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Sacrifices
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Sacrifices I knew when I took up this job overseas, I have to sacrifice plenty of things like leaving my hubby behind, and not being with him all the time. As if when we were together, we hardly hold hands when we walk together. LOL, but the last time he was here, we noticed that we were holding hands every time we get a chance. hehehe... Then of course, I was so happy to be moving overseas, as I've had and been so tired of attending family dos every weeekends. If it is not my family's lunches, breakfast meets, I'd have his family side birthday parties, anniversaries and lunches and dinners. So, it was nice to just spend weekend all by myself and not do anything. Though I did feel a tinge of sadness when I was literrally not invited to attend my niece's engagement party via facebook!! can't blame her can I , when I've not seen the family for the past one year! However, the recent death of a close uncle was the worse ever. Was woken up at 3am by an unknown number on my mobile, and realised that my bro was on the other line, informing me my uncle had passed away a few minutes earlier. He had had a heart seizure past midnight, and died on the way to the hospital. Called my aunt and tried to calm her down and apologised that I couldn't be with her. She said to me, "your uncle did not say good bye and I love him so much.let me cry first. Just allow me to cry before the arrive home. I will get through this and I will be strong for my ." I can just imagine what she goes through, and my thoughts went to my hubby whom I love so much, and I knew what she meant. When everyone else said that I was stupid enough to take up a job in this godforsaken land, he was the only one who said to me, Migration and seeing the world is good, and you need it to be a better person. That was the last conversation I've had with him, and I will remember him for these words. May God bless his soul. And may I not have such calls again in the next 4 months till I come home for my hols. Living overseas has its pros and cons. You sacrifice your family and friends, but you meet new friends - friends that you may not even have a chance to know when you're in KL. Have a good weekend everyone. Love, ASH  |
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SIR TEEZA hmm... never thought of that really. I would have thought that when you go back, you would notice the changes of how things are done, or run, or even changes in your friends. But I know I now have a different type of friends mix here. Who would have thought that I could go out with CEOs of companies without having through AdultFriendFinder and of course no sexual thoughts either  lol One of them is bloody damn good looking, unfortunately he's gay lmao and his partner is my colleague, damn good looking too. Sigh all the girls would drool on them if they ever meet the couple ... heheheOther guys are also good looking... but mostly are married. lol But coming back to the things and people still remain the same after you've left the home for so long...maybe there are those who are contented with what they have. Unlike us that are searching all the time. ASH
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Thanks everyone for the condolences. Was just looking at all my wedding photos, and saw pictures of my beloved Uncle. Going home without him around in June, would be so different for me 
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It also spawns the debate as to whether is is good or bad to call somneone in the middle of the night with news of a tragedy. It is different if it is news that someone close to you has had an accident and is in ICU and every minute counts if you want to pay a visit. But losing sleep serves no purpose at all. But back to your point, I have often envied folks that grow up and live all there lives in the same town and are still buddies with old school mates even when they are as ancient as me. I know jolly well that next time I go back to my home town I can walk into my old local pub and there will be one of my old mates I hung out with during my mispent youth and he will still be sitting at the same table and in the same chair as he was 45 years ago. Of course I wouldnt dare ask if he found it boring. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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I returned home to KL few months ago to attend my cuz's funeral. Heart seizure as well. I learnt not to take things for granted. BTW, if my phone rings after midnight, I know it won't be a good news. Scares me to death.
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Thanks TAN you're right. we can't choose both ways, as it's not supposed to be. I can't have my cake and eat it either. It's a conscious choice I made, I just have to bear the consequences from tha choice. Hope you've had a good weekend. Ash
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Condolences on your Uncle's demise , May he RIP amongst the blessed !
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In living , we have no alternatives except to Choose either way ! Live or Die Right or Wrong Yes or No Young or Old Health or Sickness Rich or Poor There can be no two ways about it !
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