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The Community Shit List  

hard222swallow 52M
894 posts
11/18/2011 4:24 pm

The new format is crap. It's difficult to navigate, the organization sucks, and it looks like a brand new web designer got it out of a cookie-cutter template maker. I hate it. I won't be renewing my gold membership if it is the same in February. Please change it back.


laverock 61M

1/5/2012 5:50 am

Being new to this and in need like many, for discretion, I am concerned about members who themselves don't have any kind of picture but offer to trade pics (ostensively to see if it's a good match) but never produce. I wish that there was a list of these members who routinely do this, as repoted by others. I haven't even got to the "no show" stage but this would piss me off too and I'd like to be able to review a user "citizenship" profile, I guess prior to investing my time and trust in a dialog.


2serenitynow 59M/58F
7029 posts
5/23/2012 4:50 am

Apparently you may have started a new site called "Fuck A Slut" and filled it with the profiles of women from here? If there is any truth to this I certainly dont want my profile on that degrading site and ask that it is immediately removed from that site!

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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
5/23/2012 6:50 am

Please get my profile off affiliated sites such as "fuck a slut" and "my secret slut"

I know I agreed to the TOU when I signed up but I feel very strongly that having my profile, photos and blogs on sites inferring that I am a slut is nothing short of libel!


"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


lindaluvlos 53T

7/20/2012 2:12 am

really sounds bad just want back on tranny personals

badgirl


PORN4FREEE3 41M
2 posts
2/17/2013 5:19 pm

I think you should get at least 50perc of the earnings. If you file with the BBB you will get more. Get them back with taking there money because men or women like that laugh at symphathy.


DEERCOY 71M/76F
23 posts
3/25/2013 12:25 am

Fake profiles area dime a dozen I receive winks,flirts,hotlistsed, every day~~ Young--20-25- Montana girls?? I live in Montana, have all my life, & these "hungry" gals are from towns with 150 population?? classy?? always with 'A' breasts, 5'7" tall "Give me a hit so we can meet" BS~~ AdultFriendFinder~~ PLEASE GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER!! This is suppose to be a 'SECURE' site for ADULTS~~ Being run by ---WHO??? It's going DOWN HILL FAST!!! thanks


Chantilly7 78F
4 posts
4/1/2013 10:13 am

[Post1947155]
Been on this site for years,(standard member) now all of a sudden when I reply to a message sent to me, the site doesn't send my reply, just pops the "up grade" page and that's it! what's with that? really pisses me off!


lookatu2day 74F
47 posts
4/1/2013 2:30 pm

I just wish that stupid banner about your upcoming changes would go away...
CHANGE IS NOT GOOD!!!!
I HATE THE CHANGES YOU HAVE ALREADY MADE AND REALLY HOPE THAT YOU WOULD CHANGE IT BACK TO WHAT IT WAS BEFORE BECAUSE IT MADE SENSE THEN AND IT DOESN'T NOW!!!! I HATE, HATE, HATE YOUR NEW MESSAGE CENTER! IT SUCKS BIG TIME AND THERE ARE JUST TOO MANY THINGS WRONG WITH IT NOW, WHEREAS THERE WAS NOTHING WRONG WITH THE OLD MESSAGE CENTER! I have no reasonable idea why you made the change to begin with!!!
What you need to fix is the updates on the profiles. The updates on what is going on is old. If I accept a new friend or if somebody accepts my invite, that is what I want to show up as well as if I get new emails. What gives you the right to limit how many messages I can see at one time? That is one thing that really pisses me off bout your "improvement", how is it an "improvement"???? It isn't an "improvement", it is a fuck up!!! Fuck all your "improvements", because I don't see any benefits, just limitations with your "improvements"!

CHANGE IS NOT GOOD!!!!


rm_AugustaPoker 53M
14 posts
5/2/2013 4:26 pm

I like the new layout of the profiles ... BUT .... it has lost some functionality.

On the profile, you no longer have the "On IMC" and "View Webcam" icons.

This is a hugh oversight or I hope that it is only an oversight. I am tired of AdultFriendFinder removing functionality everytime it upgrades.


rm_AugustaPoker 53M
14 posts
5/19/2013 7:20 am

I hate it that AdultFriendFinder keeps on removing functionality off of the website. These are the ones that I know of, so this is not an exclusive list:
No IMC status on a person's profile.
No Webcam status on a person's profile.
The length of a video is no long listed in the icon.
Cannot search on the length of a video.
Cannot search on the ethenticiy of a video.
There is others, just cannot remember them ATM.

I have Emailed AdultFriendFinder on this before and never recieved a real response. I received the normal canned response we will look into this.

Please can AdultFriendFinder respond on why they have to remove functionality when it works.

Thanks.


