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March Suggestion Box  

community 38F   
9207 posts
3/5/2010 6:21 pm
March Suggestion Box



rm_InnerPeace07 36F
4536 posts
3/5/2010 6:32 pm

Hi Ryan

My main beef is still - we're not able to delete our own photos; we're not able to modify or remove the annotations on our photos. Really uncomfortable not having control over my own personal things.

Sure, I can contact customer support, but I finally had to ask them to delete my last picture, and they deleted my main pic. I asked them to remove an annotation on one of my pics, so they went and deleted that pic too.

In a full heart there is room for everything. In an empty heart there is room for nothing.
Play 3 Word Story


planocuppl 53M/54F
37 posts
3/5/2010 8:20 pm

One thing that would be nice to have is a check box or radio button on the pages, such as "who's viewed me", or "online matches", etc that you could check if you did not want to see certain profiles at all. Most of the time we spend looking over the who's viewed us screen only to see the same old people that we are not interested in that keep viewing. Let them view, but let us control whether we see them or not.


planocuppl 53M/54F
37 posts
3/5/2010 8:22 pm

The star ratings are not consistent. When you see them listed with the profiles, it might show 4 stars, but when you roll over the pic to see more, the number of stars changes to 4-12 or 5. They should show correctly in the list/gallery view without having to roll over the info to see the real rating.


planocuppl 53M/54F
37 posts
3/5/2010 8:26 pm

Give the option to view only certain compatibility scores and up. In other words, if I want to start by viewing those with a 100% compatibility, I should be able to filter that in the search criteria. If I put 80% then i want to see all compatibility of 80% and higher. This could be done using the compatiliblty score of the start ratings. Preferrably with the compatibility score.


community replies on 3/9/2010 4:07 pm:
that's a really good idea

planocuppl 53M/54F
37 posts
3/5/2010 8:34 pm

There seems to be a lag between the main site and IMC info. You may see that someon is on line on the IMC application, even after a refresh, but when you look at the person's profile on the main site, they will be off IMC. The new alert feature would be a nice feature is it were a little quicker also. I see a flirt or mail in my inbox before the alert notifies me.


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
3/6/2010 6:34 am

PINEAPPLE.. I AM GETTING THOSE ALSO!! And yes they evey say Nordishbear on them as well!! Although the notification IS for my 'watched blogs' it has that name at the top instead of mine.


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
3/7/2010 10:40 am

    Quoting rm_InnerPeace07:
    Hi Ryan

    My main beef is still - we're not able to delete our own photos; we're not able to modify or remove the annotations on our photos. Really uncomfortable not having control over my own personal things.

    Sure, I can contact customer support, but I finally had to ask them to delete my last picture, and they deleted my main pic. I asked them to remove an annotation on one of my pics, so they went and deleted that pic too.
Try moving the photo you want to delete to another album and then deleting it from there.

That should work until they fix it.


rm_trainmepls1 53F
717 posts
3/8/2010 4:20 pm

I see too many guys on the site complaining about an increase in fake profiles. My suggestion is that the site staff responsible for approving new profiles should be allowed to deny all the new profiles they suspect are fake, even if that means that only 10% of new profiles are approved. They shouldn't be held to an artificial quota (95%, so we were told) that they're expected to approve.


wildcatr27 52F  
241 posts
3/9/2010 8:19 am

Quoting community:There won't be a full site block. We may be able to make little advances like not letting someone read your blog posts. We'll see what small steps we can take.

Thought we could already block them from our blogs.

Why can't we block them from IM chat or viewing profiles?

Why can't we have the full site block, after all the majority of us voted for it when you polled it last year


HOTCreamFilled 57F

3/11/2010 8:23 am

I've had a problem with nasty comments posted on my videos from couple guys and couldn't block them. i think there should be a full block modification. I pay for my site, seems like i should have that option. I kept complaining but nothing was done. I ended up taking the videos down to get rid of the rude comments. They're back up now so we'll see...lol


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
3/19/2010 5:34 am

why we have problem inserting the pic in our blog???

and look, even in here in your blog, no picture is showing up...

so, it is obvious there is an existing problem...

i have seen everywhere in the blogland...and i love to insert picture in my blog, and somehow, i have way too much problem doing that...

is there anyway you can improve in the are?


sunog22 66M

3/19/2010 2:27 pm

    Quoting  :

I have noticed the same thing,and forget about trying to get any kind of response on the weekend.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
3/19/2010 3:52 pm

at the code "[image]",

did you try to insert a pic here???

i can see the code, so i assume you were trying to insert some sort if picture there...but it's not showing...all i see is the code "[image]".

look in your original post..it says again [image] so you must have inserted a picture...but again, it is not visible...

i am having this problem for a while, and i see some blog post with the code [image] only in their blog post, but no pic...

just even know when i commented on someone's blog, i inserted a picture, which showed up but no picture...sometime after i posted, i can see in the comment box with the picture name there but no picture showed up...see the attached picture above...


firegryphon 54F
5903 posts
3/19/2010 3:53 pm

My only suggestions are about profiles.

