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ANYONE FIND THEIR NEW SPOUSE HERE ?
Posted:Jul 29, 2005 12:29 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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I have frequently seen television advertisements by a somewhat more main-stream Internet dating site,which proudly features short interviews of couples whom met on that site and later married. Now I wonder,do you know of anyone on AdultFriendFinder/Passion.com with a similar story ?
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TAKE CARE OF IT NOW !
Posted:Jul 29, 2005 12:01 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
811 Views

Tonight,I fixed a closet door that had not worked properly for several months and had become a real pain in the ass ! It required less than 30 minutes to return it to proper working order. I am certain that I had wasted much more time than that fighting with the door over the past months. SO,the point of this story is ......... you will use more of your precious time avoiding the proper resolution of an issue,than you would by promptly dealing with it.
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ARE YOU RESERVING ANYTHING ?
Posted:Jul 28, 2005 11:41 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
900 Views

Is there any sexual practice,behavior,or activity that you have never engaged in,but would be open to exploring given the just the right partner ?
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LOVE NEST
Posted:Jul 26, 2005 9:36 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
838 Views

What does it look like ?
I know many of the members of AdultFriendFinder find unique,out the ordinary locations to have sex. However,I am fairly certain that the bedroom is still the top choice for most sexual encounters. That being said,what does your ideal room for sex look like ? What colors help to enhance your degree of horniness ? Is the room neat,clean and free of clutter ? How about the lighting ? What type of flooring ? And the most important item: the bed ? Anyone want to design and decorate this room for me ( in words ) ? Please do not include any pictures of the family for artwork. I do not want to look at Uncle Ralph and Aunt Wilma while making love with a hot lady !!!!
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DOMINANT HAND
Posted:Jul 25, 2005 9:20 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
910 Views

Right or left ? which one is it ? Now in reference to having sex,do you tend to utilize your dominant hand much more than your other hand ? I realize that most people tend to masterbate with the same hand exclusively. But what about when you are with a partner ? do you rub,caress,and massage your partner evenly with both hands ? Do you use your dominant hand to touch the genitals more than your other hand ? Have you developed your fine motor skills to the point where either hand functions equally well in delicate explorations of your lover's anatomy ? I am truly amazed by the capability and versatility of the human hand. Although I am right hand dominant,recently I have come to rely upon my left hand more due to repetitive stress injuries to my right shoulder. It is remarkable how much more connected to my left hand I have become. I no longer automatically attempt to use my right hand,instead,I simply use whichever hand is most convenient. Ok, for anyone whom may be planning to masterbate this evening,why not do it with your other hand and fantasize that it is someone else's hand trying to get you off ? It will feel very different from what you are accustomed to !
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MORNING GLORY
Posted:Jul 21, 2005 9:23 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
900 Views

That is what a lady I once knew called the erection that men often have upon awakening from a good night of sleep. I have never talked to any women about their experiencing a similar response. Do you ladies wake in the morning with an erect clitoris and swollen labia ? Even without remembering any sexual dreams ? I seldom ever remember my dreams,so I miss out on whatever caused my erection !
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FINDING TIME FOR BLOGS
Posted:Jul 21, 2005 9:08 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
867 Views

OK. By now,everyone has become addicted to the whole blogging experience. However,as far as I know, 24/7 has not been increased to accomodate this new activity in our lives. Where does the necessary time to pursue this,come from ? What is it that you are no longer doing that has freed time for you to be on the blogs ? Are you taking time away from sleep periods ? Is anyone doing this on " Company Time " Just curious !
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HOW DO YOU KEEP IT FRESH ?
Posted:Jul 19, 2005 9:45 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
987 Views

