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Lesbian Dating, Relationships, and Sexy Encounters

Icebreakers - How's It Going Ladies?  

jolieprettyone 49F
32 posts
2/17/2012 5:11 pm

Thanks for the silver membership.
But I cant see the profiles of the men who respond
for a few days. I think that part could work better.


rm_nyaribule 55F
65 posts
2/18/2012 8:43 pm

I like to join this ICEBREAKER promotion, and let you send my profile to men that match my cupid matches. Thanks.

"Girls are like phones. We love to be held, talked too but if you press the wrong button you'll be disconnected!" - Anonymous


rm_nyaribule 55F
65 posts
2/18/2012 8:48 pm

My Icebreaker message: Hi guys, have you seen my pics and my videos? if so, what do you think about them? Regards,

"Girls are like phones. We love to be held, talked too but if you press the wrong button you'll be disconnected!" - Anonymous


2titsnowaiting 57F
1546 posts
2/20/2012 5:52 am

    Quoting Centaur_UK:
    This whole thing is a scam aimed at new male members. See here's why..... new male members will get an email from women who are in the icebreaker scheme, and then the new male members will be told they need to upgrade to silver or gold in order to read the email, message.
    Just another way of getting the guys to cough up money!
that is simply not true. A standard member can receive emails and respond to received emails. The upgrade would come in with viewing the profile.

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Centaur_UK 46M
1770 posts
2/20/2012 6:20 am

    Quoting 2titsnowaiting:
    that is simply not true. A standard member can receive emails and respond to received emails. The upgrade would come in with viewing the profile.
Sorry to disagree with you but it IS true for single male members.
What you say may be true for single females or couples?
I know this for a fact because when my profile went standard a while ago on here, i received an email and was told i needed to upgrade in order to reply to the message that was sent to me.

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rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
2/20/2012 7:18 am

    Quoting Centaur_UK:
    Sorry to disagree with you but it IS true for single male members.
    What you say may be true for single females or couples?
    I know this for a fact because when my profile went standard a while ago on here, i received an email and was told i needed to upgrade in order to reply to the message that was sent to me.
If you get the required number of 'views' you can earn the right to view profiles and respond.


Centaur_UK 46M
1770 posts
2/20/2012 9:22 am

    Quoting rdy2try4:
    If you get the required number of 'views' you can earn the right to view profiles and respond.
You are correct, but as we all know single male members very rarely, if ever, get the number of required profile views, to gain the right to view profiles and respond to emails.....Ergo, single male members will be told by the site they need to pay to upgrade.

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rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
2/20/2012 10:11 am

    Quoting Centaur_UK:
    You are correct, but as we all know single male members very rarely, if ever, get the number of required profile views, to gain the right to view profiles and respond to emails.....Ergo, single male members will be told by the site they need to pay to upgrade.
.

You reference the you let your gold expire~
When I allowed my silver to expire there was an "adjustment period"
(of several days/almost a week) that Nothing associated with my profile worked correctly!Then,and still now I get the upgrade page if I attempt a profile view or send a first mail Or go over the mail replies limit.



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wd40w 71M
6966 posts
2/21/2012 12:21 am

When I stopped paying to "play" here...I've had no problems what so ever in responding to emails sent to me...ever...going on three years now...I did hear that they put some restrictions on new members about two years ago...something along the lines of a two week "grace period" where Standards could not reply to emails...but I think those went out the window with the new email system...your mileage may vary...

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Centaur_UK 46M
1770 posts
2/22/2012 8:14 am

    Quoting  :

The site must have changed this for icebreaker messages then......as i said earlier, when my profile went to standard membership a while ago on here, i got an email from another member. When i tried to reply to the email i could'nt, and i was told by the site i needed to upgrade to silver or gold in order to reply.

and.............WARNING for Porn viewers

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Centaur_UK 46M
1770 posts
2/22/2012 2:41 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes i am a Gold member now, i'm talking about my experience on the site over a year ago, when i let my membership lapse back to standard,..... before i upgraded to my current Gold.

and.............WARNING for Porn viewers

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JN63JPN 61F  
27439 posts
2/24/2012 4:02 pm

I saw this post in Site Support's blog.

Thank you for your Post!!

The Icebreaker Promotion is currently offered to those of New members.
So if you were a past member or a current member with a different profile, the promotion may be denied.

If you have any other questions or concerns, please feel free to contact us.

Regards,
Eileen Dee


When did the promotion change??

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rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
2/25/2012 12:16 pm

    Quoting  :

.

Hey JT,
The Ladies might get a kick out of this~I'm calling you WRONG on this!
They weren't replying to a man,It's all there in the S/S blog.
Now where is Paul Harvey,,,



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JN63JPN 61F  
27439 posts
2/26/2012 7:53 pm

    Quoting  :

A local blogger was mentioning that she opted in for th icebreaker last week but didn't get the silver ball, so I went to the SS blog to see if there've been any changes and came across that response.

