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Common Courtesy.
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Common Courtesy. So is this a long lost form of communication. I realize a lot woman must get so many emails that it must be next to impossible to answer them all. However what would be nice is just a little message back if you're not interested to just say so and in a polite manner. Yes we are all here for the same thing. Sex in one form or another. Even though it be a NSA, long term, or something serious we all want to meet somebody. However not to let the initial emailer know if you're not interested and to just ignore that person is rude. Yes it is kind of uncomfortable to say those words for some {not interested}. I know it is for me. I don't want to hurt anybody or have them feel bad but a simple message back is all that’s required. Not sending that message makes some feel not worthy. After all it is Common Courtesy. |
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I know it is common courtesy to send a reply back.....I used to answer all my messages, interested or not. But you know, more often than not, if I sent a nice "thank you but I am not interested" message back to someone, I would get an angry one back calling me names, insulting me for not being interested, etc etc. so nowadays I just tend to delete or ignore the ones that I'm not interested in. I have like over 600 messages sitting in my inbox that I haven't even been able to read yet (or reply to). So all I'm saying is that often the reason you don't get a reply back, is because other men have ruined it by being rude. Good luck in your search. 
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I have the same experience as the above female posts, if you send a thanks but no thanks reply, I get a flurry of negative and insulting responses back. Common courtesy is just something we all have to live without online.
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All the other ladies have said, is better to not even open that door cause all you get in return are name calling, a lot of guys can't handle rejection that well, they think that because you are here, you GOT to have sex with them. and saying no is not acceptable in their eyes. better to ignored them if you are not interested. that way they don't know if you even received the massage or not and they leave you alone. And NO, not everyone is here is for the same thing, a lot of people is just here cause they want, to kill time, see blogs, or see videos, but NOT everyone is looking to meet for sexual encounters. I know cause I'm one of them.
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I am really sorry that you ladies had that crap happen to you. But not all men are like that.
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I must apologise as I am one of those who does not reply to every message. My excuse? If I choose to engage with someone I want to give them my full attention and as you said yourself 'I don't want to hurt anybody or have them feel bad'. I am just not comfortable simply brushing someone aside. If it is any consolation, I do make a point of reading all of my emails and messages. Sometimes they make me laugh, sometimes I cry. Often they lodge in my mind, swirling around for days affecting my mood, my decisions. The saddest part of all is that the sender never knows how much he has touched me. I simply cannot give quality time to all of those great messages. But none of those messages ever fall on deaf ears Kisses Samantha
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It is true that typically responding to an email with a polite "thank you but no thank you" will get a negative response. I find more so from younger men they tend to try to persuade you into meeting and have a hard time taking "NO" as answer. As it is difficult to respond to emails when they surmount in numbers. So it becomes a sifting through the one word sentences and "hey babes wanna hook up" No not all men are like that...and those that do take the time to introduce themselves in a kind manner will get a response. Thanks for posting Cheers!! Expressing your truest, most beautiful self in a very personal way... Classy
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