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rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
10/15/2010 2:29 pm

    Quoting rm_Ramrod469fun:
    Ryan, I did the upload your photo with my screenname deal. I did not received the two weeks gold membership. It does say "verified photo". But no change in my account.

    Back in Aug. I got an offer to upgrade at a 20% discount. When I went to do it a few days later it wouldn't take the discount off. I tried emailing the billing dept. They said it was out of there hands that the computer does the offers. I tried for a few weeks to get the deal and just gave up.

    Well I was going to sign up for a 1 year gold membership at the 20% off deal. But It didn't work. If I can get this deal or hey even a better one then yea sign me up. Money is tight on everyone these days.
The offer for the 2 weeks of Gold membership for uploading a qualified "Verified Photo" only applies to Female and Couples profiles. This was not offered to the Male profiles.


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
10/15/2010 2:34 pm

    Quoting dicksnwife:
    im sure u guys have responded to my upcomeing questions somewhere here but i cant seem to find anyone with a similiar inquiries so here are mine...

    do you guys limit the number of viewers a broadcaster can have?? a couple of years ago i was simply doing my nails on cam and ended up being lucky enuff to have and im sure the number i read was correct but it said 6639 viewers.. people were getting knocked off to allow others on, i watch my cam when broadcasting, and that time i noticed that my screen view would fade in and out.. im sure it was just a fluke there were that many watching me but i remember it just as if it happened yesterday.. well ever since then i can never seem to get even 100 people viewing.. every now and then my numbers will rise to near 200 but not too often,, i am not doing no more or any less than i did then.. so am curious as to why my viewers are limited.. i keep my cookies, browser cache, and domain servers cleared (am running windows 7) so what am i doing wrong?? any suggestions??

    my next question is HOW do you make bling... i have been gifted with alot of cool ones and want to make some myself but can NEVER get it to even remotely turn out presentable.. HELP!!..lol

    dicknjane
    of
    dicksnwife
Check this blog post, How to Make Bling with Helpful Tips, and be sure to read through the comments. You will find many helpful links to the Bling groups as well.

Sorry I can't help much about the cam issue. I can tell you they increased the number of servers to allow for more viewers to watch the cams. It should be relatively unlimited in the number of viewers one can have. I understand they are still having some issues getting everything to work 100% though.


nd2hvfun 65F  
10021 posts
10/26/2010 10:27 pm

I think AdultFriendFinder laid off their customer service people or shipped the work out of the country no responses on either profile blog of theirs in several days

je ne regrette rien


lookingman14 56M

11/9/2010 6:43 am

would be cool if another member could write a tutorial on another member and everyone could see it. how do yiou move pics around ? if i have 3 on my box how do i get the 4th to take one of the others place?


winemker 64M
168 posts
11/28/2010 6:45 pm

I live on the Ohio Pennsylvania border in Ohio, when I search members near me it gives me people all the way to Dayton or Cincinati but not members in Pa 10 miles way WHY?


CampoGirl 57F
43434 posts
12/18/2010 11:29 am

Please pay attention to the emails Ive sent.

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
1/17/2011 6:09 pm

    Quoting  :

He's a member of this site and unless you specifically blocked him from viewing your profile, your profile is there for him to view anytime. The same with the rest of the site. Any member can view your profile as long as it is not hidden or you have not blocked them specifically.

Perhaps I am not understanding your dilemma?


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
1/20/2011 7:30 am

    Quoting  :

GetItOn is another site owned by Various Inc which owns this site. It uses a separate data base so you were able to safely remove your profile there without affecting your profile here.

Some profiles here were imported to GIO and given temporary free memberships. This does fall within the guidelines of what members here agreed to in the TOU when creating a profile here. It behooves members to know what they agreed to. Read the TOU!

They have created a few other sites, but I think the only other current creation {by this site} that some folks here have been imported to is NoStringsAttached. I could be mistaken and perhaps Ryan can correct me if I'm wrong.

Always check first if it a separate data base or if it is this data base before deleting. This site, same data base, has many names and if you delete yourself off of a co-brand site, you would delete your profile off here. If that happens, you can contact CS to have your profile reinstated.


spicylips4all 75M/68F
1 post
2/4/2011 7:29 am

Not a comment, but a question. Is there anywhere to post that you/we will be taking a certain cruise? Lots of people cruise and it would be great to know that other swingers are on board.
Thanks....Chuck&Judy (spicylips4all)


Loosetooth 48M
1154 posts
2/4/2011 2:13 pm

Hello Ryan,

I was wondering if you might respond to my previous mails. Understand that you are busy but would not mind hearing your thoughts.

