Separated
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Posted:Jun 26, 2018 9:26 am
Last Updated:Jun 27, 2018 12:21 pm
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If you are on a dating site (not this one) and you list your status as "separated", here's what I'm thinking.
You are only on there to fuck. You want to get back at your spouse in that "I'll show them" kind of way. And you should get that out of your system BEFORE you enter into the realm of dating. It isn't fair to the other party to think that you are actually looking for a life partner when in fact you are not.
At the beginning of a separation, both spouses' emotions are running high and there is usually a lot of uncertainty as to what will happen next. Will you try to reconcile? Counseling? or just call it quits and file the divorce?
This site can surely serve the purpose of a newly separated person who is not looking for another life partner right away.
I've actually recommended men change their profile to reflect what they are actually looking for or just create a profile on here. If you are not interested in dating to find a life partner, then you are looking to fuck. After all, many men have contacted me here with the attitude that me looking for a life long FWB on here is not what this site is about.
So I'm going to offer MY advice to men who are doing it wrong. Just sayin'.
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Lapse In Total Recall
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Posted:Jun 26, 2018 7:05 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2018 4:48 pm
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Yesterday I saw an alert on FB of a guy that beat up a woman and is now hiding from the police. Here's the weird thing. I am certain I have seen his picture on another dating site, but now I can't find the profile.
Apparently this tool bag is using certain sites to pray on women and then beats them up. I just wish I wasn't going through menopause and could remember which site I saw him on. I know I recognize the pic and I am almost certain that he contacted me at one time. Glad I deleted that message. 
I guess his FB page says he is a devout Christian. SMDH
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Tip Of The Day
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Posted:Jun 24, 2018 7:55 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2018 4:48 pm
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You can't fuel the fire and then cry when you get burned. Calling a person derogatory names and threatening them is going to get you some backlash. Just so you are aware.
I do love the idiots that don't get this concept. Complain because someone is yelling at you and threatening you after you do the same to them. Priceless!
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Social Media Cowards
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Posted:Jun 22, 2018 5:43 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2018 4:47 pm
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The other day I was checking FB for the Alerts page in my area. A certain family with a special needs posted that their ran away and asking for those living in the area to be on the lookout for her. This is the 2nd time the ran away in less than 2 months.
Now didn't these inbreeder cowards go bashing this family all over FB. None of whom know the circumstances or what the family has been going through for the past couple of months. I know what is going on, but I couldn't put any of them in their place because of my job. I work as a support person for the very police dept looking for the .
I will admit that the family needs some help that they are too proud to ask for, but they are not inadequate parents in the least.
People are such cowards sitting behind their computers or tapping away on their phones. They could have walked away from their tech and offered to help with the ground search.
SMH at the downfall of humanity.
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You Ain't Right In The Head
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Posted:Jun 18, 2018 12:50 pm
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2018 1:41 pm
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Some loser male type kept trying to contact me on here. I blocked him because he was just blatantly rude and disrespectful. I have never engaged in any communication with him, so I'm guessing my profile pissed him off.
Then he tried contacting me on another site and I blocked him there as well. We all have preferences and certain things we want. I don't contact anyone on here and begin berating them because I don't like what is in their profile. I just move on.
Is my profile offensive? What's the problem with any of you that you need to contact someone on here and be rude and disrespectful? Is that approach working for you? Are you meeting a lot of people to fuck?
Whatever your opinions are or choices are..... There's my golf clap for you. Everyone needs to be validated.
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Live Traps
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Posted:Jun 16, 2018 6:19 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 11:15 pm
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My sister let me borrow a live trap to trap some feral cats in the neighborhood. I'm getting pretty good at it. The past two nights I have caught a kitten and the mother. What I can't seem to catch is a break.
The people on this site are just horrible. And then I think, WOW....you're the sperm that won the race. SMH
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Redneck Magnet
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Posted:Jun 14, 2018 4:23 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2024 11:15 pm
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Wanna know what a redneck magnet looks like? Take a look at my profile pic.
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Searching For Intelligent Life
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Posted:Jun 11, 2018 4:46 am
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2018 4:28 am
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I'm still on this quest to find an intelligent male for a monogamous relationship. It probably won't happen. The last time I thought I found one, well, he ghosted me and moved to another part of the state.
I sent someone a message pointing out how lucky they are that they have a job that they love what they do. You know, their passion. Well, this tool sends a message back saying, "You are angry at me for some reason?"
WTF???? How am I angry when I'm pointing out how lucky they are? Most people go through their whole life not being able to make a living at what they are passionate about. I WAS BEING NICE.
I don't understand how or why the gene pool dried up. I guess if I find the answer to that one I'll be rich.
These dating sites suck.
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Any Ideas?