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
5/20/2013 2:48 am

    Quoting rm_AugustaPoker:
    I hate it that AdultFriendFinder keeps on removing functionality off of the website. These are the ones that I know of, so this is not an exclusive list:
    No IMC status on a person's profile.
    No Webcam status on a person's profile.
    The length of a video is no long listed in the icon.
    Cannot search on the length of a video.
    Cannot search on the ethenticiy of a video.
    There is others, just cannot remember them ATM.

    I have Emailed AdultFriendFinder on this before and never recieved a real response. I received the normal canned response we will look into this.

    Please can AdultFriendFinder respond on why they have to remove functionality when it works.

    Thanks.
Hello, The Tech dept is working on putting the IMC/Cam/Chatting status back on member's profile page. It will be back soon. Hope this helps, Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


foxeyatfifty 67F

7/5/2013 3:32 pm

Since this is called the " Community shit list " I think by now you would have the technology to remove a members question, immediately when profile deleted. To give room for some sensible question or just some humorous one. Some days the whole advice line is full of profiles that have been removed or deleted.

Have a great horny day LUV


rm_Llalbert36 48M
1 post
8/11/2013 2:31 am

hey members, i just wanted share with the community. I have been a loyal member since 2002 and have been successful with making acquaintances with men and women all through out the country. Recently, i was approached by to men to meet on continuous days. Something was fishy,one man was removed from site and both men had recently joined. After the day progressed and events came to pass, I concluded that they were law enforcement. I have no idea why involve me i sting operation, i meet people to explore my sexual nature and it is no way business. I am writing this out of concern for my fellow members, be careful and do a little research on others. It is disappointing to know that the law has invaded our site for their advantage. Remain safe, Lee


tangie247 58F  
633 posts
10/7/2013 7:40 pm

The women in the south chatroom. They turn on women who are thinner than them and are mean and nasty when confronted. I think elementary school is long past by the time they come here. I left that chat group as they ostracized a friend of mine and I couldn't sit by and watch it anymore.

Tangie247


rm_AugustaPoker 53M
14 posts
12/3/2013 4:36 pm

Good gawd, these new friends network and hotlists are terrible!! Where is the requests pending and denied list? Why am I not able to sort by distance anymore? No more direct page links nor a quick way to go to the end of the list?

I used to be able to sort the hotlist by last visited and the inactives were at the end. Select all and delete. Now I cannot do that. I have to load up 20 at a time and go through the list.

Sorting my friends by distance is a joke. I live in Georgia and the first 5 on the list are: York, PA; Canton, Ohio; Taiwan; Thailand; Indiana. No mileage listed either.

The ONLY upside is that I can see all the friends that are inactive or no longer on the site so I can delete them.

This is so frustrating because it seems that this site wants to take away more and more functionality with every "improvement". Reminder, improvements are suppose to be just that, improvements. Making some pretty little script that changes the appearance is NOT an improvement.


Hotblonde4U2have 56F
660 posts
12/15/2013 9:16 am


strongarms3739 48M
1 post
3/16/2014 1:33 pm

[1947155] [Strongarms] i would like to see the site clear up all fake or fraudulent profiles. Certainly I've sadly been scammed but the sites reaction to
That was to deactivate the users account until she uploaded a new photo. Which I've included in this post as she is a fraud and has been at this for over 5 years on this site and it's affiliates as well as being very recognisable in Russia. This person cost me a small fortune and is now listed on a database of known scammers at various scammers sites like stop scammers.com not advertising. I'd advise all genuine members to do a photo search through google or yahoo or any image finding site to confirm authenticity before entering into any long term communication with anyone. I am however very disappointed that no action from the site was taken to remove this scammer despite all evidence I presented them with. Which was a lot. So hopefully all real members won't be bothered by so many fake profiles and scammer profiles.


MidTNCD 57T
4 posts
7/10/2014 10:13 pm

i'm having trouble viewing other folks webcams. The window comes up, and, if they have the sound on, i can hear them, but nothing shows up in the window. This has been going on for about a week now.

thanks.


sexxxcellence 51M/44F
72 posts
9/9/2014 7:09 pm

hi there community,
when are our photos going to stop flipping themselves onto their side…?! does the manage photos area possibly know that's a favorite position of mine…? frustrated, but not flipping out…

also, new albums are not appearing in my photo manager, and therefore i cannot manage them as they desire to me managed…

cheers!
kim

live and let love...


izzie1 52M
599 posts
9/30/2014 7:07 pm

I have a question and can't seem to find a place to post it... I think here might be ok...
What if I don't want to be on someones hotlist?
Can I delete that? Can I untag myself? I get I should be happy to be recognized but I think some do it just for numbers... not really feeling that.

Do me a favor...go look at one of my other posts and make a comment... please...


anastasia666 46F
2231 posts
9/3/2015 3:42 am

    Quoting  :

Hello,

It seems there are 2 versions of what is going on. 1 that this is a simple glitch affecting some members. 2 That there is a new game where you can sell your points so points are NOT being given daily. 3 In the UK members are still getting their daily points.

To help you get a better answer why not try posting to the Site Support Blog ? They can help you better.

Have a Great Day,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


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