Thank you.


rm_kelidgh 61F
15971 posts
2/10/2011 8:59 am

    Quoting rm_NassyFox:
    GetItOn is another site owned by Various Inc which owns this site. It uses a separate data base so you were able to safely remove your profile there without affecting your profile here.

    Some profiles here were imported to GIO and given temporary free memberships. This does fall within the guidelines of what members here agreed to in the TOU when creating a profile here. It behooves members to know what they agreed to. Read the TOU!

    They have created a few other sites, but I think the only other current creation {by this site} that some folks here have been imported to is NoStringsAttached. I could be mistaken and perhaps Ryan can correct me if I'm wrong.

    Always check first if it a separate data base or if it is this data base before deleting. This site, same data base, has many names and if you delete yourself off of a co-brand site, you would delete your profile off here. If that happens, you can contact CS to have your profile reinstated.
Actually - after some searching .. Get It On and No Strings Attached are NOT the only sites which have profile and photo information ..

Funnily enough - while I didn't experience the issues - several people have commented in blogs and on my blog that they are finding old versions of their profile, edited versions of their profile, and some current versions of their profile on BDSM sites, LBGT sites, you name it.

There MUST be an updated and sticky posted list of ALL the "Various" inc's holdings that we can refer to and remove, deactivate or otherwise edit profiles. Just "goo gling" the handle here doesn't get them all ...

What say you Ryan - can you find it in your day and within your powers to provide that list?



~ [blog kelidgh]~ I am, indeed


rm_kelidgh 61F
15971 posts
2/10/2011 9:05 am

And while we are discussing "bugs" .. there was little to no attention paid yesterday to the fact that the "maths" in the counter for views is beyond incorrect. And, as such, all the "most" lists are based on a specious method of counting.

Is there no way to correct a simple line of code to eliminate the problem - Unigue Views or Unique comments are not even within the realm of the numbers.

I can personally point to 4 of my blog posts with over 9000 "views" per the counter, and most have 10 - 15 comments. The view number may in fact be valid - but there is NO WAY in hell that they are all unique. And I would extrapolate that conclusion to include the majority of blogs highlighted in the "most" lists. It's a simple maths thing.

Is there ever going to be some resolution to that? For as long as the numbers and placing are open to manipulation, they will be manipulated. And it then degenerates to a "he said she said" sandbox tussle...



~ [blog kelidgh]~ I am, indeed


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
2/10/2011 2:21 pm

    Quoting rm_kelidgh:
    Actually - after some searching .. Get It On and No Strings Attached are NOT the only sites which have profile and photo information ..

    Funnily enough - while I didn't experience the issues - several people have commented in blogs and on my blog that they are finding old versions of their profile, edited versions of their profile, and some current versions of their profile on BDSM sites, LBGT sites, you name it.

    There MUST be an updated and sticky posted list of ALL the "Various" inc's holdings that we can refer to and remove, deactivate or otherwise edit profiles. Just "goo gling" the handle here doesn't get them all ...

    What say you Ryan - can you find it in your day and within your powers to provide that list?
I always thought the other sites referred to were simply co-brands and thus part of the A*F*F data base. I agree with Keli that if there are other sites, other than GIO or NSA, that our profile or any part of our profile has been imported to that is NOT on the A*F*F data base, that we have a list so that we can choose to stay or remove our profiles from it.

Can we have that list please?


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
2/25/2011 8:23 am

    Quoting  :

I don't know if you did anything to fix the colors, but I see colors on your blog at this time and I haven't noticed any "white" blogs so far. It could have been a temporary glitch or perhaps your pages weren't loading correctly?


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
2/25/2011 6:55 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm hearing from others that there were some issues but it looks like they might be resolved now???


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
3/1/2011 8:20 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you for the suggestion. It's nice to see other members participate here in offering help.

However, I am aware of that list and it it totally lacking in the full listing nor has it been updated to include their more prominent names of the site entrances that they use. I was hoping Ryan could give a better list than what is there.


tackman57 56M  
184 posts
3/6/2011 3:21 pm

In the last month I've been hit up by two different guy members for money for sex with them (thick_dick_4 - 27yr old from Denver & apollo6138 - 20yr old from Abilene, KS). One contacted me first, one I'd contacted. Neither of these two guys mentioned sex in the initial e-mails then bluntly asked how much I was willing to pay?