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Posted:Jul 24, 2017 8:00 am
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2018 4:47 am
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What kind of job should I do if I don't like people? Obviously, the job would have to pay well enough that a person could pay their bills every month. This is the one area that I am at a loss. I have racked my brain every day for the last 20 years and still cannot come up with a viable option.
Maybe someone else can come up with something I have not thought of yet.
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What Have I Done To You?
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Posted:Jul 20, 2017 6:31 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2017 9:13 pm
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Is there some reason that you don't like me? Do you even know me? Why does my profile piss you off so much that you have to be arrogant and condescending toward me? You do know that if you do not like a profile you can just leave and look at another profile? Am I arrogant, condescending and judgmental of your profile? Do I attack you for the things that you have in your profile? I can't even look at profiles because I'm not a paying member. I don't care why you are here, I didn't ask. If I was interested in someone, I would ask questions and take the time to get to know them without being an arrogant, condescending judgmental asshole about it. There is a very clear process for learning about another person and clearly, you did not get the memo. I do not have to compromise myself to meet your low standards of life.
Humanity has changed for the worse. People do not respect other's boundaries. This site is just a breeding ground for more degradation of morality. You can look for a sexual partner without being an arrogant, condescending, judgmental cretin.
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The World Is Full Of Surprises
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Posted:Jun 19, 2017 4:12 pm
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2017 3:04 am
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I learned a few things today that I did not know.
I'm currently at a training for my job. I'm working for the State in Juvenile Justice. So I'm back to working with adolescents again. Something I swore i would not do, but this time it is with boys and not girls.
In the last 17 years I have encountered pretty much everything you can encounter in the criminal side of things. I have had little experience with juveniles that are sexual predators. Some of today's training dealt with that very topic. I learned the types of behaviors to look for from both residents and staff that are sexually assaulting someone in the facility.
In addition, last week a resident told me that he is slated to enter an adult program within the next year. I didn't know anything about this program and decided to look it up. In about 5 minutes, I just learned everything about this program and where it is located. The resident in question seems to be confused. He thinks he is going to a state prison when in reality he is going to a sex offenders program for those that are at a high risk for continuing to commit aggressive sexual acts but also have diminished mental capacity. The program is located at a State Hospital. There is also the possibility that he could be there indefinitely if the courts deem it necessary due to his high risk behaviors.
I've always hated training because it always seems like the same old shit just different day. Today was not like that. And the hotel I'm staying at is pretty nice!
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Amelia's Delimma
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Posted:Jun 17, 2017 11:01 am
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2017 3:06 am
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Disclaimer:
The following story and its characters are completely fictional and not representative of any person, living or deceased.
There are three main characters to this story; Amelia, Jack and Matt.
Amelia went to work like usual on Friday. She works on the other side of a very wide, deep and swift moving river. Amelia, due to an unforeseen event, could not make it home Friday after work. So she spent the night at a hotel near work. Saturday is her wedding day. Amelia has no means of getting across the river to where her wedding is taking place. There are no phones, no cell phone service, no motor vehicles and no electricity going to the location of her wedding. Amelia is now at the edge of the river and can see off in the distance her wedding location on the other side. She cannot swim the river because it is far too dangerous and she is not a good swimmer. She could walk miles along the river to a foot bridge to get across, but then she would be late for her own wedding. Jack is the man she is marrying. He told her before she left for work, that under no circumstances is she to be late for their wedding. Jack made it very clear to Amelia that if she does not show up on time that he never wanted to see or speak to her again.
Just when Amelia is about to give up, she sees a boat and waves it over to her. Matt is the owner and operator of this boat.Amelia asks if he can help her get across the river to her wedding. Matt says he will help her, but he needs $200 to pay for his time and the fuel it takes to operate the boat. Amelia explains that she has no money to pay. So Matt agrees to help Amelia if she has sex with him. Amelia knows this is wrong. She doesn't want to betray Jack on their wedding day.
So what should Amelia do? In order to get to her wedding, she has two options. She can sleep with Matt and he gets her there on time to marry Jack, but that is cheating and she doesn't want to start off a marriage with a betrayal. Or she can walk the distance to the footbridge and take several hours to get to her wedding late and then Jack won't be there and the relationship is over.
Dilemmas like these present themselves every day in our lives. What would you do or have Amelia do?
I was presented this in a group almost 30 years ago. My answer to this dilemma is the same now as it was 30 years ago. I choose to walk away. Matt is an asshole. He is an insecure, manipulative little bitch. He probably was hurt by a woman significant to him in his younger days and now he is out to get revenge for that by requiring women to perform sexual favors for things. Jack is more likely a narcissistic control freak. He doesn't really value Amelia at all. If he really loved her and was serious about their life together, he would have made it clear that the wedding would go on even if she was late. he made it all about him by giving her an ultimatum.
I would walk away from these two losers right then and there. I don't need this kind of negativity in my life. Life is short and treating another person badly, beating them up mentally and emotionally is not for me. There is much more life to live.
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