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Lesbian Dating, Relationships, and Sexy Encounters

My Opinion about men and Relationships..for what it is worth  

StripShowLover 52F  
73 posts
12/10/2006 8:41 am

Last Read:
8/1/2007 9:52 pm

My Opinion about men and Relationships..for what it is worth

The Truth about Men.....all women this is a must to read

If a man wants you....

If a man wants you,nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you,nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit)to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live you life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no,you can't "BE FRIENDS".A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend DON'T settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along,then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think"IT WILL GET BETTER".You'll be mad at yourself later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who's got a bunch of by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregant,Why would he treat you and differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you,speak up.

Never let a man know everything.He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior.Change comes from within.

Don't ever make him feel he is more important than you are....even if he has more education or a better job.Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man,nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

Oh Lord!If he cheated with you,he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are not DOGS.

You should not be the one doing all the bending....compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationship..there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you....A relationship consists of two whole individuals...look for someone complimentary....not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are,and your always readily available to him-he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

He should be your BEST FRIEND,not your father,you already have one.

Share this with other ladies....You'll make someone SMILE, or maybe even make her RETHINK her choices.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person,an hour to appreciate them,a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.




BlackHeatLust 54M

12/10/2006 9:12 am

Good Blog read. Thanks for the post and this is comming from a MAN!!!!

BHL


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Djeeper1987 54M

12/10/2006 9:31 am

um ok, i still believe it goes both ways. so reverse this for women too.

Carpe Diem


Fantasychaser4 53M

7/31/2007 6:01 pm

having lived it, i believe the exact same things could be said of women sorry dear!!!


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