I'm a fairly good looking guy who is in good shape, successful, and absolutely NOT hard up enough to even consider having to pay for sex. But most of all, I resent being hit up on this site by a prostitute since I'm a paying member on a site that's set up for meeting people socially for that purpose.

I would like to request that there be a special button members can click to immediately turn in protitutes, people who try to get members to go to a different pay for sex site, etc. I know there is a "report abuse or sexually explicit ads" button on e-mails but when I clicked this button, absolutely NOTHING happened.

If possible, could you e-mail me where/who I can report these two guys so they won't be able to hit on other members?


tackman57 56M  
184 posts
3/6/2011 9:08 pm

My thanks to AdultFriendFinder for taking care of this problem already! Talk about quick action! I'm glad to see this site has no patients concerning people hitting up members for money for sex! That's not what this site is about and I'm glad that AdultFriendFinder still cares! Thanks again!


rm_vwspacey 53F
62 posts
3/12/2011 5:31 am

Hi, this is just a breif outline of an idea i had & have included it on blogs on a few sites where relevant. It's an idea to improve the safety of members male & female!
Right a 'Private Roon' would be needed one for females & one for males{Other rooms maybe needed for others such as tv's?}In this room you could privately report incidents of concern either on net or when a meeting has taken place. By 'Concern' I mean acts of violence or threats of violence,harm or damage ect.
This would be accompanied by a name & a username on site.
NO action would be expected by the site other than checking out the allegation eg: if any other member had reported similar or same person for acts of concern?
If found to be a 'true' or any evidence{like content of profile shows any hint of tendencies}The notice would be open to other members that qualify to use that room eg:males/females to view. This is because these people can be flushed out, exposed & subsequently avoided by other members who maybe a potential meets for this unsavoury person!
I know it's a sketchy suggestion & needs alot of work & checks on the legalities ect to make it a useable safety feature. But I do think having lived over half my life with violence {Domestic mainly}& having worked with trained professionals as I knew more than their training could ever teach them,that this could help to keep mant men & women safer so this cyber sex/dating lifestyle can be enjoyed more!
When I have put small parts of this idea in any of my blogs it has alway's been singled out & commented on! All comments & feedback has been 100% positive!
So I thought you being my favourite site which I spend most my time on. Plus having such a wonderful 'COMMUNITY PERSONEL'might like to know my idea & think it over to see if it could be put into action or any benefit to AdultFriendFinder & it's members. If not then that's that!
LMVSFAO

Thank You for your time.
Play Nicely & Take Care Cheers
vw

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bentel55 68M

3/14/2011 6:01 am

I have tried to e-mail AdultFriendFinder 4 times with NO answer!!!!! Rude!!
Here's what happened to me
I joined and then paid for a GOLD membership Paid with my C.C.
when I got my bill there's was a charge on them from a ESCORT SERVICE
which i dont use or need or want.So I started to look into it Cause i knew it wasn't from me then i noticed the date. Yes it was my GOLD membership to AdultFriendFinder... Good Thing i wasn't married.. Yea that would of been real cutie....NOT!!!
So after tiring 4 times to talk to them with NO answer! I hope you can understand why i CAN NOT ever be a Paying member again with any Company that has anything to do with AdultFriendFinder.. Still waiting on them to tell me why they did this!!!!!!
But like the people here so i stay as a free member but what they did was just so wrong in so many ways!!!!!
Thanks for reading just tring to make sure this Doesn't happen to anyone else!!!! Good Luck...


MrEman6976 47M
1164 posts
3/23/2011 4:36 pm

I was shocked to see that, again we, the customers, are being used as bait in a gambit by the site to draw others to the site and it's affiliates, why is this continually happening? I have read a few blogs, as well as heard from friends not linked to the site, that people that are customers, or were customers, are falsely being Advertised as escorts. This has to stop. This is, from my registration, log in information and regular contact received from the site, AdultFriendFinder, not 'whatever escorts', I bite my tongue at the other affiliates this company seems to link me with but it is a step too far to think that those I know, and I, might be deemed an escort (or hooker in others eyes)


elwood19641000 59M
404 posts
3/24/2011 12:24 pm

Quoting synndarella:Hi

This is AGAIN about DUBAI ESCORTS. A sister SITE in you 'family tree' as you put it~ I was smacked in the face last week by a girl who THINKS I am an ESCORT.. and clearly doesn't approve. Would you like the crime reference number? I have sent NUMEROUS messages to you asking you to write to me SOMETHING that proves I joined a DATING site and am NOT working as an ESCORT.

