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Kissing: Part I  

lionthatroared 53M
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7/5/2012 2:10 pm

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8/14/2013 11:21 pm
Kissing: Part I
Some people only kiss as a prelude to something... leaving to go somewhere, as a greeting, trying to get your partner in the mood, that sort of thing. It's a way to show intimacy, a way to say "You're important to me beyond a simple wave hello, a spoken greeting, or a handshake." Many people consider a kiss as just part of being with someone, and it's no big deal.

Some people consider a kiss to be a monumental event. The legendary "First Kiss" between potential lovers is believed by many women to be the decision-maker for any forward progression in a relationship, and by many men to be the first real indication that a woman truly has any feelings for him besides just friendship.

Still others think kissing is a part of being in a relationship, that there needs to be something already there and growing before sharing a kiss. And still others feel kissing is highly intimate, that it's an actual bonding of souls for a brief moment as two people connect through the primary opening of life-sustainment... their mouth. And yet still others that feel kissing is simply a gentle intimacy that is as comfortable as holding hands, with no huge importance, but with a meaningful significance that two people share with only each other... a sort of "secret handshake" between lovers.

Then, of course, there are those who consider kissing to be incredibly erotic... there is hot passion and arousal in the contact of lips, whether to other lips or other parts of the anatomy. In many ways, allowing yourself to be kissed is accepting a vulnerable state: after all, those gentle kisses on your throat could become something much more violent with a simple baring of teeth. Maybe that's the reason our necks are considered such an erotic zone... not so much the sensation of lips to flesh, but the vulnerability we accept when we allow it, revel in it, moan with ecstacy for it.

For most of us, kissing isn't just one of these, but several. It's a combination of emotions, sensations, and reactions. Some people are actually very nervous about kissing... after all, what if they screw it up? What if the person I'm kissing doesn't like it? Am I kissing well, poorly, middling? We all want that amazing movie-kiss, where the woman pops her legs up and the man is left speechless, where both are breathless and gazing at each other with that unspeakable passion.

But movie-kissing isn't real. Ask a professional actor about a kissing scene they've had with another professional actor. I remember an interview where two prominent sex-symbols of their time described a legendary movie kiss... the interviewer, absolutely fawning and desperately hoping for a juicy story, asked them what it was like for one to kiss the other. After all, these two were considered the sexiest man and woman of their time, maybe even all time! What was it like???

The man said, "Exhausting, we had to do that kissing scene dozens of times, and the initial excitement wore off quickly." The woman said, "Yeah, I mean, he's gorgeous and it was great to kiss such a good-looking guy, but after the first one or two shots, it was just work."

So you can't think of kissing in terms of "the perfect kiss at that perfect time". It MIGHT work out that way, but you're looking for a one-in-a-million shot. Besides, you might have that perfect kiss, but that doesn't mean you'll live happily ever after, anyway. Go for a wonderful kiss, but don't hold out for the perfect one.

Me... I love kissing. Absolutely love it. I'm the kind of guy who thinks full-on making-out is fantastic, an amazing part of foreplay, and even just to remind my lady that she's the sexiest, most beautiful woman in the room. Yeah, it's probably not "proper" to suddenly ignore everyone else in the room and take a good minute or two just to pull my lady close and kiss her until we're both hot and flustered, but damn it... it's fun!

I have two kissing stories that I'd like to share. You can read them in Part II.

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M1ssy2 54F
5 posts
7/14/2012 9:06 am

 kissing...good kissing unlocks the passion inside of me...mmm


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