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Sex and the Older Woman: a Lion's Thoughts on the Matter.
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Sex and the Older Woman: a Lion's Thoughts on the Matter. On my profile, I state that I prefer the women I have sex with to be within about 10 years of me. I've had guy after guy roll his eyes at me about that. "For God's sake, Lion... are you telling me if you had two hot women, one the 40-year-old mother and the other the 20-year-old , both of them ready to fuck your brains out, you WOULDN'T pick the 20-year-old?" Well, if I had my choice, I'd fuck both... at the same time. But if I had to pick only one or the other, I'd turn up my nose at the and go fuck the brains out of the 40-year-old mother, yes. "Bullshit!" the men inevitably scream. "The younger one has the better body, less wear and tear, more energy, and might even be a virgin (In this day and age? What are the odds?)! You'd pick the younger one, and you know it!" I just smile. Because I know better. You see, because while I have yet to experience two women at the same time, I HAVE experienced multiple women in the same day. And twice... it was mother and . And I've had both mother and in more separate timeframes as well. *((Believe it or not, I'm not NEARLY the player I currently sound like. I just have over two decades of being single and sexually active under my belt. Sometimes, things just... happen. I don't set out to nail every woman I see, but once in a while the stars align, and Lion gets lucky.))* As well, I've had sex with women up to 20 years younger than me, and women up to 16 years older than me. And for the record, without bragging and just stating fact, the number of sexual partners I've had in my life is in the triple digits. (And not one disease nor unwanted pregnancy, thank you very much! Lion plays smart) So I believe that, while I'm probably not an expert on this subject, I DO feel that I can speak with some authority. Age is NOT just a number. It's a damn important thing! Men as a whole have a reputation for being horny, oversexed dogs in heat that will fuck any woman willing. Looking at the ratio of men to women on this website, I can't say that reputation is entirely unfounded. BUT... that IS a stereotype, and a bit hypocritical. Heterosexual guys are having sex with SOMEBODY, and that somebody is usually female. That means that, while men may be a little more flamboyant about it, women are just as big a horn-as men are! Women are just cooler about it. Does that mean women are just as much sluts as men are(Yes, a lot of us men are sluts, we just have difference names for us)? That's on a case by case basis. What it DOES mean, however, is that women are getting just as much sexual experience as men are. And unlike men, who peak at 19 before we've really had a chance to get going, women in my age bracket are just hitting their stride... and they've had YEARS of practice. There's a reason cougars are popular. Women in their mid-30's and 40's are a fucking DYNAMO in bed! Not only have they had years to hone their seduction skills and sexual talents in the bedroom, but they're screaming for sex as loudly as we men ever have. They want it, they're good at it, and for the most part, they're confident enough to pick and choose whomever they want, whenever they want. There's a reason why the majority of the women on here are in their 30's and 40's. It's practically a smorgasbord of men for them to play with and toss aside for the next one to come play. You go, girl! Younger women... well, they may have the tighter bodies (not necessarily, because I've seen some HOT older women!) and the greater energy and be more limber in general, but frankly, they just don't have the experience, the drive, or the creativity to match an older woman. Not... even... close. Granted, some men just want their women to lie there and just let them plow them, but most men, especially once we hit mid-30's to early-40's, prefer a more active partner. There are some younger women out there who can fit that bill, but even then... experience is greater than youth. Now, this is knowledge I've gained over the years, both from tales told by women to me and from personal experience. I choose to accept this knowledge and embrace it. I personally have a pretty high sex drive. When I have a steady girlfriend whom I'm having regular sex with, it's pretty typical for me to want to have sex with her once in the morning, and again in the evening. If we're particularly hot and heavy for each other, once during the day and/or the middle of the night is not uncommon. Younger women, unless they have an unusually high sex drive, almost never tolerate that. Even if the sex is amazing, they just don't have the drive or the stamina to hold up. Again, not bragging, just stating fact... but I've never had a younger woman last longer than I have. Older women, completely satisfied and sexually sated, will eagerly come back for more if the guy is still up for it. Their capacity to appreciate a great lover, combined with their stamina, accelerated sex drive, and their body's incredible capacity to experience orgasms... it all combines into the best damn sex of your life. I've had some incredible sex in my lifetime. I have a story for the woman who gave the best oral ever, a story for the best sex ever, a story for the greatest lover ever, a story for the best anal ever, a story for discovering the dom/sub world, a story for discovering the swing lifestyle, a story for multiple women in the same day, a story for exhibitionism and risky-sex and public sex and sex in moving vehicles, and the starring female role of every single one of those stories was aged 38 and older. I'm not badmouthing young women. Not at all. If there are any young women on here wanting to improve their sexual performance and become the best lover they can be, I would be more than happy to be both teacher and student to you. Gain your experience now, and your future lovers will be that much more pleased with you. But if I had to make a choice between a young woman, and one around my age? Are you kidding? .  Your Friendly Neighborhood King of the Jungle, The Lion. READ THIS! ------>>>lionthatroared I DARE you to read my blog and attempt to be unchanged by sheer, utter AWESOMENESS!!! It's like Kung-Fu Panda fighting Super Models with heavy metal music pumping in the background... hyped up on Rockstar energy drinks! And... whipped cream with chocolate sprinkles! And... laser-guided sex toys are probably involved! And... and... oh, I know... I'm pretty sure Chuck Norris roundhouse-kicked it at some point! |
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I agree with your general sentiment. Alot of it is hormonal changes, for women, that happen over time. The problem I've found is that women my age are not in great shape, simply from leading sedentary lives. Being active is more important to me in a mate, now, more than ever.  "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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I completely agree. I prefer guys older. Younger guys fuck like they have something to prove. Dyslexics are teople poo! Dyslexics of the world untie.
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Thanks, all! All comments are very much appreciated. Division, a lot of women do tend to let themselves go a little, but I actually find a little heft on a woman to be sexy as hell. I guess it's another reason I prefer older women. Honeysuckle, I can't speak for the female perspective about guys, but I've definitely heard that sentiment a LOT from women. And thank you! Smrtgirl and Bang 44DDD... thanks for validating my thoughts. You rock! Your Friendly Neighborhood King of the Jungle, The Lion. READ THIS! ------>>>lionthatroared I DARE you to read my blog and attempt to be unchanged by sheer, utter AWESOMENESS!!! It's like Kung-Fu Panda fighting Super Models with heavy metal music pumping in the background... hyped up on Rockstar energy drinks! And... whipped cream with chocolate sprinkles! And... laser-guided sex toys are probably involved! And... and... oh, I know... I'm pretty sure Chuck Norris roundhouse-kicked it at some point!
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At last, a guy who knows that older can truly be better. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Cougars rock! Whoo!  Your Friendly Neighborhood King of the Jungle, The Lion. READ THIS! ------>>>lionthatroared I DARE you to read my blog and attempt to be unchanged by sheer, utter AWESOMENESS!!! It's like Kung-Fu Panda fighting Super Models with heavy metal music pumping in the background... hyped up on Rockstar energy drinks! And... whipped cream with chocolate sprinkles! And... laser-guided sex toys are probably involved! And... and... oh, I know... I'm pretty sure Chuck Norris roundhouse-kicked it at some point!
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Nice. Cheers! more on my blog, http://AdultFriendFinder.com/blog/pierd
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