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The Community Shit List
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If you name a handle in the blogs it can be reported for abuse. I don't recommend it. Ryan aka Community is not in the abuse dept so I suggest you continue to report hate mail directly to the abuse dept for appropriate action.
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I think the number of "hate" messages IS growing and the number of people NOT reading profiles is growing, due in part to the "guarantee" to get laid and the sign saying "sex starved sluts" on the door. Many have complained about those that belong on the "community shit list" due to the abusive behavior and there is no way of knowing WHO will be the jerk to send it, especially unsolicited. They see those things and automatically lose all respect for those on there.. thank Goodness it is not ALL.. but it is way too many on here. We are NOT all here to screw anyone and everyone, and unfortunately many don't see it that way.
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I suggest the site IMPROVE the features it has instead of adding uselss ones, like the alert tool bar at the bottom of the page C'mom so useless.. I want to see the featured ability to delete individual winks/hotlist.. I still get these 2 assholes hotlisting me, when I have told them and blocked them from any contact.. but they are still there.. its like they cant let go.. shit we never even meet
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WOW! the only SHIT LIST i have been on in quite awhile have been the tail end of a few trains after my ass was left gaping and dripping what all the guys shot in it!!!! I have never gotten hate mail here... and in chat we just work it out....it would be nice to get some hate mail knowing that some members would be enraged enough to track me down and HATE FUCK ME! (i know i am sick, but i love a good angry fuck session) but in america i can do that! o well maybe after some read this, they will!
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3/18/2010 9:31 pm |
sick and tired of all the spammers from ghana....cancelling my membership
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Being a single male, I've finally found a home for my "leper" status. THANK GOD! Now, I can always come here to (AdultFriendFinder) & find useless flirts from the other side of the globe... Being single, I get to come here to be discriminated against by "couples", by either paying a "pimp" fee, or I can automatically be "disqualified" in the arena of swinger parties. PAY-PAY-PAY. Yesterday, I had a user ask me to send money to her mama in the Phillipines FIRST...THEN we could meet. I declined. Another bait & switch. Single women here, the good lookin' ones anyway, are all promoting some bull$hit cam site... Couples here, are really guys looking for another hole to fill under the guise of providing a playmate for his bitch. Everyone else is afraid to actually meet. Now, I must go put my nuts in a blender for some REAL stimulation! Shitlist? Good job! No toilet can properly operate without it...as I'm ready to flush twice...It's a long way to AdultFriendFinder corporate HQ!
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4/18/2010 12:01 pm |
I always thought that calling members out by name was a no no,even ib blogs,looks like I was wrong
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I always thought that calling members out by name was a no no,even ib blogs,looks like I was wrong Read back in the comments and you will find that all of us on the list have given our permission. If not directly here, then at least in other areas. Besides, what are they going to do? Ban his blog?  It is not against the TOU to use another member's handle, btw. Just be prepared to have the comment or post deleted if they don't like it and if it is found to be harassing in any way, you can be banned.
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4/26/2010 2:42 pm |
Ryan has my permission. Read back in the comments and you will find that all of us on the list have given our permission. If not directly here, then at least in other areas. Besides, what are they going to do? Ban his blog? It is not against the TOU to use another member's handle, btw. Just be prepared to have the comment or post deleted if they don't like it and if it is found to be harassing in any way, you can be banned.
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Being a single male, I've finally found a home for my "leper" status. THANK GOD! Now, I can always come here to (AdultFriendFinder) & find useless flirts from the other side of the globe... Being single, I get to come here to be discriminated against by "couples", by either paying a "pimp" fee, or I can automatically be "disqualified" in the arena of swinger parties. PAY-PAY-PAY. Yesterday, I had a user ask me to send money to her mama in the Phillipines FIRST...THEN we could meet. I declined. Another bait & switch. Single women here, the good lookin' ones anyway, are all promoting some bull$hit cam site... Couples here, are really guys looking for another hole to fill under the guise of providing a playmate for his bitch. Everyone else is afraid to actually meet. Now, I must go put my nuts in a blender for some REAL stimulation! Shitlist? Good job! No toilet can properly operate without it...as I'm ready to flush twice...It's a long way to AdultFriendFinder corporate HQ! Some men wonder why their attitudes are a part of the problem here?
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8/31/2010 11:21 am |
Ok...someone help me here a minute? I am good looking man...have always had success with the ladies...but my question is...why so many women seeking only a pic? Once sent...often never hear from them again...or many say..I look just like their uncle? Whats up wiht this...I dont understand why they want the picS ?
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Ok...someone help me here a minute? I am good looking man...have always had success with the ladies...but my question is...why so many women seeking only a pic? Once sent...often never hear from them again...or many say..I look just like their uncle? Whats up wiht this...I dont understand why they want the picS ? Women want pics because no matter who or how many 'before' have said you are 'good looking'.. WE ALL ARE DIFFERENT and no matter how much you think sex is just about genitals.. or personality.. LOOKS DO COUNT!! It is not everything, it is not the end all.. but it DOES count. You can have the nicest personality but if you look like Quasimodo 'many' women are not going to have sex with you. If you remind them of someone they dislike (same for both sexes on this one) they are MAY NOT going to go out with you. By the SAME right.. you can be gorgeous and be total ARSEHOLE..and they won't go out with you. LOOKS are the FIRST contact between people. NO ONE goes into a bar and finds the ugliest person and hopes they have 'personality'. I am going to bet you are not contacting women you do not find 'appealing' now are you??? BUT ALSO KEEP IN MIND.. the people asking you for pics may NOT be women!!! You have no clue who it is on the other end and there ARE pic collectors and fakes on this site. There ARE gay men and straight men both that pose as women to get either pics or to earn the ability to look at profiles. But I honestly am NOT going to 'meet' with anyone I have absolutely NO CLUE what you look like and be left sitting in a restaurant all alone wondering what exactly is going to land at MY table.
