hope to see you at A Man's World located 2909 Detroit, Cleveland, Ohio...That is where I am...

Have a Blessed, Safe and Wonderful Thanksgiving....

Love,
HOTSIZZLINGLADY
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UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
Posted:Nov 9, 2010 4:39 am
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2012 4:41 pm
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Unconditional Love, does anyone know the mean of "UNCONDITIONAL LOVE"? Most times I don't think so... Unconditonal Love is loving someone uncondtionally, not wanting something in return for your love for them, thinking of them when you don't think of yourself. Being there for them without them even asking and wanting something for being there.

I wonder are there anyone or any persons out there that are looking for or are willing to give Unconditional Love.

It is side love is a feeling you get, well to me love is deep, it is a feeling a feeling you get for someone which is more than caring for someone, that person or persons are deep in your heart and if that person is deep in your heart then that love grows and becomes unconditional if you are truely in love with that person and care for them...

The word "Love" is easy to say, but to mean it and show it. Most people are into Conditional Love. I love you for sex, I love you because you are hear, I love you and in the back of their minds they are saying I love you because they are going to get something in return. That is conditional love.

Unconditional love, I know very much about, because I have given it... Love someone when I knew there was nothing in return, they did not have nothing to return to me, was there when they were down and out, helped them back up... Love them when they were not even with me... When they needed me, I was there with unconditional love and they were just here with conditional love.

Now, I am looking for that Unconditonal Love and I will return that love with Unconditonal Love.
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QUOTE BY THOMAS JEFFERSON
Posted:Nov 6, 2010 3:32 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2024 4:17 pm
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NOTHING CAN STOP THE MAN WITH THE RIGHT MENTAL ATTITUDE FROM ACHIEVING HIS GOAL; NOTHING ON EARTH CAN HELP THE MAN WITH THE WRONG MENTAL ATTITUDE.
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QUOTE BY CLEMENT STONE
Posted:Nov 6, 2010 3:31 pm
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2011 7:17 pm
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THERE IS LITTLE DIFFERENCE IN PEOPLE, BUT THAT LITTLE DIFFERENCE MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE.

THIS LITTLE DIFFERENCE IS ATTITUDE. tHE BIG DIFFERENCE IS WHETHER IT IS POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE.
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FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE
Posted:Nov 6, 2010 3:29 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2012 4:08 pm
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Today, I want to talk about "FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE." These two goes hand in hand in some way or the another.

Proverbs 17:17. A friend loves at all time, and a brother is born adversity.

John 15:13. Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for a friend.

Leviticus 19:18. ....you shall love your neighbor as yourself;

Matthew 5:38 & 44. ... you have heheard that is is said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy. But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.

John 15:17. This I command you, to love one another.

In this day and time we all need friends. We can not get along without have a friend, a TRUE FRIEND. A friend is someone who loves you, accepts you for who you are and there for you through the good time and bad times. A friend is there for you when you are at the lowest point in life and will help pick you up. A friend is also some who is willing to stand by you when you are right or wrong and to tell you that you are wrong, but still there. A friend will love you as much as they love themselves. All of us should love one another and help each other. All love and friendship are sweet, whether it is given or returned. There is only two true types of happiness, they are to have a true friend, to love and to be love. To have a friend and to be love that is an education in itself. One must lear to love, and go through a good deal of suffering, understanding and caring. The journey will lead you to know who your true friends are.

Today, some of us don't cherish true friendship. There are people who misue their friends and they only think of themselves by using friendship to get what matters to them. Soon they will be a lonely person and no one will want to be their friend. They will have a reputation based on how they treat others. There are people that only call on their friends when they need them. These friends I call Sometime Friends. There are friends that don't want to see you get a head. These are not your friends at all but Acquaintances and Enemies. You've heard the old saying "Misery Loves Compnay!" These so-call friends would want you to suffer with them. These are not your true friends, they are more likely Acquaintances. They are the ones that don't want to see you get a head, want to see you down, and stand in your way. These so-call friends will smile in your face and turn around and stab you in the back.. They will try to destroy you each and every turn that you make. These people I call Jealous friends. All of these types of people are not your friends. These are your enemies and as the Bible says love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you and dispisefully use you. You don't have to be their friend but you love them and pray for them. That what the Bible tells us. The French Moralist -- La Rochefoucauld says THERE IS only one kind of love but there are a thousand different versions. I want to add the same is for friendship.

Remember eyeone is not your friend. People will smile in your face and stab you in the back and sa they are your friends. But then some of you cannot be without these people but soon you find out what they are all about and it will be a hurting thing. So take a look in the mirror and think about what kind of friend you are. No one can cope with being alone without friendship and love. The course of true friendship and love never runs smooth. Between whom there is hearty truth there is true friendship and love. When friendship, love and skill works together, expect a masterpiece. Rainer Maria Rilke (German Poet): FOR ONE HUMAN being to love another, that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.
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