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Posted:Dec 11, 2017 12:53 am
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YOU……
You just walked in the room
Snapping your gum and Flipping your hair,
From head to toe I’m checkin you
I try but I can’t help…but stair
Our eyes lock, as you glance at me
They got me caught in your trance
It takes everything to pull my eyes away
For second… Then I take another glance.
All I can do is give a goofy grin
You give me the most beautiful smile I’ve seen
Love story has to start from somewhere,
And this is our uncomfortable beginning.
For the rest of our lives, till death due us part
Your all in ever wanted, my dream come true..
My happily ever after, the girl of my dreams,
I’m just so overjoyed…head over heals it is you
It was, is , will and forever has been
Like a wish had been granted, this me and you
A love that comes so easy, everything so right
baby just keep doing that special thing you do…
And that’s plain and simple, you just, being..YOU
By Gary A
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Relationship Roadmap 6
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Posted:Sep 22, 2017 12:01 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2017 12:05 am
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Relationship Roadmap 6
OK, I have been saying pay attention to your lovers actions, words, anything and everything down to the way she's breathing. I know all the experts say communication is the key to great relationship. And there right.... you do need to talk to one another. But there are situations where no matter how much taking you do, its going to be frustrating. Example, have you ever asked where she wants to go eat. Even after she called you twice or more at work to confirm the time you would be home. The #1 answer she will give is " I don't know, what do you feel like." So in this dilemma, I do a process of elimination. You remind her of places she didn't really care for and then you bring up a few good experiences she had. If she liked the food, nice atmosphere,... friendly staff is as big one and so one. And you will always figure it out, but by you paying attention you will remember and remind her of places she did or did not like. Now if you didn't pay attention, and had no idea. Then all that talking would eventually turn to yelling. Its a good idea to have those memories, for situations like this one. But if your head is buried in your phone you won't catch things like, the eye roll of the waitress or light shiny in her eyes. Just be there in the moment and its easy. And she will be impressed by you, seeing things and remembering them. Then this night won't turn out to be one you don't want to remember. I'm not saying men are smarter, or women are always emotional. Oh god, I know that's not the case. I'm saying keep a level head, because...us as men are upset and or irritated when things like work are on our minds. And we tend to make things a big deal, when they are not. And a woman gets emotional when there are upset, happy, frightened.. And when they react, us as men need not acknowledge the situation. But remember and stored the information away. Not to get over on her or one up her. Its quite the opposite, its to know her likes, dislikes and her deepest fears. When we talk to our significant other, we don't always put everything out there. Other example: if you love this pizza place down the road, hot cheesy, greasy goodness. You like it there and our woman will go and enjoy it with us. but if she's getting upset stomachs, and in bath room after you guys eat there. If in this scenario your not paying attention, then you wouldn't know that it's giving her stomach issues. They are probably minor..But that not the issue. The isdue is she knows you love it, and so she goes there for you. Oh she could be enjoying it also because its delicious. That's just an example of things that don't get communicated, especially early in the relationship. So I wouldn't want to cause a woman and discomfort, no matter how little it may be. So I would run by there for a slice alone when I'm out running errands. But would not subject that her to that any further. And if she brings it up as a suggestion, I'd remind her that you noticed she didn't like " it was so greasy last time". Then she'll have an opportunity to not go there anymore. But you paid attention and she will be greatful for that. I would feel good knowing that she was accompanying me, because she loves me. And I gave her an out from going there, because I love her. OK till next time, just enjoy each other and pay attention to her, not because you have to because you want to.
Keep those cell phones put away when its date night or quality time. Nothing is more important, then being there in the moment, not in cyberspace.