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WHAT IN H-E-double-L IS HAPPENING HERE??? No COLOR, NO BLING TO SHARE FROM EMAILS, NO SPELL CHECK, NO PREVIEW AND THE SMILEY'S ARE FROZEN... REVAMPING AGAIN? HEY, WHAT GIVES, YA'LL??? I am who I am, It is what it is, and if you don't like me, or what I post, well...THAT is not MY problem.
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Check out Some personal opinions andor personal observations on my blog (and read the comment, too. It was written by a very close friend of mine -- the comment, I mean). I think you might find that you are not alone. **And to 'kabe', maybe you just don't look exactly like what she's looking for...** I am who I am, It is what it is, and if you don't like me, or what I post, well...THAT is not MY problem.
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9/24/2010 11:09 am |
I am new to AdultFriendFinder and really appreciate the honesty of some of the people. There are jerks though who don't read that happens everywhere. I have always responded that is not what I am looking for and happy hunting to them and get good responses back. It takes alittle kindness to get some back I say. So to all of you Happy Hunting. However please beware of the scams from the Philipines I was one of the unlucky few, shame on me but please take heed. Also AdultFriendFinder should not post recent new members that have not been on for three months, I check everyday and thats what matters I am really looking, people that haven't been on in 3 months were either lucky or just a whim.
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WHAT THE HELL...This site is going downhill really fast. I have met some really nice people but, there are so many fake profiles. Current stats in the past month: Hotlisted 32 times and 30 of those profiles were fakes, flirted with well over 150 times and only 10 were real profiles. This is not what I signed up for.
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WHAT THE HELL...This site is going downhill really fast. I have met some really nice people but, there are so many fake profiles. Current stats in the past month: Hotlisted 32 times and 30 of those profiles were fakes, flirted with well over 150 times and only 10 were real profiles. This is not what I signed up for.
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I was just bored and browsing and came along this post. Nassy I so agree with what you've said. I've been on this site for over 5yrs on and off. Ive had pics up changed them and always depending on what they were the emails would either be more or less. Some would perhaps be just rude. And when I didnt have a picture emails seem to be less. When I was a paying member and I had photos in an album and they could only see being in my network my network grew and never heard from a lot of them but always knew my pics were being looked at by the number views. So they got deleted. A lot of guys are picture collecting so Ive learned to be careful. Always be yourself
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3/1/2011 11:20 am |
How to deal with someone from Ghana....make a reference to the World Cup soccer tournament: "Gyan To Take The Penalty.....He Shoots, HE SUCKS ! . "Osama Bin Laden was arrested in Ghana and given the death penalty. Unfortunately, Mensah took the kick." . Then for good measure, throw in the first two lines of Uruguay's national anthem. . "Orientales, la patria o la tumba! Libertad o con gloria murir! (Easterners, the country or the tomb! Liberty or die with glory!)
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Don't you think that who & how you are as a person effects who contacts you?  Me i've been genuine & honest on here, showing face pic & no porn pics since 'day1', yes there's your idiots that are full of it! Anything to get to fuck you!{Pretty normal for a man on or off the net!} But on the whole i've had a good response & from some nice blokes !Duno, hasn't been the case much in my life but on these sites{I am a member on other sites too}it seems to be a case of 'You get Out of it what You put In to it  .Mind you alot of things about cyber life are better than in the Real Life/World, in my opinion!!  XX  XXX X VW XX
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Oh BTW the comment under this one hopefully? Was a comment as to what 'kabe' had written in his comment? LMVSFAO Sorry should have put this in the original post but clean forgot!! I am Blonde so cut me a bit of slack eh?LOL Cheers XX XXX X VW XX
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I've been getting winks from 'members' with "Milley" somewhere in the name - and a 3 digit number at the end. Two or tree of them a day, with that number increasing by 1 each time. Most of them inactive within an hour of the wink being flashed at me. Thanks, AdultFriendFinder, for switching them off so quickly. But --- Couldn't you recognise the Computer IP number these come from and block any further applications to join from these spambot machines??? These fake profiles are a nuisance to real people who can recoginse that it's a con. But there will be some genuine members who fall for their false flattery and part with their money.
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5/21/2011 3:27 pm |
This site is a fraud...It is complicit in misleading information, untrue identities, and if you call them on the phone to tell them so, and ask for your money to be refunded, they hang up on you!!! Save your money, time and don't enrich them!!! It's a scam.
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7/5/2011 3:38 am |
I have been trying to clean and clear my handle off of this site and google searches and I am wondering will they ever take hold and associated sites remove my handle name permanently off or am I forever cursed with this?
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I guess I have more of a question than a blog comment. What is the protocol for no shows? I read earlier, here, that 3rd time is out. I would agree with that. I don't really want to name names or comment on the profile... but women should be warned that this man is a poser. Is there a proper and polite way to deal with this?
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