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Age, does it matter?
Age, does it matter? I was watch TV and the had something on Tina Turner, she married to a man 30 years younger. They been married since 2013, still together and happy. Dick Van Dyke been married to his last wife since 2012. His wife is 46 years younger than him! Tina is going to be 82 this year and Dick Van Dyke would be 96 this year in December. But their mates are still with them. One thing about Tina and Dick, they both rich! Money, Money, Money and have lots of paper! Rich is something, I'm not. Like Tina said in one of her songs. "What love got to do with it"! Maybe it not Money, or it could be love? I guess when I was 39 this was a magical age. I was 39, I pick up a lady I met on a date site, she was 30 and when I picked her up, she brought her younger sister. her younger sister was watching me, and smiling, I thought maybe I had something on my face. if I didn't know better, it seem like the younger sister was into me. I said to myself "No way"! For her younger sister was only 22 years old, she was a pretty Seniorita. I was massaging the older sister, one thing lead to another and we when to my room and had sex. They younger sister seem so sad when we both came back in the living room. I took them home, the next day, the younger sister, called me, and said. that she like me and wondering if I be interested in starting a relationship. I said, your 22 and I'm 39, she said, she didn't care. At first, I was thinking she wanted a Suggardaddy! I told he i'm broke! She said, "I know that!" "By the car you drive and where you live, I know you don't have any Money. I like you for you! I believed her! But I let her go. I also fiqured a younger woman would dump me for a younger man, also what if I can satify them or if I bore them? Now, approaching my senior years, women my age want to travel, I'm still broke. I'm not financially secure. I messed up, been two decades since someone who really cared, So if I had a do over, should I had gotten with that young senorita? My question for you. If both people are of age and there is feeling amonst both. My question is "Age, does it matter? |
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8/6/2021 10:16 am |
As long as it's 18 and up, I don't think age matters. Mental maturity does.
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Age matters, even when it is just a casual thing. Ever since I hit my mid 40's I have received a lot of attention and propositions from women in their 20's and 30's. As flattering as it is, I cannot get involved with a woman who is 20 years younger than myself. I think the youngest I have been involved with was about 12 years younger than myself and that seemed to be right on the border of comfort for me. Dick and Tina ...marrying people 30 and 40 years younger?? It bodes the questions, what the hell are they thinking in Hollywood??
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8/4/2021 12:19 am |
Age matters depending on a situation. Like, if someone wants a soul mate...I'd say have someone in your age range because you'll both have similar interests. If it's just fucking, as long as it's legal...age doesn't matter. Like, on my bucket list...take someone's virginity. An 18 yr old would be fun I bet. So..yeah...age matters somewhat...
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The way I look at age I measure in shoe sizes I wear a Size 12 shoe, So hence I act like I'm 12. As they say Beauty is in the Eye of the beholder, I'm 59 and I can still go 3 rounds. No little blue Pill.
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In the moment, I don't think age matters; it's in the long term when I think it comes into play. As a sexual partner, age plays little, as long as there is that, forgive me for using the term, "connection" and a few common interests to explore together. As for a Life Partner, well, it may all be good right now, but 30 years down the road, things could get twisted. Ah, and then there is the money aspect. I have always thought I could do real well with a woman of means, and lots of cash to take care of me. I could find a way to "work" with her, and I suspect we could be quite content, if not perfectly happy. I still ponder the chance of her coming along some day and making me her own. Great post.
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How could you???? My boyfriends are all about 20, it is heaven on earth!!! Age doesn't matter, if you care, love and they love you. LOVE is not about money, it is much more I love pussies and adore nice dicks
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7/23/2021 6:38 am |
I think it depends on the type of relationship. For a mostly "just sex" relationship, I don't think it matters as much. I was with a partner 15 years younger than me this weekend and he STILL couldn't keep up with me (though better than most men my age - at least he could stay rock hard with condom on). But for a committed relationship, I personally feel like being closer in age is wise. I think we all go through various phases of life and while there is less difference between people when one is say 30 and one is 45, you get "out of phase" when one is 50 and one is 65 just as you would if one is 20 and one is 35. The things you want out of life and the things you want to do with your life change so much at certain stages that I think 22 and 39 might have been a lot of fun for a short period of time, but not long term. Just my two cents.
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7/23/2021 6:36 am |
You Could have to experience what it would be like and you would have validated you suspicions as to age and relations. I'm 32 old women I come across are curious and above meaning dont care for age. Most of the time we all want things that someone may be capable of . Can you love that person, can you support that person, can satisfy that person, and can you be your entire self with said person. Non of which requires a serious relationship although a true and genuine interest should be in place. Age restrictions is a Societal concept to maintain a status quo for a few that want to have the opportunity to take away your chance. Now this is a strong disclaimer and during these time i feel i must state this and its not to bring down the energy but this site is in the internet so...... "PEDOPHILE IS UNACCEPTABLE IN THIS TOPIC" Not state you were but there are lurker *shrug and sits don*
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I think it depends on the type of relationship. For a mostly "just sex" relationship, I don't think it matters as much. I was with a partner 15 years younger than me this weekend and he STILL couldn't keep up with me (though better than most men my age - at least he could stay rock hard with condom on). But for a committed relationship, I personally feel like being closer in age is wise. I think we all go through various phases of life and while there is less difference between people when one is say 30 and one is 45, you get "out of phase" when one is 50 and one is 65 just as you would if one is 20 and one is 35. The things you want out of life and the things you want to do with your life change so much at certain stages that I think 22 and 39 might have been a lot of fun for a short period of time, but not long term. Just my two cents.