I got a friend of mine to join DUBAI ESCORTS, and advertise herself as such. Her account HAS BEEN BANNED. And we all know why don't we? BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO SOLICITE... however.. YOU are soliciting ME as an ESCORT by having my profile on NOT ONE but FIVE sites that ALL log in to this database

WILL YOU PLEASE SEND ME SOMETHING THAT I can show to others that I AM NOT NOR HAVE I EVER been a ESCORT?

You replied to my friend who enquired on behalf about my complaint, but HAVE NEVER replied to me.

Have you heard of BUZZFEED? I will make sure you are on there everyday if you do not help REPAIR what YOU have created in my life... a living hell... you denied knowledge of DUBAI ESCORTS previously
But I now have proof in my friends inbox.. messages from DUBAI ESCORTS with YOUR address in them... don't even bother trying to deny it.. just fix it!
I will make sure every single member on this site KNOWS what you are doing with there details

In the TOC.. I agreed you could use my info on other sites.. I did not and WAS NOT made aware that that would include BEING TOUTED AS AN ESCORT! In no way shape or form is this right!

AdultFriendFinder - sort yourselves out. This is unacceptable behaviour and putting people in jeopardy. Perhaps a lawsuit will focus your tiny minds.


sodbusternorm 69M

4/5/2011 8:22 pm

I was billed to my cc upgrades I didn't order and billed movies I didn't order, sickening. I'm opting out closing acount before I go broke for no aparent reason. I hope they find a way to delete all my pertanent info regaurding this. VERY ANGRY!!!!!! If action at Various doesn't help I will be forced to take litigation thru cc card company atourneys and Better Business Bureau and Interstate Fraudulant Activities Commision. What was a shortest term sign up for $19.95 out of curiousity turned into over $55.00 over night. Sodbusternorm is out of here.


tackman57 56M  
184 posts
4/11/2011 10:51 pm

When I've checked the "RECENT NEW MEMBERS" the last couple of days, what comes up is full of old members who haven't been on site for "more than 3 months". How can someone who hasn't been on site for "more than 3 months" be a "RECENT NEW MEMBER"? Is this some kind of error or bug, or are there so few new members that the site has to use old members who haven't been on site for more than 3 months?

Also, for the longest time, when I get "Alerts" it doubles (sometimes triples) the alerts, meaning when "so and so" logs in I get 2 (or three) alerts that "so and so" has logged in instead of just one. It's really annoying. Any way to fix this?

Hope you can look into and fix these things. They - among other small things - really take away from the fun of this site.


tackman57 56M  
184 posts
4/25/2011 10:33 am

Many "THANKS" for clearing up the "Recent New Member" issue I had!

Now I've got a problem with the "live-show" window over lapping anything that's gets in front of it. Frankly, I don't understand the "live-show" stuff anyway. Why do we members need to BUY a live show when we can watch each other for FREE in a live cam show? I know it advertisement but it has become overwhelmingly annoying. PLUS, as a gay man I find it a real turn off to constantly see women with their legs spread or playing with their boobs when I'm looking for guys. I also find it funny that I have the constantly moving "live-show" window with women when I log in BUT when a female friend I have logs in she DOESN'T have it at all! So, I take it that this "live-show" window ONLY shows up for we male members, even if we're gay?! The same goes for when I open up the cam listings...the left hand side if filled with all sorts of women in ads to SELL us sex BUT when my female friend opens up the cam listing page, these ads aren't there. I HATE this!!! Isn't there anything you can do to STOP the ads to we men (gay men especially) for these naked women's pro sites? To me it is just as bad as a fake member trying to get us to go to a pay site, in fact, it's probably the same thing only just up front instead of pretending to be a member!

Well, all rants aside, can you please make the "live-show" window STOP covering up anything that gets in front of it, PLEASE?! And, maybe, for we gay members, eliminate it and those pesky female ads on the cam listings page?!

Thanks!


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