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So after 7+ years on AFF what have I learned?
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So after 7+ years on AFF what have I learned? I reflected today that I have been on this site for over 7 years. Thats a long time to be on a site, dedicating time on a daily basis, all the while trying to run a business and still be married. I'm still married, but that is not anything to write home about. I am opening myself to criticsm here, but am comfortable in the fact that my relationship is over, so I am merely 'doin time' for reasons I do not need to go into. So, after 7 years, what have I learned. 1. Its a numbers game: The ratio of men to women or even couples to men is staggering. I have met up with a number of people from this site and often discuss the volumes of 'hits' they receive compared to a single male. The reason is due to the simple wieght of numbers of single males. So what's the answer? Similar to any competitive environment, work the numbers. Meet, chat, smile at, view as many as you can until you can engae in a civil conversation. In the end we all know why we are here, we just need to be able to find a like minded person. I have found those in the past and cherish the times I have spent. 2. You probably wont find a soul mate The core reason for existence of this site is sex... not necessarily long lasting and trusting relationship. I may be wrong here, but this is what I have expereinced. I have met up with couples, women and men and I have chatted to many, many more of each. I have found that most are looking for new and broader expereinces and whilst noone would shun the miracle of finding their soul mate, it is acknowledged that it is not likely to be on a forum like AdultFriendFinder. 3. If at first you dont succeed - change. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Given this I dabbled in 'the other side' a little. That is, I have met up with the occassional guy. I must say this has been a new experince for me. I am yet to venture into sucking cock, but have had mine sucked by a few fellows. They do know how to envelope an appendage. No doubt I will do more of this... its a much easier numbers game. 5. I am a tits and arse man. Regardless of 4 above, I do love the touch, feel, smell of a woman. I especially love tits. Dont knwo why, but every time I venture out and have my cock sucked by a bloke i do think 'if only this was a woman'. I guess that makes the 'shim' the next on my bucket list. |
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If you were married to begin with, why were you even here? That's the question. In seven years, I've been in several relationships, one I met from here actually. ...but mostly, I've learned that most people are too sexually simple for my taste. Having taste and provisions, standards is lost on many here. Monogamy? Most of these people don't even know the meaning of the word.  "My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur
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Fun been on the site for over 7 years.. All I can say you can find what your seeking on here and more.. Just having patient and weeding through all these fakes is one of the most hardest parts of the site. Lots of married folks on here looking for something extra.. Not a life time partner but it can be found.. hugs V Stay positive.. Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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