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Lesbian Dating, Relationships, and Sexy Encounters

Flirting From A Thousand Miles Away  

lionthatroared 53M
232 posts
8/11/2012 9:34 pm

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8/21/2012 12:00 pm

Flirting From A Thousand Miles Away


Okay, seriously... what is in their heads?

Every single day, I get flirts from women who are hundreds and thousands of miles away from me. No follow-ups, no messages, nothing else from these mysterious women... just a random flirt from across the U.S. or even across the ocean. It really makes me wonder what they're thinking? Are they serious? Are they just hitting every profile with a flirt on the off chance someone will respond? Do they REALLY think some guy will be desperate enough to fly across half a planet to get laid? Are they fake profiles hoping to convince some poor slob to give them their info over the Internet? Seriously, who ARE these people, and what are they thinking?

Hell, the first thing I check when someone flirts with me is how far away they are! 'Cause frankly, anything more than 100 miles or so had better be a quality lady for me to do anything more than ignore them. And unless I get a message from someone within that 100 miles, that flirt will most likely have no further response than a flirt back, or a message if I think she's particularly suited for me. And even THEN... a hundred miles is a good hour and a half drive, and that's hardly close enough for a decent FWB relationship. Honestly... booty call. Maybe once a week or once a month, but just a booty call.

My preference for FWB's, of course, is within a town's distance. I'm in Manteca, so Stockton, Modesto, Ceres, Tracy, Lathrop, cities roughly that distance are all perfectly acceptable and zero hesitation on that score. We start going farther than that... Lodi, Turlock, Livermore... I'm going to be judging on a case-by-case basis, but I'd probably go that far for a quality FWB. Further than that, though... booty call. I just don't see burning the gas, the time, the money, or the effort just for sex on a regular basis.

Now, if I'm going to be in the area for a while? That could be doable. For example, I often find myself in Paso Robles for a week or two at a time. Why not hook up with someone I've been chatting with, or a "summer-romance-fling" kind of deal? I kinda wish I had some sort of business in Phoenix, AZ... FlirtyOne61 and I have been chatting up a storm, and she's one lady I'd definitely break my rule for.

How about you? What are your thoughts on flirts from a thousand miles away? What is YOUR maximum distance for sex? For a regular FWB relationship? For a booty call? Would you make that epic journey for someone on here that you just find irresistable?

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carnalkisses71 53F
2373 posts
8/11/2012 9:47 pm

Well there are a few things about this. Preferably a FWB would be with in 30 miles. It makes it that much easier to maintain the "FRIEND" part of things. Some guys dont get this. I know you do so just saying.

Now if you need the woman you are with to be your dirty little secret further away is always better. When you are 60 miles apart as me and my previous "FWB" were then it tends to be heavy on the benefits and skip the friend part so I guess that makes you just a booty call.

As for the women flirting with you if they have blogs they may be standard members that are just looking for profile views. They could be fakes as well.


lionthatroared replies on 8/12/2012 9:30 am:
I think that when it's heavy on the benefits and light on the friends, it's a fuck buddy. Interesting thought on the profile views, I'll see if that's the case.

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