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You Could have to experience what it would be like and you would have validated you suspicions as to age and relations. I'm 32 old women I come across are curious and above meaning dont care for age. Most of the time we all want things that someone may be capable of . Can you love that person, can you support that person, can satisfy that person, and can you be your entire self with said person. Non of which requires a serious relationship although a true and genuine interest should be in place. Age restrictions is a Societal concept to maintain a status quo for a few that want to have the opportunity to take away your chance. Now this is a strong disclaimer and during these time i feel i must state this and its not to bring down the energy but this site is in the internet so...... "PEDOPHILE IS UNACCEPTABLE IN THIS TOPIC" Not state you were but there are lurker *shrug and sits don*
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7/11/2021 2:39 pm |
Age is just a number for the most part. Older doesn't bother me. Younger, like my kids age ... That bothers me a lot!
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Age is just a number for the most part. Older doesn't bother me. Younger, like my kids age ... That bothers me a lot!
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7/10/2021 2:22 pm |
" younger one would like my humor, while some might try to use the hell out of me! " and that is what wisdom is supposed to be. the ability to distinguish the ones that want you for your wit, from the ones that want you for your wallet bonne vie
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" younger one would like my humor, while some might try to use the hell out of me! " and that is what wisdom is supposed to be. the ability to distinguish the ones that want you for your wit, from the ones that want you for your wallet bonne vie there is a world of difference between insane and stupid
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7/10/2021 11:31 am |
Age really doesn't matter to me...as long as we have something in common and they know how to act when we are together... Now I am at age 53...almost 54...I don't mind younger males, and I do have something in common as far as the entertainment goes, like tastes in gaming and music goes, but their interests are very limited, and won't go deep...and seems like younger males don't know how to act in treating female...(not limited to sex, but in general...) So I'm more interested in the same age group now...
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7/10/2021 11:30 am |
No age doesn't matter but in saying that I have to say they have to be older than my youngest son. As many don't realize that age is just a number and you can have a lot in common no matter how much older or younger a person is. I hope you enjoy your weekend my friend
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Age really doesn't matter to me...as long as we have something in common and they know how to act when we are together... Now I am at age 53...almost 54...I don't mind younger males, and I do have something in common as far as the entertainment goes, like tastes in gaming and music goes, but their interests are very limited, and won't go deep...and seems like younger males don't know how to act in treating female...(not limited to sex, but in general...) So I'm more interested in the same age group now...
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No age doesn't matter but in saying that I have to say they have to be older than my youngest son. As many don't realize that age is just a number and you can have a lot in common no matter how much older or younger a person is. I hope you enjoy your weekend my friend
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7/10/2021 6:12 am |
There was 14 years between my parents - they made it work for 25 years before leukaemia took my dad. I was in an online relationship with someone who was 15 years younger than me (like father, like son!). Sadly we were never able to meet up but we didn't foresee any age difference issues. Some say "age is just a number", an age difference in a relationship can be no hindrance for some but it can cause issues for others.
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7/10/2021 6:07 am |
To me it does.
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7/10/2021 6:05 am |
The short answer is, it shouldn't, but it does. I get it--when I was in my forties, I wasn't even sure people in their late 50s/60s even had or wanted sex (spoiler--they do; some of them, anyway)
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7/10/2021 6:01 am |
it's just like they say it is better to try and lose, than forever wonder what if! does age matter? it most certainly does but butt many have set their path in life, only to be derailed by reality!
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7/10/2021 5:58 am |
Oh for many years when young i was attracted to the silver foxes,then when hitting menopause and home life not as i liked it to be i admit i strayed and became involved with a lot of young men,a major ego boost and never looked back,some were just after a sugar mummy but there were a few who wanted something more serious
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7/10/2021 5:55 am |
If it matters to either one of you, then it matters Seems like a cop out answer, but its true. Only when I got older then I've started seeing people closer to my age. Granted, this was all done with full knowledge and intent of not having anything too serious. I've always had thing for older guys. The husband is close to 20 years older. Ironically, the bf is 25 years younger. I also know that this isn't a typical situation. But still. If you mind, then it matters.
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7/10/2021 5:53 am |
At one times, I had a 5 and 3 things going, they can be 5 years younger, or 3 years older. When it comes down to it you both got to connect! Lately there not too many I connect with! Thanks for the feedback.
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