I will never understand why these 20 something guys have to contact us older ladies. I don't find it amusing or does it make me feel "special" I just think it is dumb. I have nothing in common with them and it makes me feel like I am dating my . I not only don't enjoy the conversation but the sex would feel ual or something like that. I just want them to leave me alone. Maybe some of the other ladies my age enjoy the attention but I don't. Give me a man with experience and maturity please. Sans