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Single males in the lifestyle  

swingercplgb2 63M/61F
5 posts
8/25/2013 9:17 am
Single males in the lifestyle

I am writing this today to explain to the single guys why they are having such a hard time meeting people in the lifestyle but are quick to complain and say that that others aren't real,(fakes). If you are really interested in a cpl tell them what sets you appart from all the other single guys. On average we recieve 8 emails from single guys each and everyday, most say somthing on the order of...Interested or want to fuck...or she is hot. What the F**** guys...really??? You want us to answer an email like that? You want us to waste our time emailing you back???? Not going to happen. When writing a cpl take the time to read their profile, figure out what they are looking for, tell them how you can enhace their experience, tell them that your interested in them as friends and how you care about becoming friends and have no intentions of just meeting to fuck the wife of the cpl. There may be some folks out there with that intention and that's fine but we are intersted in more....I can fuck her fine on my own, we enjoy the excitement that others can ad to our special times that we share.

atittyman4u 56M  
13 posts
4/30/2016 12:53 pm

 Hello to the both of you, Alan here. Realizing you can't read emails I'm hoping we can communicate here. I'm interested in some play time with him while the lady watches, directs, and or joins in the fun. I'm the real deal, versatile, top, bottom, and oral. I aim to please. I have a cum fetish, love to swallow and eat cream pie. I can host or travel. Hope to hear back from you. Would enjoy some Saturday fun time. Al


glidecc 49M  
1224 posts
8/25/2013 10:08 am

 Good advice, thanks. I've already put some thought into my profile but I think there are some points here that I could use to make it better.


swingercplgb2 replies on 8/25/2013 10:14 am:
Ahhh but here is something to remember. Not everyone is a paying member and when you write to them remember that they may not be able to view your profile and have no idea what your inter estes, likes and dislikes are.

swingercplgb2 63M/61F
3 posts
8/25/2013 9:33 am

 I understand that not all will take the time to respond but if you include photos and a well thought out email you are entitled to a response even to say thanks but no thanks.


1diglife1976 47M

8/25/2013 9:31 am

 You're both right. It is important to try and stand out from the rest. Just because this is a hook up site, doesn't mean that you have to be crass when e-mailing, specially when there's a woman involved.

But it is true, between the fakes, the inactive profiles and the people that rather ignore you than e-mail back...the number of replies is very low.


swingercplgb2 replies on 8/25/2013 9:37 am:
There are going to be fakes and inactive profile. It's just the nature of the beast but we feel that if a person is really interested they will take the time to write a nice email. You just have to expect that there are going to still be (those) people out there.

nathanb805 57M  
38 posts
8/25/2013 9:25 am

 That is very sound advice, but one thing that would be nice when replying to a couple is if they would acknowledge the message or would explain that they are not interested. I have sent many well-written emails, but honestly more than 2/3 never even reply one way or another.


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