I recently attended a surprise birthday party for my great-uncle ---- his 80th birthday ! He married when he was 17 to a young lady who was 15,then went off to fight in Europe during WWII . Luckily,he came home,raised a family,and maintained a healthy,loving marriage for the past 63 years ! At the party,I observed my aunt actually grab his butt when he made a joking remark about their long relationship. This made me think about how does a monogamous couple keep their sex life fresh,vital,inspired --- just simply alive for 63 years ? I am sure that 99% of us will never be with one partner for that length of time,but for those few who do manage long term relationships,how do you keep it from becoming stale,boring,or non-existent ?
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HOW MANY ARE THERE ?
Posted:Jul 18, 2005 11:22 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
845 Views

Bloggers that is. It seems as though everyone is having trouble with their blogs being posted lately. Obviously,this system is being overwhelmed by the number of new posts each day. I do not have any knowledge of computer operating systems,but it appears that they did not plan for the popularity of the blogs. My question is : just how many total blogs are now on this site ? They provide numbers for everything else,so why not updated totals for the blogs ?
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HOME SWEET HOME
Posted:Jul 18, 2005 10:43 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
795 Views

Having recently returned home from a trip to Illinois,where the temperature was nearly 100 degrees Fahrenheit, I really felt a re-newed appreciation for my home and the 40 degree cooler air that welcomed me back ! It is great to travel and encounter new experiences,but even greater to return to familiar surroundings. Now whatever my thoughts happen to be, I always seem to find a correlation to sex. Is sex with a steady,comfortable partner preferable to a fresh,unknown lover ? For someone who is involved in a steady relationship,and then engages in sex with a new partner,would it feel comforting to go back to their regular lover --- in essence coming home ?
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MY FINGER GETS THE JOB DONE
Posted:Jul 14, 2005 8:27 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
870 Views

Typing that is ! Ok, I am ashamed to admit that I never learned how to type. When I was a Senior in high school,I had a typing class for two or three days ! I dropped the class and have not had any other instruction in typing since. Consequently,everything that I write in my blog or the comments I leave on other's blogs are pecked out on the keyboard using my right index finger ! Obviously,this is neither a quick or efficient method of writing,although I have gained a little speed since I began blogging. As a result of my typing deficency,my posts here and the comments I make on other blogs require more time and effort than what most bloggers ( Whom type ) need to expend. Why am I sharing this information ? Because I wanted it to be known that while blogging is not easy for me to engage in,I have come to really love the experience. That being said,I will give my finger a rest for the next three or four days,due to a trip I am taking out of state where I will not have any computer access. I will miss everybody !
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SEX LOVER or SEX ADDICT ?
Posted:Jul 11, 2005 6:21 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
889 Views

Obviously,anyone reading this loves sex immensely. That is why all of us are here on this site,rather than the hundreds of other Internet dating services. Having sex is fundamental to our well-being. It is great exercise,it is more pleasurable than any other activity that I have experienced,and most important,it has the potential to produce the ultimate spiritual fusion between participants. When I was in a long-term relationship for several years,I engaged in sex with my lady usually at least twice per day. At the time,I did not feel that frequent of lovemaking to be excessive. Now,I have read many surveys of sexual behavior among married or committed couples,that report the frequency of sex to be one act or less per week ! So,what is a normal amount of sexual activity for healthy adults ? At what point does a strong libido cross the line into sexual addiction ? I have read many profiles of women who greatly desire sex at least four or five times per day ! An easy answer to my question would be that when having sex impedes someone from attending to their daily responsibilities,then it could be considered sexual addiction. But that is too narrow of a description. I am certain that many of you enjoy multiple acts of sex each day,while still managing the myriad details of your busy lives. ANY thoughts ?
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LONDON : 7 / 7 / 05
Posted:Jul 7, 2005 10:34 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
750 Views

I woke up this morning to the news of more slaughter of innocent fellow human beings. These people were beginning their day,going off to work or to do various errands. I wonder what they thought about earlier in the morning while preparing themselves for the day ahead.I am certain that none of them seriously considered the fact that they would be meeting with God before having their lunch break.
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