By Gary Ath (19)
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Relationship Roadmap 5
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Posted:Sep 19, 2017 2:08 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 1:20 am
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Relationship Roadmap 5
All couples will disagree, and fight. It happens we are all human and the ones closest to us, tend to get the back lash of our day to day life. We all have them kind of days, where we what to be left alone. And on those days, are when things go wrong. It enviable that when you just absolutely don't need something to malfunction or just break, it does. So this is when the level of handyman you are needs to be evaluated and honestly assessed to take care of the situation. I know were men and it dings our pride to have another man come into our domain and fix things. But it's going to be part of our growth and further develop us a men. I had the furnace go out, I was at work and he charged my wife $200. I looked at the invoice, work order and it had no description on it of what he did. So couple years later furnace goes down, I had to YouTube how to band aid it. I needed to be there for when this repair man came back to see what he actually does. Yes it caused an agreement, but when I seen him wipe down the in side and unscrew the fire sensor and just clean it. Then he put it back together and charged us $200 again. So since I seen what he did and some investigation on our unit. I was able not only do the upkeep but replace and repair older parts. Being some what mechanically inclined, I figured why stop there and began doing all household repairs. I mean I seen my grandfather due all repairs on their house, I should be a man and due my own. So my reign of Mr fix it around the house lasted 10+ years, not a bad run. But me becoming over confident and my ego was so many times bigger, there wasn't anything I could do. So I thought, learn from my mistakes and really look into thing before you make things worse. Everything now is a smart device and need special, expensive part and tools. So after shorting out and frying a few items. I wasn't allowed to touch anything, this hit my pride like a Mack truck. We argued and resented each other over my stupid pride. So I'm just saying if your not sure just save your self the headache of doing it, but most of all fight with you love. Like i said your going to fight but don't fight over some stupid like pride. I know it's hard and I failed at it but looking back, it would have saved me a few night on the couch. So pick your battles and if your going to fight make sure its worth something to stand up for. And when she can truly look at things from your point of view she'll understand, not agree just understand. And most women don't understand or even care about pride. So if you argue with her and it over something she'll later see where you were coming from..there's a pretty good chance when you guys resolve the situation you guys can make up. If you know what I mean, because when you both get all worked up,there some pent up emotions brewing. But if she can't see a valid reason for the argument, then most times, you have to say sorry and there is no make up sex. So just remember you will argue and it normal and healthy to get things out. Just make sure it's for all the right reasons, and really worth it. I know some time its best to just not go there, then get into a fight. I have bitten my tongue plenty of times, and swallowed my pride to avoid a stupid fight. I know I wasn't really going to care one why or the other in the near future. We'll never know how the other is going to think or react. But if we don't react or counter their choice or decision, we save our self's for being unhappy. And when where fighting and unhappy , were not enjoying one another. That's what we all got it into our relationship to do. So love her and apprentice her every single day.
Till next time, do let pride get in the way, of truly loving her.
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Windows to the soul
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Posted:Sep 19, 2017 2:06 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2017 2:11 am
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When i look at you
And there something i want to know/
I just stair right down..
Into the window of your soul./
Like when I'm being sweet
Your eyes sparkel and due smile/
Or if I'm losing you
Because i do ramble on for awhile/
Or when I'm off in a crowd
Doing the things that i do/
I can feel your adoring glance
Without even looking at you/
So when we conversate
And look into each other's eyes/
The future should be clear
And there should be no surprise/
As my eye revile all
As yours do to to me
I know everything i want
And its you I only see/
All I ever wanted
And all I ever wished to be/
Is been placed right here...
Right now, right before Me/
So now I know, everything
And all I need to know/
You don't have to ask
Just look
Thru the widows to my soul
By GaryA
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She's your everything
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Posted:Sep 11, 2017 12:24 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2017 5:32 pm
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She's your everything.. Be inspired by her love Appreciate who she is And all she does Tell her you love her With each passing day Remind her of her beauty In every kind of way Kiss her with passion And hold her ever so tight Cherish her every day And thank god for her every night Say to her Because of her You want to be a better man Make her fell so so special Every chance you can If you show and make her feel loved And thru all that life brings She will never question If she is your....everything. By Garya07311974 at gmal.
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Relationship Roadmap pt4
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Posted:Sep 9, 2017 11:51 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2017 5:31 pm
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Chivalry is not out of an old-fashioned time period or something in as black and white movie. Its a show of love and respect toward the one you care about. Some women are uncomfortable with a man opening doors and pulling out her chairs. Its because no one has ever done this for her. Its not sexist, its a form of showing her you love her. its a tradition, that's some how gotten lost thru time. Its no different than holding hands, kissing her in public. It is a form of affection, and I personally still believe in. Watching my grandparents, my grandfather doing this for my grandmother, just showed me that real men do this and that's how men should respect their women. 60 years of marriage, can argue with that and still in love, that's the dream. Have someone love you literally for life, that what we as humans as searching for and or trying to keep. So showing you women you love them shouldn't feel weird or embarrassing it should come natural and you should be happy to do it. Making your loved one feel special and doing things for them should come second nature. If it feels like work or you're trying to hard then maybe you need to look at your relationship. Picking up roses to take home to her, just because you love her. That should just happen with no reason or expectations. I worked with this lady Sue, one of the best people I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. She was the best, she just got blown away when no was getting roses for my wife and asked what the occasion was. I said because its Tuesday, she was so floored by my response. But it was true, it didn't need a day on the calendar to tell me when I should show my Wife I loved her. Special occasions are special but the day to day living and the struggles you and your love go through. Are also special and should be treated as such. Flowers every day wouldn't be or feel the same but, just from time to time that is special. A love note on the mirror or anywhere is a reminder that she means so much to you. And I would do this as often as I could. Because saying you love her is OK but showing her, just mean that much more. So don't ever feel you have to do thing for her, do thing because you want to do them . It's just keeps your priorities in perspective, she should come first. Life, work, friend's are important but not as important as your family. And its kinda important to leave or give those reminders that she's still the one. Especially when life get busy and hectic, when quality time gets little less and not as romantic. So just remember to show her, so she knows you love her. Its just a good practice to show and communicate this to her.
