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Sex With a Domme... Way More Fun Than Toast and Jam ð
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I'm probably not the person to ask about the success or failure of a D/s post. I am toasted white bread - metaphorically speaking. I can tell you that time of day makes a difference. Titles make a difference. The questions you ask make a difference. Of course, it's possible, that the story stimulated some hand action other than fingers on keyboard. But I'll say that things in general in blogville have really slowed down a lot. Less new posts, less comments, less viewers... Less interest? Who knows. All I know is that you're here... and that's fine with me. ð Meatloaf recipe? And I'll post naked pics of me cooking the stuff? Wanna come over and help me mix up a batch? ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I've been on the Dom and sub side of things. I really enjoy both sides. It certainly inspires a tingling in my brain. You'd be gentle, right? ðąð My safe word is "monkey" ð
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I tried posting this story at 2 different times with 2 different titles... FAIL on both attempts. ðĪ So perhaps blog ville residents are not really as sexed up as they pretend to be? hmmm.. ðķ I mean this story is hot.... ðĨ I'm not going to soften things up. It's a story about a Domme. I've concluded that I'm just going to continue to post stuff that turns me on. Otherwise... I might as well start posting meatloaf recipes.. right? lol ðððē Itâs your space to fill as you like. Never compromise who you are for the sake of maybe a few more watchers or comments. Often thereâs no rhyme or reason as to what invokes responses. Do your own thing and be proud of it.
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Itâs fun to âswitchâ things up. Keeps things fresh, interesting and tingling. Of course I would be gentle-thatâs the way I like it too. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Agree- the story is sizzling hot ðĨ One I could imagine being a part of too. Itâs your space to fill as you like. Never compromise who you are for the sake of maybe a few more watchers or comments. Often thereâs no rhyme or reason as to what invokes responses. Do your own thing and be proud of it. Thanks for your support. ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I'm a switch. But not particularly submissive. I enjoy being spanked or flogged, just for the physical sensations, but no one's going to get away with trying something silly like making me count the number of blows or call him Master.  
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I'm a switch. But not particularly submissive. I enjoy being spanked or flogged, just for the physical sensations, but no one's going to get away with trying something silly like making me count the number of blows or call him Master. I think, I'm s switch as well... This is baby stuff, right? I mean in terms of Domme stuff. I'm exploring this thing. I find it totally intriguing and it trips me out... lol I guess, I'm a newbie. You'd be gentle, right? ðĪ Or... I'd just let you do what you wanted. How far would that go? Would we talk before hand? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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awww...well that was nice...but i am a sub...so i wanna see how YOU take me as a dom...mmMMmmm...yes, please, sir?
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awww...well that was nice...but i am a sub...so i wanna see how YOU take me as a dom...mmMMmmm...yes, please, sir? Can you get any wetter? Nice.... ðâĪïļð Hold still... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Hmmm. Sure. I can do that. We'd start with a blindfold and I'd tie you to the bed with nylon stockings. You'd have to keep your legs spread and keep still... Shhh... No wiggling. I haven't even started yet. I'd wait to see your toes curl... then I'd have to stop..... Hmmm... Did you know your little friend twitch, when it's really excited? Can you get any wetter? Nice.... ðâĪïļð Hold still...
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sir, you are already making dripping wet...of course, you are gonna now tell me not to cum, yet..mmmm But we're not alone here, are we? ðąð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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>> Would we talk before hand? Most definitely. Negotiation is very important, asking lots of questions - especially if it's someone who you haven't played with that way before. -What are your limits? -What's your safe word? If you tend to go nonverbal do you have an alternative like a hand signal? -Do you have any medical issues that I should know about? -Any mental health issues? Things that might be a negative trigger? -What are you hoping to get out of this scene? Some people might say it takes the mystery out of it, but it does end up being much safer, and actually a lot more fun since it takes some of the anxiety out of it.
