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Ladies First  

sirius_for_fun 51M
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11/13/2010 8:52 pm
Ladies First

I was chatting the other day with a nice lady from the UK and the conversation turned to etiquette and sex. I stated that I felt it was important to make sure the lady cums first. The reason for this is that I want to make sure my partner enjoys sex as I do and I ALWAYS enjoy sex. At the time, I wrote that I have never had a sexual experience that did not result in orgasm for me. That is not entirely true. I just remembered one encounter that was over before it 'ended'.

I was living in Italy and dating a nice Italian girl. One thing you who have never been to Italy should know is that Italians in general have many superstitions. My girl at the time had a silly belief that air conditioning caused lung diseases. So, whenever she came over I had to make sure that the AC was off or she would throw a fit. On this particular day, it was hot as hell outside and as soon as I turned off the AC I could feel the temperature rising in my apartment.

By the time she arrived it must have been at least 90 because I was sweating. The only way to keep the house from turning into an oven was to open all of the windows and doors. Anyway, she came and we talked for a while, then we started playing around a bit. Being that she was a modest girl (a weird mix of traditional Catholic values and a hyperactive sex drive, I guess) she asked that I close the windows and doors before we went any further. I wanted her so badly right then that I didn’t stop to think of the consequences. I sealed the apartment up tight and we proceeded to make love.

Within minutes the heat was unbearable. I was trying to keep focus on the moment but it was so ungodly hot that we were both sweating buckets. It was like trying to fuck a slip-n-slide! As much as I wanted to cum in her right then, the discomfort and the frustration mounted until I had to stop. After that, I learned to crank the AC down as far as it would go to freeze the apartment right before she came over so I didn’t suffer heat stroke during our future love fests.

Still, I believe it is best to make sure that the woman cums first. And I also believe it is important to date women who do not have strange hang ups about air conditioning.

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