Under "travels to" it would be awesome if that included an option to indicate whether one is into or not into out of towners. I am not interested in snow-birds or tourists. I know some ppl are. It'd be great if we could tell.

In the part where i put what I'm seeking: It's great that I have so many choices of "who" but the "for" is seriously lacking. It's awesome that one has all these options if you're not looking for sex but want some online fantasy stuffs - but if you are looking for sex - you have no way of saying whut "kind" of sex you're looking for. 1-on-1 sex (one-nite stands? booty call? friends with benefits? short term relationships?), discrete relationships (I'm cheating? required to keep my sex life private for reasons other than cheating? Short term relationships, does this apply here?) or group sex (orgy parties? gang bangs? connecting with ppl I meet from here at swingers clubs? exploration and experimentation? swinging couple? MFM? FMF? FFM? MMF? I could b here all damned day naming the number of ways this applies)

I wanna have sex, I don't wanna have it with total strangers. I belong to some other sites. The profiles all have these distinctions. It's not as difficult to find what I'm looking for. It's annoying that I have to write it out only to find hardly anyone who can actually read that part.

Which bring me to suggesting there be such a things as a "standard profile". NO PIX - but at least include the basic information. I'm a 40 year old woman in Homestead fl looking for:Men, Women, Couples (all the kinds there are) for [whutever I have there] and Firegryphon's Basic Info.

You'd be surprised how many guys will pony up the $$ to be able to see pix. As it is now - u let 'em see the tiny thumbnail on the payment page. Give basic functionality but not what they really wanna see. Save us poor women from the bullshit excuses. It's a pain in the ass to explain how to get to my blog to read it in a chat room that is busy.

You should also stop letting guys spend pts to send messages and not have to read the profile. So many just buy/earn pts and get pissy at the women because they get rejected or ignored because they didn't read the profile first. You know the profile ya spent explaining where that guy is not whut ur looking for? Just charge 'em the point to read it and allow them to send a message as part of that or not.

More long winded than I intended this to be. But jeesh.

The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.


japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
3/19/2010 3:54 pm

ok...see pic didn't show up again...let's try this again...now i did make sure there is correct path to my picture showing in the box of photo/icon...


Discretion4Sur 69M
96 posts
3/21/2010 3:18 pm

A question for the Various Marketing Department regarding pinkpussy dot biz:

Are you all idiots? What makes you think that just because we have signed on to a swingers' site that we are indiscriminate criminals?

Prostitution is illegal more places than it is legal. Putting all our profiles on a site that advertises hooking up with 'hookers' puts us all in legal jeopardy!

While we have agreed to the TOU to be here, we have not agreed to let you illegally use our profiles as ads for people seeking or offering Prostitution.

How onerous is this?

I do not want my profile added to any 'specialty' affiliated sites.

I signed up on AdultFriendFinder, that's it! I understand that Passion people can see my profile and posts, but I reject, "GetItOn" or "PinkPussy" or "Slut-N-Hooker" or "Elephant Ped*rasty" or any other dumb ass specialty site you care to think up.

I want my profile off of those associate sites and undisturbed here, NOW!

D4


wd40w 71M
6966 posts
3/21/2010 6:27 pm

I posted this in my blog last year entitled "Welcome to the Real World"...no not the MTV series... "The following is a list compiled by laila6868 and posted in the Community AdultFriendFinder is Listening Blog...which means that "Ryan" is a very busy guy...'cause he's listening to ALL of the sites listed...which I brought up over there...but they decided not to post that little factoid over there...

This may get me on Ryan's shit list, BUT -- I did a Blog post about this once. Every one of us on A F F are also on ALL of the sites I've listed.

BUT -- they are really the same site with different decorations and wording. Meaning: You can log into these sites with your very same A F F username and password.

