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Is Anyone Successful Using This Site?  

community 38F   
9207 posts
4/2/2010 4:35 pm
Is Anyone Successful Using This Site?


Yes.

A few weeks ago we put up a survey. This is the survey that pops up when you turn off auto-renew. In that survey we ask the question,

"Have you been successful using the site?"

Well, 18,000 people have replied so far. Here's how many have met someone in person:


17% of men
43% of women
28% of couples (man and woman)
33% of couples (2 men)
22% of TS/TV/TG

I haven't had any responses from 2 women couples yet, but I'm sure that would be near 100%.

Here are the most successful countries to use AdultFriendFinder:

1) 31% Japan
2) 29% Thailand
3,4,5) 3 way tie! 28% UK, 28% Netherlands, 28.1% Germany
6) 20% US
7) 19% Canada
8 ) 16% Norway

I know we get kind of bogged down here with issues sometimes. Kind of fun to look at the big picture. Get at it UK, Germany and Netherlands!

roxy54sexy 61F
8914 posts
4/2/2010 5:50 pm

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rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
4/2/2010 7:48 pm

I would have to say can you 'clarify' a bit 'meeting' someone?? LOL not trying to be bad here, but many only count a 'meeting' as 'they got laid'. So many here think that we are ONLY real if we meet and f*ck, and trust me... although many have met, I have heard and read all the stories of those that were NOT what their pictures looked like and NOT what they wrote in their profiles (and this is men AND women not just one sex). To many 'success' is ONLY if you scored... and honestly, many are here for OTHER than 'scoring'. Just a thought...

As for me. I HAVE to say I was successful. 6 years later I am still with the ONE man I have met.


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
4/2/2010 9:11 pm

It depends on what I'm looking for at the time. In the past, yes. I've also made many friends and enjoyed blogging.

What I want now? Nope.


MyHeartLost4U 59M
2487 posts
4/3/2010 9:27 am

18,000 replies is a very.... very small.... percentage of the members that log into the site each day. That average is approximately 115,000 or more members; thus, that poll is highly inaccurate for only taking into count of 10 percent or less of the members.

Majority of members do not bother with site surveys or polls; yet, many do chat of their experiences and post about them in groups, blogs, articles, advice lines and etc...

If I were to give my estimation on the success rate of members meeting other members face to face from my almost 14 years as a member on this site it would break down to something like this below.

Based on just meeting face to face without sexual interactions.

50% of men
75% of women
40% of couples (man and woman)
8% of couples (2 men)
3% of TS/TV/TG

1) 65% US
2) 62% Canada
3) 45% UK
4) 40% Japan
5) 30% Germany
6,7, 25% Thailand - 25% Netherlands - Norway 25%

Based on Sexual interactions after meeting.

75% - Women

45% Men

40% Couples of (Male and Female)

5% Couples of (Male and Male)

Note: This estimation is not based on members first time meetings with another member. It is based on all meetings a member may have had.


blm696 62M

4/6/2010 8:29 am

I have been on here a while and find it very challenging to even get a response back from sent e-mails, Apparently I must be doing or saying something wrong... Does anyone have some suggestions how I might improve and get some response back!!!


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
4/7/2010 9:57 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you for the answer Ryan. But obviously, as I just quoted, someone ELSE thought the same thing I did....lol The question as you posted it "Have you been successful using the site?" doesn't say sex or NO sex just meeting in person and can be taken a myriad of ways. Just sayin.... lol I wasn't alone on this one.


DoctorBooty 43M
6426 posts
4/16/2010 8:42 am

Statistics are rather limited, but the general trend is telling. Guys are fuckin up left and right.


Th_Vaga_Bond 53M

4/16/2010 10:57 am

overall, i'd say its been successful for me. since '05, i've met 2 people from here, but the emphasis hasn't been on that. it's mainly been about chat, and honest relationships. i have "met" some incredible people with whom i have very honest friendships. in other words, whats thought is spoken. in real life, people sensor their thoughts and what you hear is candy coated and superficial. in chat, esp. AdultFriendFinder, ppl tell you gladly..lol.. and bluntly. i like that. you know where your friends stand.


1953coupleelkhar 70M/70F

4/18/2010 6:43 pm

no this site sucks .we have been paid subscribers for a month and all we recieved off of this site is a lot of smartassed comments and a lot of maybes but a lot more maybenots so as far as we are concerned we are thru until this site gets some real swingers on it and we will tell anyone who asks us that we believe that the so-called swingers on this site are frauds and not to use it ..we will also tell them to try to find a different site to use


DAFER4 77M
48 posts
5/16/2010 5:52 pm

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rm_dasfantom 50M

5/24/2010 11:06 am

I have had several flirts and emails, however, no one really seems to be serious about meeting...I think this site is for bored people, who are looking for excitement by playing games online.


DAFER4 77M
48 posts
9/11/2011 11:00 am

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