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Lesbian Dating, Relationships, and Sexy Encounters
Reflecting and Connecting
 
New, quiet, shy, and curious. We offer some thoughts and ideas, hoping that someone will find them of interest. As a dumb but entertaining movies sorta kinda once said "Be excellent to yourselves"
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Well...
Posted:Nov 7, 2010 12:58 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 4:59 am
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Still showing off on cam, but that's about it.

How do you take the next step?
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Thoughts on Exhibtionism
Posted:Mar 23, 2008 12:17 pm
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2010 12:56 pm
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This is Hamish speaking...

I've been "showing off" on the cams for a while now and have mixed feelings about it. Part of me says it is less than discreet, even though I don't show my face. Another part of me says "just another dick on cam" and why do I bother since there seems to be an unfortunate stereotype about that. And yet another part of me gets excited because some people do watch and once in a while, if the chat is working or we can hook up on y or another chat, we do chat and encourage each other, etc. And that makes me feel kind of good about myself, or at least that I am somewhat sexually attractive to others besides my wife.

The third feeling usually wins out.

I'm curious about how others feel about it all. Why do you cam? Why do you watch? How does it all make you feel?
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Getting used to it all...
Posted:Aug 4, 2007 2:10 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 4:59 am
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Well, we've been here long enough not to be total newbies but we sure aren't as experienced as a lot of folks.

Nevertheless, it's a lot of fun.

Now...he's gone on cam a few times and it's kind fo exciting and interesting...

But how do you feel about it if she doesn't want to exhibit herself in any way, shape or form? It's fine with her, and maybe a little exciting, to watch him and see the interactions, but how many are disappointed, annoyed or just not interested if she doesn't want to show herself in public?

Thanks for all the great shows and ideas and the wonderful, exciting things y'all do here on AdultFriendFinder...we're having a great time so far.
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A few weeks in and gettin' horny
Posted:Jul 16, 2007 9:24 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2010 12:57 pm
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So, we've been here awhile and are starting to get to know some folks...a little anyway. We've responded to some questions and joined some groups and are still feeling our way around. So far it's been pretty much fun.

Still, we wonder why people are somewhat reluctant to talks about how they deal with all the issues surrounding swinging.

For us, the biggest fear is losing our emotional connection with each other. We believe sex can be separated from love...that it can be purely physical and lots of fun...but we worry that years of societal indoctrination might make one of us stray emotionally should we become physically, directly involved with others.

So, we figure we're best of camming, and maybe, sometime, if we ever get real comfortable, with soft swinging in person. That remains to be seen.

So, we want to know and find out about what makes this good for you? What do you enjoy about it? What works, what doesn't? Do you fear being discovered by others who don't approve of swinging? How would/have you dealt with that?

So, let's see where this goes. Yes, we are aroused by watching folks and hearing about their adventures. We'd like to share some fantasies and adventures with others.

Hope all is well with you. Be good to yourselves. Have lots of big, thrashing, awe inspiring orgasms...and lots of little, peaceful ones. And plenty of every other kind in between.
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