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>> Would we talk before hand? Most definitely. Negotiation is very important, asking lots of questions - especially if it's someone who you haven't played with that way before. -What are your limits? -What's your safe word? If you tend to go nonverbal do you have an alternative like a hand signal? -Do you have any medical issues that I should know about? -Any mental health issues? Things that might be a negative trigger? -What are you hoping to get out of this scene? Some people might say it takes the mystery out of it, but it does end up being much safer, and actually a lot more fun since it takes some of the anxiety out of it. limits - no physical pain safe word - monkey medical issues - I'm allergic to nuts mental health issues - uhh no. I'm average f**ked up negative trigger - don't mention my mother, or things, will grind to a halt. What are you hoping to get out of this scene? -Â Titillation, orgasm, sex... eventually... Just thinking about it... gives me butterflies, in my stomach. But I can be a Dom, as well.... and THAT, thrills me- but in a completely, different way. Is that normal? When I wrote this story, it tripped me out. It was based on real life experiences. I'm sure there are people, here, who practise. I might look them up... eventually. I find it so hot... Do you get butterflies in your stomach? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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And sometimes the negotiation is enough to make you walk away - which isn't necessarily a bad thing. Your answers tell me that we would not be looking for the same thing. Your limit is no physical pain. My enjoyment in topping is delivering pain  Obviously not more than a level that the person likes/can tolerate. But none whatsoever? - well, that wouldn't be a bdsm scene for me.Your hope is to get an orgasm and/or sex...to me that isn't necessarily the focus of the scene. It could be, with someone who's a romantic partner, but it's not at all a given. I've talked about this a lot with people - most folks, who are first looking into it, look at kink as a form of foreplay, a prelude to the "main event" of having sex. But for many kinksters it can very easily be a standalone activity. That applies to me these days, seeing as I don't have a romantic partner. I used to get butterflies, and still might get them if I'm about to scene with someone who really intrigues me. With most people, I can just relax and have fun.
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And sometimes the negotiation is enough to make you walk away - which isn't necessarily a bad thing. Your answers tell me that we would not be looking for the same thing. Your limit is no physical pain. My enjoyment in topping is delivering pain Obviously not more than a level that the person likes/can tolerate. But none whatsoever? - well, that wouldn't be a bdsm scene for me.Your hope is to get an orgasm and/or sex...to me that isn't necessarily the focus of the scene. It could be, with someone who's a romantic partner, but it's not at all a given. I've talked about this a lot with people - most folks, who are first looking into it, look at kink as a form of foreplay, a prelude to the "main event" of having sex. But for many kinksters it can very easily be a standalone activity. That applies to me these days, seeing as I don't have a romantic partner. I used to get butterflies, and still might get them if I'm about to scene with someone who really intrigues me. With most people, I can just relax and have fun. Well.... Very interesting stuff. Deffinitely has put some perspective on the topic for me. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yes very difficult to answer . So.etimes terms , labels confuse things other times they help. Prefer if Male leads, prefer brown bread ð
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Yes very difficult to answer . So.etimes terms , labels confuse things other times they help. Prefer if Male leads, prefer brown bread ð Although... there is something deliciously fun about teasing someone .... while their toes curl...ð Do yours? lol... ððą I love... brown bread... ð White Bread is just too plain, no? Have a great Monday... ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Oooooo.. sounds like fun. I'd let you have your way with me... but then it would be my turn to watch your tiny toes curl and your woman bits quiver. That sounds like so much fun. I'd watch you shiver till you saw stars.... lol âĻðð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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You had to delete and redo again?  I'm sorry.I'm taking the easy question .... I like toasted white bread but not with jam. Apple butter. Peanut butter. Cinnamon and sugar. Honey. Not jam.
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I think it's important to remember that the person who takes the lead isn't always the leader. It could be the person most atune to the desires of the other person. Although they take the lead, they are in fact the servant. Drop by any time. ð ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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