This differs from "sister sites" of A F F where you need to sign up and obtain a different username, password, and make a new profile (ATL, Out, etc.).

Here's what I compiled:

AdultFriendFinder
passion
hustlerpersonals
xmatch
hotmatch
lesbianpersonals
seniorsizzle
swapfinder
loveclear
sexcontacts
gigapersonals
datenation
passionfinders
flirtingpassion
sexatfirstclick
lesbianloveatfirstclick
worldsexpersonals
partyfriendfinder
penthousepersonals
personalsareus
Eros Match: eros DOT AdultFriendFinder DOT com
adultmatchfirm
adultrealsex
datenation
divorcematch (goes to A F F site)
eroticsouls
hushhushpersonals (goes to A F F site)
realsexacts
sexpeek (goes to A F F site)
sexthisweekend (goes to A F F site)
sexwantads
visionpersonals
vividpersonals
interracial DOT AdultFriendFinder (goes to A F F site)

and MORE!


They would dearly love for us to shut up and go away about this subject...nah...not going to happen...
Well they denied this comment...something about emails...of which ther are none...so I took the liberty of posting it again...and the added luxury of "quoting"...if all else fails I will link it to laila's original post...enjoy..."


"Illigitimi Non Carborundum Est" W.F. "Bull" Halsey wd40w


rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
3/22/2010 4:39 am

    Quoting  :

See the ''standard member abilities''
They are posted as a thread in Ryan's
group...


AdultFriendFinder
Parody Of a
Real
Sex Site


bmarietoo 56M/52F
1090 posts
3/22/2010 6:13 am

Our suggestion is that you listen to your members, and get our profiles+ OFF that HOOKER site!

To whom, and how do we "report for abuse" when the site itself is defaming, insulting, labeling, and apparently pimping us???

The "real" members are going to leave, and take their money with them if something isn't done about this, and quickly too! It'll be too late to listen then.

It's always Marie, unless it's signed "b".


rm_FXSBOB3 48M
4437 posts
3/22/2010 7:25 am

    Quoting  :

'' Are you trying to tell me I could not?''

No one doubts that you could~
but DID you read the 'membership abilities'
as they are posted?


AdultFriendFinder
Parody Of a
Real
Sex Site


the_stray_cat 68F
4638 posts
3/22/2010 8:28 am

What's WRONG with you folks? Pinkpussies, we're all whores? Speak for yourself. You folks just don't know when to stop, do you?

Get my profile off that site, or I'm shutting down and abandoning the whole thing. And fire the imbecile who came up with that idea.

Remember, I bring a lot of traffic from off the site. It could be bad, especially if the other bloggers do the same. And, yes, I'm passing everyone the word.

Peace and love is where it's at.


nsaguyhere4u 76M
486 posts
3/22/2010 11:17 am

Who is the genius that decided to put our profiles on a site promoting hookers? I know we gave permission to use our profiles but do you think we will stay as members if this isn't corrected? Women are already beginning to delete their photos and make their blogs private. If the women leave the men will have no reason to stay.

Here is an excerpt from the site's own TOU

The following is a partial list of the kind of content that is illegal or prohibited on the site - - promotes information that you know is false, misleading or promotes illegal activities

Hooking is an illegal activity in most jurisdictions, so Various is violating it's own TOU by promoting Hookers on Pink Pussy.
Fix this or lose your membership base


FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
3/22/2010 2:07 pm

Being a man I don't really know what it must be like to be told that if you have a healthy appetite for sex then you must be a slut, or a whore or a hooker.

Indeed I thought that these are supposed to be more enlightened times, where a woman can enjoy sex without that kind of nonsense.

So I have no idea why you think that women want to be on a site that labels them as prostitutes, or why you think I would want to be on a site that treats half of the adult population in such a manner.

By the way, I'm not a swinger and I'm not a hooker - does that make me a Pink Pussy Girl?


firegryphon 54F
5903 posts
3/22/2010 4:12 pm

Well, I gotta say, marketing has reached a NEW low.

However, since you're pimping me out as a whore, I demand marketing fork over my cut. Even pimps on the street let the ho's have *some* of the money they make.

Give me my money bitch.

No wonder we got guys crawling the chat rooms treating us like whores, you told them we were.

I'll be looking for that check.

The only thing I HAVE to do is eat, shit, and die. Everything else is a choice.


rm_NassyFox 62F
37014 posts
3/23/2010 11:07 am

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