I wasn't paying any attention to the gender of the member they were responding to but that wording is misleading either way. If they were responding to a male member, they should be clear that the Icebreakers are sent to new male members matching the women's cupid settings and denial shouldn't even be an issue since as far as I know, there is no opting in to receive Icebreakers. Or is there? They're being too general with their response and it can lead to misunderstandings.

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JN63JPN 61F  
27439 posts
2/26/2012 7:57 pm

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:
    .

    Hey JT,
    The Ladies might get a kick out of this~I'm calling you WRONG on this!
    They weren't replying to a man,It's all there in the S/S blog.
    Now where is Paul Harvey,,,

They WERE replying to a woman and gave her that response?!



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rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
2/26/2012 10:01 pm

    Quoting JN63JPN:
    They WERE replying to a woman and gave her that response?!


.
I'm aware they were.
What she wrote in the blog was that she opened a new account to get the IB.Ryan has mentioned the Sites stance on existing members opening new accounts to get the promotion,both in the group and again briefly in this thread.

Quoted from the support blog~

Hi,
I'm having an issue with the icebreaker promotion going on. I'm using a new profile, but I've been on A F F for a little over a year now, with a different profile. How come I'm not offered the icebreaker promotion? Is there something else I need to do? Thanks.

> SiteSupport replies on 2/12/2012 11:06 pm:
Thank you for your Post!!

The Icebreaker Promotion is currently offered to those of New members. So if you were a past member or a current member with a different profile, the promotion may be denied.

If you have any other questions or concerns, please feel free to contact us.

Regards,

Eileen Dee



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JN63JPN 61F  
27439 posts
2/27/2012 5:19 am

    Quoting rm_FXSBOB3:
    .
    I'm aware they were.
    What she wrote in the blog was that she opened a new account to get the IB.Ryan has mentioned the Sites stance on existing members opening new accounts to get the promotion,both in the group and again briefly in this thread.

    Quoted from the support blog~

    Hi,
    I'm having an issue with the icebreaker promotion going on. I'm using a new profile, but I've been on A F F for a little over a year now, with a different profile. How come I'm not offered the icebreaker promotion? Is there something else I need to do? Thanks.

    > SiteSupport replies on 2/12/2012 11:06 pm:
    Thank you for your Post!!

    The Icebreaker Promotion is currently offered to those of New members. So if you were a past member or a current member with a different profile, the promotion may be denied.

    If you have any other questions or concerns, please feel free to contact us.

    Regards,

    Eileen Dee

Again, . . . they seriously need to get their facts straight and not give out wrong info like that!

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rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
2/27/2012 9:04 am

    Quoting JN63JPN:
    Again, . . . they seriously need to get their facts straight and not give out wrong info like that!
.

Again,
Your example is the One time they got it right,,,
OMG,wait,I'm saying The S/S got something right



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calipeach61 63F
2 posts
3/1/2012 5:28 pm

ok i was getting responses from new members but i could not contact them only the gold could. i got the same notice i am on xmatch and on both sites i have every thing the way it should be. every thing is turned on and pics are up and verified. so what and the hell are they doing i think this is a form of fraud on the sites part. they give it to you then they take it back with out warning then have the balls to ask you to upgrade.it's all about the money i think.


2titsnowaiting 57F
1546 posts
3/1/2012 6:00 pm

Well it appears to me they discontinued the program and just yanked it all. So apparently free lifetime membership equals two months?

Alternatively somebody fucked up big time and accidentally shut them off.

They NEED to get someone on here to tell us what the heck is going on and let us know if this was deliberate or accidental.

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LadyGrayLeopard 63F
26369 posts
3/1/2012 6:19 pm


I also got the revoke message - and haven't touched the setting after I got my silver balls.

So as it was for life, did I now then reach my expiry date???

Fix the thing and fast...
This was YOUR OFFER and we have accepted it and followed the rules.
Do your part... please...



Like they say here:

Thank you in advance



newgirl70000 53F
946 posts
3/2/2012 2:09 am

Same here. I hadn't been on the site at all during the past two days and I certainly haven't changed any settings. I'm presuming (and hoping) it's a glitch as I would like to think that, if the promo is revoked, we would be told properly. Or am I being naive? lol

I hope someone can let us know please.

NG

(One note ladies, I did notice when you go in to check and 'reactivate' it, it populates all the tick boxes again for winks etc. Hmm... I wonder... )

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2titsnowaiting 57F
1546 posts
3/2/2012 4:44 am

Yeah, mine is fixed this morning.

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Centaur_UK 46M
1770 posts
3/2/2012 8:13 am

It was posted in the Live from A.F.F group that it was some kind of site bug that caused this problem?
Hopefully it should now be fixed and you should all get your silver memberships back.

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LadyGrayLeopard 63F
26369 posts
3/2/2012 8:40 am

    Quoting  :

... yep - but it shouldn't have been deactivated in the first place...
The message and the page where the link took were rude, accusing the member of breaking the rules.

Well, these incidents are normal here, unfortunately.


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