So just don't assume she knows you love her so much. Show her you love her everyday.
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Relationship ideas, reminder, or treat her kinder blog
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Posted:Sep 8, 2017 10:06 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2024 1:20 am
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Shopping with your love, wow I know if your going shopping to a mall, or outlets stores , or any type of multiple shops. It so easy to turn this experience into a fight or come off looking like a jerk. She's going to look at things she may want, things that she don't need and everything else under the sun. So be comfortable, not sloppy but as casual comfortable as you can be. Just anticipate your going to be board, standing, giving your option on a lot of things he won't even buy, and holding her things. But don't look how you feel, put a smile on it and don't be super sarcastic. Eat before you go, isn't a bad Ideas, cause the food courts may have good food, it keeps you there longer and the longer you stay the more she thinks about shopping. After she eats she's is going to want to look at a few more things before you guys leave. While your getting ready to heads out, listen to some upbeat music if in the morning you listen to some thing with a good beat and good songs you start of positive. This is exactly you want to start of in. Singing, dancing, kissing her as she passes by. What ever you need put your self in the best mood as possible. On the car ride to Denny's or where you guy decided to eat at. Also it easy to good idea to plan your escape so earlier suggest she invite over her sister, friends, who ever. Just say let's have them over I'll. BBQ if you don't know how to BBQ you need to learn and fast. You being good on the grill will get you out of a lot of things and get you praise for it if you food taste good. Don't get talked in to going over there houses or meeting them at a restaurant. This could mean your out till you meet up with who ever she called. If your BBQ you have to prepare the food some need a hour marinade or rub, stopping by the grocery store for ingredients is not recommended. I get home first look and then say honey I thought we had what ever and your going to run to the Grocery store for it real quick. Remember she's in a shopping mood you don't want her to continue her urges in the grocery store. So now you have a timer on this day, go eat so food don't prolong the stay, and be loving with her so she don't punish you by keeping you there any longer than you guys have to be. Your cellphone apps may come in handy, sitting out side the waiting room. Just don't load any thing that can't be pa sued in an instant. She going to want your opinion and your attention at that moment. I'm sure you seen any sit- com and the guy says the wrong thing when asked how do I look. I hope you been telling her how beautiful she is multiple times a day every day. But not only saying it, tell her why in details. So when this moment arrives you are prepared to give her a honest but flattering assment of the items she's wearing. So you just tell her you love this part of her and in that piece of clothing doesn't highlight such part. Just be honest but not stupid and it a good time to make her feel good with complement. And most of all enjoy being out with her, make the best of the situation. It not an ideal day for most men but start off positive and just don't bring your self down. Eat for energy and most of all its for her and she likes spending time with your dumb ass. I know its crazy..but they do like us there not just to torching us. Do have fun and its just a few hours you can do this.
Till next time...tell her she's beautiful every day and why..give details to what you like about her...it can help you out later.
