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What is the top complaint of women and couples on the site?
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Hello, I think this is a great post on what do women/ couples believe is the top 1 complaint. . For me personally I do not have the same issues. I have no problem with the msg center as it works fine for me. I am not concerned with the activites tho I do know others are.. My issue is the stalking/bullying that goes on in groups, chat rooms, blogs, magazine etc. I am not talking about the voting negative on comments (even though I do feel that is wrong..How does anyone vote on someones comment ?? ) or the arguements over site issues or policy changes. I am talking about other members using bully tactics to stalk/harass members on site. Breaking the TOU by posting members handle names or photographs without permission. To me this is my number 1 complaint as I keep hearing about it from both male and female members.I have seen this site lose really great members, both male and female, due to stalking/bullying/harassment. I am hoping the abuse dept can take a stronger hand in these type of cases so we can stop losing valuable members. Thank you, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart 
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The biggest issue for me is being pimped out on other sites which I have no interest in joining. Using our pics for AdultFriendFinder personal gain here. A while back AdultFriendFinder put our accounts over on a few other sites which we didn't agree too. if we agree that is great but we didn't. It sucked too being called a slut which I sure am not! hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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The site's always been glitchy ever since I joined over 4 years ago. But quality has been on a downhill slide. Features members never ask for get implemented, features members ask for improvement get put on the back burner. The marketing strategy--it may be working to gain revenue from those desperate and gullible enough to swallow the marketing spiel hook, line and sinker, but the same strategy is also chasing away the women who get fed up by the constant disrespect of the said desperate and gullible. Without women, there would be no reason for men to be on this site. 2D encounters with webcam hotties only goes so far. What say the site hunkers down and creates the meeting women 101 vid for newbie males that the previous community manager had in the plans? The vid was supposed to list the do's and don'ts for a successful meet up. I know you can't fix stupid, but you can at least make an attempt to educate.
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That is wrong on all levels, and the idea that because you said you were not interested it meant you wanted to see his penis. What a freaking joke. Sorry that happened, but I can commiserate with you in that I have reported people only to get repeated responses from the abuse team asking exactly what I just sent them and including photos or screen captures. I am not sure what ads the site has just released, but I have to tell you the level of mentality in the chatroom I am in just went lower than the flushed toilet. We have had a**hats all day today and one specifically was going on and on about he made a profile today with is woman and this site is not what he thought. He expecte people horny ALL the time and no questions asked sex. WTF is this crap now??? When people tried to tell him that this was not the way to start and a bad introduction he went off on us and started yelling that (giving specific people's names in the room) that they were not what they pretended to be. They were just a slutty whore that wanted to be f*cked as such and to quit putting on airs that she was some special person. Again, WTF???? We are now not special, but just holes and pieces of meat that are 'horny all the time'???? THIS is the behavior that ruins it for most. Even the men in our chatroom were b*tching at these losers today.
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When you add a picture to a private album, why does that picture show up on your profile page as recent activity for the world to see? Putting a pic in a private album should be private don't you think? I got rid of my private album for this reason. Not to say I dont have other complaints, like you all providing an oasis for pedophiles... and dont pretend you dont hon, Ive seen it OVER AND OVER.
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In the interests of balance and fairness Aryana are you going to do a separate blog entitled "Top complaints of men on the site"? To casually dismiss the views and opinions of men as you seem to have done with the wording of this blog, frankly i find very offensive to say the least. I have a list of complaints about this site 100 points long, but don't feel as though i can air my views or opinions here because you have only asked for the complaints from women and couples. Are men not allowed to have a voice? Just goes to show that the site is really not bothered with the concerns of its "majority" customer base here on this site which is the men. I've stated complaints in various forms about message centre, fake profiles and other issues to customer services and on site support, community blog, live from AdultFriendFinder group time and time again, but these important issues never seem to be fully addressed for some reason? We just seem to go round and round in circles, which from a members perspective is frustrating beyond belief! As usual it seems AdultFriendFinder is NOT listening! 
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there are too many old and too many duplicated profiles ,, I also don't like my profile being put on other sites when I only signed up to this one I enjoy blogging but many people I speak too don't even know it exists ,, you should put a link to blogs on IM ,, where it says "Page or Profile" add blog if someone has one I am getting bored with the type of pages I get here these days ,, because what someone expects of me it not in line with what I am looking for ,, so often I am only in the mood to chat to other bloggers  scarlet is at the end of your rainbow
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oh I forgot to mention the Aldershot thing ,, to many peoples profiles default to Aldershot when they join ,, can you put a default to some where like the moon and list them at the maximum distance you can (384,400 km) ,, as Aldershot is only 22 miles from me I get the whole IM screen full of people who are miles and miles from me and stop me seeing who is local people can change there profile location later to where they truly are and not say they are around the corner from me scarlet is at the end of your rainbow
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oh I forgot to mention the Aldershot thing ,, to many peoples profiles default to Aldershot when they join ,, can you put a default to some where like the moon and list them at the maximum distance you can (384,400 km) ,, as Aldershot is only 22 miles from me I get the whole IM screen full of people who are miles and miles from me and stop me seeing who is local people can change there profile location later to where they truly are and not say they are around the corner from me If a member fails to put in their geographical location when making their profile then the best option would be for the default to read..."prefer not to say", on the geographical location section of the profile. Also all those then with "prefer not to say" for geographical location should NEVER show up on the homepage and should always show up last in search results. This would encourage genuine members to fill out their profile properly, and fakes or people with "prefer not to say" on their profiles would get MINIMUM exposure on the site, which i think every genuine member here would welcome! The same should apply for the default geographical locations in the USA and all other countries around the world.
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1 post 12/2/2013 4:07 pm |
Sorry, we are just going to use common sense, AdultFriendFinder is suggesting we should renew our subscription, to a not good service. We have required a new password several times, before our subscription was due. WE HAD NO REPLY FROM AdultFriendFinder. WE do not want messages from males or females without pics !!!!! So, now we have males, without pics----can you filter them....we advise that she may pick a male...Not for males without pics to be sent to us...full pics. The deal is, if you want our money , you do need to give a more personalized service. We are not lost baggage. MyJ
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