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Relationship Roadmap pt2
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Posted:Sep 7, 2017 2:46 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2017 2:09 am
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Having weekends plans, this may get planed as early as the previous weekend. It may seem like just a casual night out, be sure. Remember pay attention to your lover, if she not talking about it and getting an outfit prepared by Wednesday then maybe your right. But if she's talking to her friends and going over details. You might have to up your game, she is now building up this night in her head. And in her head everything is perfect, so now you have to try to make it special night. It's not ever going to be perfect but you can put in effort to masks it special. Get the vehicle cleaned and ready to be her carriage, have a music playlist of your guys songs the ballets work best. You have to look good, trim, man scape have a outfit ready, Cologne up. Ask foodies you don't just use one sense to enjoy food and she going to use all her senses to enjoy you. You'll look good, you'll smell good, music will sound good , mints so you'll taste good, hold hand(moisturize early and often) you'll feel good.... Better later but for now. Little thing matter so much, if you can get a dozen roses. This is the thought full part, your going to break them up to individual roses. I recamend those little clear tubes with water for the bottoms to keep healthy. Now you have to get away and make it happen. Every place your going and some stopping points are key(if you can talk someone into helping, you life will be better). Like give one to the restaurant, a little store for gum. I just suggest put little pit stop in thru the night. And you got it- your going to need at least 10 pick up spots. 10 because the first is in the vehicle on her seat, with a nice cloth in a little basket would be golden. Now you need the establishments help distributing these flowers. I suggest the new out door shopping complexes are great, then you get there early and walk the shops. There usually lit romantically and she'll notice tonight ever so much. As she start getting roses..she going catch on quick so just a few shops. But you have to keep her on her toes, be creative. Like under a park bench, on a moon it stroll. At the movies the ticket seller hands over one with the tickets. Comedy club if you can get the comedian to give her one its things like this that become unforgetable memories. I go a little further with a little love note or poem with each one of the roses. And enjoy each other, don't focus on the next flower destination. Look in her eyes when you talk, smile her, tell her how beautiful she is..because women get tired of hearing that. And what you did is rep!ace all her preconceived notions, and expectations of this night and blew them away. The last and final rose should be in the bed room. It can be there in a vase, or you can turn toward her with it between your teeth. That i would suggest if you have music qued and dance with her in a moon or candle lit bedroom. It takes some effort but when you see her smile and give you that look..its a look of so much love and just aww....you know you just made her feel like the most special woman in the world. And other women will tell her how lucky she is to have such a wonderful man. When women start picture how she wants thing to go and you have know idea, thats dangerous. And most times she disappointed, and its a bad night. Having her collecting the flowers, like I said it takes her mind off the impossible and its spontaneous, caring and you score big... Literally and figuratively. I suggest limit cell phone use, undecided attention. Bring it out for photos and that's it, no checking in, posting, messages.. Tonight is about you two don't let a phone ruin a special night.
OK till next time, keep reminding her how beautiful she is..and keep listing to her because there's little bits of information in what she says and reacts to, it helps on what you can do next.
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Relationship Roadmap 1
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Posted:Sep 6, 2017 3:16 am
Last Updated:Sep 25, 2017 10:51 am
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Being in a relationship, It's not easy, birds chirping, sun shinning, and everyone is dancing and singing. It takes work to keep a happy and healthy relationship. But if you just pay attention to your other half, then you will pick up on clues. They might not even know that there giving out these.. "helpful pieces of information". If they are tired that's easy. its stay home get take out or home cooked meal if you can cook. Don't try something new and mess it up when she is hungry and tired. That will put an end to the night real fast. So set a nice table, sit down and conversate. No devices, just one on one time, giving each other your undivided attention. Ask about her day and how such events made her feel. Just listen don't be the hero, you ask is there anything you can do, if you really can do something to rectify the situation. There's always situations, and she just want confirmation from you that support her choice or decision. After dinner let her retreat to the living room while you take care of the dishes, left over's, just all the dinner mess. Join her in the living room and give her a shoulder and back massage. Give her control of the remote for the rest of the night. Yes you probably will watch reality TV, women yelling at each other. Women get worked up watching these shows, it's another clue. Talk to her about the show get her take and why she like and dislikes. who and what she gets her worked up about the series. Just stay focused and hear her, pay attention to her issues. A lot of times they hit close to home, she may be giving you information on what her dislikes are and you now can work with that later. Once again side with her about everything on these shows, just listen and agree. When you adjourned to the bed room, her being tired was a clue. No sex tonight, as you lay there keep communicating, talk about the tomorrow and your guys plans. You can hold her, spoon, cuddle, stroke her hair. Just no hanky panky stuff, if she not in the mood all you doings tonight are lost. You'll have plenty of time together for relations, one night of putting all of her feelings, issues, and emotions first..will go along way. Go to sleep and you will have embedded this night of selflessness into her memory even if its subconsciously. Putting her first and hearing her grievances and option's is huge to women.
Till next time..show and let her know your love!
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